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I don’t know anything about the Canadian system, but SURELY she would meet the criteria for an involuntary psych hold?
If she was in the U.K. I have no doubt she would be costing the state an eye-watering amount of money to keep her locked up and under constant 1:1 supervision.
I guess the main complicating factor is that mental health hospitals aren’t set up to accommodate patients who need a high level of support for medical/mobility reasons (in the U.K., mental health nursing and general nursing are two very different training pathways and they aren’t interchangeable) so I wonder if Kelly exists in a no man’s land? There will be nursing homes for very disabled people, and psychiatric hospitals for the intractably mentally ill, but nowhere that really caters for both.
This is the one thing people ask constantly both in this thread and on every video or forum that discusses her but everyone seems to either forget or gloss over the fact that she has been involuntary and voluntarily committed in the past.
She takes her pills like a good girl, promises to never do it again and winds up back at home.
Yes, part of this is because we (canadians) lack the funds, doctors and facilities, but it's also more complicated than that. The mental health system has been used and abused in the past to take away people's rights and any new involuntary commitment could set a new precedent that then sees anyone sick of their neighbor or spouse having them locked away.
Munchausen is VERY hard to prove, you'd have to be caught on film doing it and even then you could say it was only that once. She's not threatening or attempting suicide*, it's not illegal to harm yourself in these ways (again it's about not wanting to set a precedent for what people can do to their own bodies) and you cannot force anyone to take their pills (even if you kill someone in a schizophrenic episode and are released from a ward you cannot be forced to take medications).
Cases like Kelly's are very rare and while it seems obvious to all of us she needs help, she is an adult, she is not a danger to society and not threatening to kill herself* so unless it is determined that she is not mentally capable of taking care of herself (in a retardation sense, not that she may just flay herself) and is appointed a guardian there is very little they can do that wouldn't open a whole can of legal worms.
*I know what you're all thinking, read my response to Barbarella before holding down your caps button and screaming that this is suicidal.
I think Kelly’s mental illness is much deeper than just being a Munchie. Picking off both your legs, pulling out teeth (and hair) and opening up stumps is horrifying and I doubt it’s attention-based. Something else is driving her. This woman is incredibly mentally ill-who knows what goes on in her head that causes her to destroy herself, but in this case, it feels more complicated than a factitious disorder.
Did you hear her pointing out her stump? She pointed between her legs and said “I pee from here” and it was very very weird. There is no helping her.
I wonder if we’ll ever know when she accomplishes her goal?
She is mentally ill, absolutely but first and foremost she is an addict.
Yes, her addiction is attention and her method of getting it is extreme, but there are few things that push a human to the deepest depths more reliably than an addiction.
It's Munchausen interlaced with the myriad of drugs she's been eating over the years for her real injuries and treatments for her fake ones, it's having no support system (through her own actions) on the outside. It's boredom, its compulsion, its probably a personality disorder or two as well.
Someone with trichotillomania (pulling out their hair) or dermatillomania will tell you they don't like the results of their compulsion, that it hurts to do and can cause irreversible damage, but can't stop themselves from doing so, and that a lot of the pain you just get used to. Same with junkies who use needles, or a body modder who splits their dick in two; it's all just part of feeding the beast.
And this leads back to my *s above as well; she is not suicidal. She has shown by going to the doctors that she has a will to live (not get better, just survive) and you can't be locked up for picking at your own skin. She is an addict and asking why she picks and scratches and digs is like asking why an alcohol goes to the liquor store.
Like a lot of addicts, she's killing her body and like a lot of addicts, the things she's doing to get her fix in themselves are not illegal. An alcoholic can destroy their liver, be in and out of the ICU and can be prescribed treatment but it's not illegal for them to keep drinking, even if you and I know its killing them.