Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

Ive always thought Alex treated Ari more like a pet than a human child. The way she films the kid and talks AT her, relating to her by making stupid noises to get her attention, scratching her head and feeding her. I know people have been saying "b-but that's all she can do". Bullshit. She missed the opportunity to bond when Ari was tiny. Most normal non-self obsessed mothers (who are more or less completely paralysed) would have spent the first year laid up in bed stroking, cooing and kissing their kid.

Alex was out partying while Ari was in the NICU. It seemed like Alex viewed the NICU as free daycare more than anything. I'll use Meg as a comparison again because she's a breath of fresh air and a good point of comparison on some things. Meg spent every hour she could in the NICU with Coco. She made the commute every day. Even 2 weeks in, she was grinning ear-to-ear on the ride there. We never saw that from Alex.

Yeah Noah has seemingly turned a corner but he was nothing without his parents facilitating his learning fatherhood.

We all expected Noah to dip and leave Alex and Ari in the dust. It would've been a hell of a lot easier than what he actually chose to do. He chose the exponentially harder yet exponentially more rewarding path. He chose to better himself and allow Ari to grow up in a loving home. There's stigma around adults moving back in with their parents, around adults relying on their parents for help.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

She's really lucky that this guy is immediately repellent to people (based on our collective reactions) because otherwise this is the stupidest thing she could have done if her goal was to have people not watch the video. Lolcows can't conceive of the Streisand effect.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

is tuna towel something she coined, or is it lifted from here?

 

[blue gopher snakes]

This fucken guy.

I had planned to watch this video and write up a synopsis but gave up a few minutes into it because I can’t listen to this douche bro stutter and stumble his way through it. But seriously if you haven’t watched any of his content I wouldn’t start now. He starts off by complaining bitterly that the r/wheelchairrepunzel subreddit is spelled incorrectly, that they are run by “gatekeeper” mods (who he is mocking with the pictured facial expression), and so he made his own “Reddit page”. He then immediately admits to knowing “nothing” about Alex and claims to just be “scratching the surface.” He accuses the subreddit of refusing to “share information”. Like, wtf HOW?! Just read. With your eyes. Although based on how squished they look under his fat fuck soy face, maybe that’s harder for him than for most.

That was when I gave up. If you want me to suffer looking at your rat-face stuffed under a hat clearly meant to hide your male-pattern baldness for an hour, at least have your shit straight.

He seems like the worst kind of bottom feeder. Alex may be a booze-soaked bog lady posting her (sponsored) baby’s bathtime videos sandwiched between OnlyFans teasers, but at least she’s INTERESTING. People find her antics compelling and provocative enough to archive them for commentary and review. This faggot can’t hold my attention for longer than 45 seconds.

 

[Trombonista]

is tuna towel something she coined, or is it lifted from here?

She coined it.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

She coined it.

Jesus christ, has she no shame?



Don't answer that

 

[often puzzled]

What's the best thing to do when you're criticized? Attack your critic publicly and then follow up with gross lingerie shots, of course!

Alex is in a lavender bustier or similar in a lot of her shots. I know that Alex being half-naked is par for the course in this thread, but I'm putting those shots under spoilers, just because they're more obviously lingerie shots. She's technically wearing more than she often does with her "outfits," but still.

Spoiler: post-shower

Spoiler: random

Reddit has been comparing the designs to SHEIN, but a lot of the Reddit gorls do leave comments on her socials.

Spoiler: Cairo

There was a Reddit thread about Cairo, who hasn't been seen at all recently. Alex can't help reading and responding to Reddit, so we got photos of Cairo today.





Ari is utterly adorable and does not deserve to be filtered like this.

Spoiler: gross boudoir shots (no nudity)

Is this supposed to be sexy? And whoever asked about her boobs is 1) a deviant and 2) being a shitlord. Alex is just too dumb to notice.

Spoiler: grid post image

All the filtering on her face, but she forgot to hide how badly she's peeling on her chest.

Grid post caption:

Spoiler: text of grid post caption (copy-paste)

When men tell women how they should make a living… that’s what is called misogyny.

It’s a really long story that I will probably get into on a podcast or a long form video at some point.

I started doing OF After losing contracts from brands I had long standing relationships with because of different people I was associated with and individuals mass messaging the brands.

At that point, I was making a good living for myself with brand partnerships, and I had to immediately pivot & figure out another source of income.

A lot of my friends had been telling me to do OF as a secondary means of income for a while, even if I was just posting lingerie shoots, which is what I created my brand on Instagram as — disabled body confidence, and being open and accepting of my sexuality as a disabled woman — something I’m passionate about to my core.

At that time, I was going through a time of my life where I was doing a lot of partying and starting to be wild for lack of another word.

Fast forward, I fell in love and unexpectedly got pregnant with our princess.

I uprooted my entire life, decided to move to Chicago to get the best medical care specialists I could to make this pregnancy come to fruition.

And that is just what we did. In the meantime, we received so much hate that it was overwhelming at times. We are not perfect humans, we do not have a perfect relationship, and we are also new parents.

Besides experiencing recovering from a very intense C-section, postpartum depression, and figuring out how to parent, we have been subjected to a mass amount of Internet hate. DCFS reports — saying that we cannot parent because I am disabled and that noah is a drug addict. When the initial calls came in, I spent over $15,000 dollars I didn’t have on a lawyer that did not do too much because I was so scared of losing my child.

Since then, we still have been going through the same thing. Although, we have the parenting thing down. A DCFS person was here yesterday on another report and we have been going through this for the past 13 months. This man on YouTube decided to bring attention to our lives and say that we are exploiting our daughter. (The rest below)

Apparently, this man has harassed several other women that have children and post on social media. And he has brought to attention that I do OF for a living — and that is the reason my daughter is exploited because I promote that on the same platform I post her.

Life is unpredictable and people are full of hate. I know that I am trying my best and I am an imperfect mother, but I love my daughter with every cell in my entire being. And I will fight for her Until the day I die.

Xoxo

That caption is really gross and shows how Ari isn't a person to her, let alone her child. There are also lies, like the bit about moving to Chicago for medical care. She was quite far in pregnancy before she sought care at all and gave up the twerk juice.

Spoiler: comments on post

I still haven't watched that YouTube video, but I assume this guy has an audience that's ready and willing to call CPS. This most recent call may not even have come from Reddit (though I'm sure his audience will quickly find and join the subreddit).

We also had a potentially-drunken TikTok in the common room of her apartment building:

 

[often puzzled]

Not much from Alex today, but she sure does think she looks good in that corset abomination.

Are the people asking where you got it in the room with us right now? Also, if she got it in Chicago "over a year ago" she was either still pregnant or newly postpartum.

Spoiler: corset photo again

I poked around, and I think this is probably it?



Deep Thoughts with Alex:



Possibly a friend, more likely a stranger she coerced into a photo op:



She posted an ask me anything ~4 hours ago but has yet to respond to any questions:

 

[Goatchoker]

Alex buying and owning a corset is so fucking funny to me.


She’s such a piece of shit lol.

 

[Oracular Slug]

Alex buying and owning a corset is so fucking funny to me.


She’s such a piece of shit lol.

An actual corset, custom fitted to her twisted body, would probably actually do her some good as a support she could use without it being an obvious brace. But that would cost at least a grand and require working with a seamstress.

 

[cheeseknuckles]

One of her previous caregivers has given an interview, I am not stupid enough to pay to see it early but stupid enough to care to watch it when it's free

 

[often puzzled]

One of her previous caregivers has given an interview, I am not stupid enough to pay to see it early but stupid enough to care to watch it when it's free

Nice catch! This must be this Hannah interview. It's going to be on The Dad Challenge Podcast's challenge (snapback dudebro): here's a link to his channel.

The announcement from his community tab:



This will be his third video about her; he's already posted a second one:

I still haven't watched any of these, but it's going to be very interesting to see how she responds to this new criticism. This is really exactly the wrong time to try to make money off your kid on social media, with the 8 Passengers/Franke abuse so fresh in everyone's mind.

 

[My cravat doesn't flutter]

An actual corset, custom fitted to her twisted body, would probably actually do her some good as a support she could use without it being an obvious brace. But that would cost at least a grand and require working with a seamstress.

She'd also need help getting in and out of it (more so than regular clothes). Not sure she's got the patience for that. She'd probably stop wearing it after a day or two. I'm sure there's a market for fashionable medical gear, especially for people who have to wear/carry something 'round the clock. With Alex's penchant for nudity, I don't think she'd be the best spokesperson for that sort of thing.

 

[cheeseknuckles]

This guy seems like a fucking idiot but I'm glad her shit is being brought to light

Nice catch! This must be this Hannah interview. It's going to be on The Dad Challenge Podcast's challenge (snapback dudebro): here's a link to his channel.

The announcement from his community tab:

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This will be his third video about her; he's already posted a second one:

I still haven't watched any of these, but it's going to be very interesting to see how she responds to this new criticism. This is really exactly the wrong time to try to make money off your kid on social media, with the 8 Passengers/Franke abuse so fresh in everyone's mind.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Nice catch! This must be this Hannah interview. It's going to be on The Dad Challenge Podcast's challenge (snapback dudebro): here's a link to his channel.

The announcement from his community tab:

View attachment 5908626

This will be his third video about her; he's already posted a second one:

I still haven't watched any of these, but it's going to be very interesting to see how she responds to this new criticism. This is really exactly the wrong time to try to make money off your kid on social media, with the 8 Passengers/Franke abuse so fresh in everyone's mind.

It's up now.

Eta: daaaaang. Alex starts drinking right away in the morning and not long after Hannah started, Alex called to tell her that her mom was drunk, Alex was out drunk and poor Ari was with her mom, alone in the apartment! She also said Ari is generally with Alex when she has her caregiver but then goes to the Smiths.

Eta #2: this is messy as hell. Noah isn't doing as well as we'd hoped. Hannah claims he got Baker Acted and Alex's mom actually punched him and the police were called.

 

[Stroppy Trollop]

Yikes.
So... drunk-ass Alex and her drunk-ass mother are actually useless and completely neglectful.
Noah is still a druggie, violent, BPD asshole--SHOCKING, I KNOW!!!
And, Noah's mom is a massively condescending bitch to everyone.

Ari is totally fucked. Either she stays in the "care" of these monsters OR, she goes into the system and god only knows what will happen to her there.

Good job, Alex and Noah. Sterilize yourselves.

 

[babyTAP]

Can somebody in the know explain why her non functioning hand “stinks like cheese”?

And, Noah's mom is a massively condescending bitch to everyone.

Everyone in Alex’s orbit. Not gonna blame the old dame on this one. She’s surrounded by idiots, including this latest envoy. It’s wildly stupid of Alex to let anybody into her home without the NDA already signed. It’s like she enjoys the chaos and welcomes opportunity for derision.

 

[GenociderSyo]

Can somebody in the know explain why her non functioning hand “stinks like cheese”?

yeast or staph infection?

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Can somebody in the know explain why her non functioning hand “stinks like cheese”?

Everyone in Alex’s orbit. Not gonna blame the old dame on this one. She’s surrounded by idiots, including this latest envoy. It’s wildly stupid of Alex to let anybody into her home without the NDA already signed. It’s like she enjoys the chaos and welcomes opportunity for derision.

Probably because it's sweaty and doesn't get washed often.

I'm having a hard time blaming Noah's mom too. Her dumb druggie son knocked up a drunk potato. I'd be pissed too.

 

[blue gopher snakes]

I read through the transcript of this video and summarized it below:

Hannah applied for the caregiver position after finding it advertised on Craigslist. She did a 3 hour trial period and was subsequently hired. Hannah was not required to submit a resume.

She worked for Alex between 2/17 and 3/11. Hannah was hired to care for Ari AND Alex.

Alex begins drinking alcohol first thing in the morning.

Alex’s mother was staying at Alex’s apartment when Hannah started working for her. Her mom flew out from Chicago to assist Alex because Noah was Baker Acted (held on a forced hold) for punching a hole in Alex’s wall while under the influence. Noah’s father came and patched the hole for Alex. Hannah was given this background information over the phone before she was hired.

Hannah worked between 9am and 1pm. Her hours were eventually extended to 3pm. She was working a second job after her shifts ended at Alex’s apartment. Ari spends the majority of her time with Alex but will travel to Noah’s parents for visits too. If Noah’s parents are unable to take Ari due to a scheduling conflict, she will remain with Alex unsupervised. This fact troubles Hannah because she rightly concludes that Alex would be unable to intervene in the event of an emergency.

While working a shift at her afternoon job, Hannah received texts from Alex disclosing that she was at a restaurant, intoxicated, while her mother (also intoxicated) was at Alex’s apartment with Ari. Alex requested that Hannah join her at the restaurant and she did so. Hannah rushed over, believing that Alex was asking her to care for Ari.

Hannah details how Alex was primarily concerned with getting assistance in using the restroom. She proceeded to piss all over Hannah in the restaurant bathroom and relate how she and her mother had an altercation and that was why they were both getting hammered in separate places. After the bathroom incident, Hannah helps Alex get back to her apartment. Alex apparently became very maudlin and said “I am worse than the Devil.” Hannah was disturbed by this comment, although I personally believe it’s just a sloppy drunk getting weepy rather than a reference to literally being more evil than Satan. Hannah was then confronted by Alex’s mother, drunk and belligerent.

Hannah describes how Alex is drunk all day, from morning until night. She said that Alex is vindictive and cruel. When asked to provide examples, she mentioned Cairo the chihuahua. Apparently the dog is only taken out to eliminate twice daily and will poop multiple times each time he’s taken out because he’s so full of backed up poops. Hannah would badger Alex to allow her to take the dog out more frequently and Alex would deny those requests. Eventually Alex told Hannah to stop asking her about taking Cairo out more frequently.

At this point DCP changed the subject to Noah, and asked for Hannah’s impressions of him. Hannah described his moods as unpredictable. He would “flip a switch” and Hannah did not feel safe with him, especially knowing his criminal history. He vapes inside the house in front of Ari, to Alex’s annoyance, and blows the vape smoke in Ari’s direction. Alex’s mother apparently smokes cigarettes. Hannah suspected she was smoking inside the apartment because she found butts in the laundry room, but only ever observed her smoking in the apartment complex’s parking garage.

Hannah then describes how Ari is covered in bruises and scratches and how Alex cannot account for how she received them.

Apparently Alex’s mother was trying to convince Alex to file a restraining order against Noah and legally pursue sole custody. Alex would nod along but was still in contact with Noah. Hannah alleges that despite any claims to the contrary, Noah and Alex are still involved romantically.

Hannah said that Noah’s mother comes off as very condescending but his father was more kind and gentle.

Hannah asked Noah how they get along without her when she is off the clock and he told her directly that he copes by vaping and doing drugs. She was very concerned that Ari is generally in the care of either a drunk, helpless disabled woman or a drug-addled, violent man, or both.

All the “cooking” content is staged. Hannah would prepare meals and then Alex would sort of slap a spatula over it for the camera to make it appear as though she was more of an active participant.

Hannah was required to pour High Noons (vodka based seltzer cocktail) into Alex’s SMA sippy cups throughout her shift every day. She estimated that she would pour 3-4 every shift. Apparently Alex is a weepy drunk so any crying content is likely filmed while she’s sauced.

Hannah then goes on to relate a specific incident that disturbed her at Ari’s birthday party. She says she picked up Ari’s cake and says it was “the most beautiful cake I have ever seen.” She delivered the cake and put it in the fridge. The place was decorated for the party including gold confetti scattered everywhere including on the floor. Ari put a piece of confetti in her mouth and choked so badly that she vomited down her birthday dress. Alex’s primary concern was that Hannah immediately clean the soiled dress so that it would look presentable for photos later on. Hannah was very disturbed by Alex’s complete lack of concern that Ari could have choked to death on confetti. Alex did not provide or request that Hannah pack a spare outfit for Ari so she crawled around in a diaper until her party outfit was cleaned.

Hannah then briefly returns to Noah’s mother and really seems to believe that she thinks she is better than other people. She got a very poor impression of this woman.

We then hear more about Cairo and how he is lonely and neglected. Hannah feels very sorry for him. Noah agreed that the dog needs more attention and care but Alex would refuse to concede that point whatsoever. Hannah felt so badly for the dog that she offered to take him off their hands but Alex would not agree to let him go.

DCP tries to get Hannah to dish about Alex’s behavior while Ari was in the NICU but she shuts him down, saying that she won’t speak to things she did not witness.

Instead she describes how there was a bedsheet with some photos meant for hanging, all on the floor for weeks. When Hannah was finally directed to help hang the photos, it was discovered that there had been a knife in the bedsheet as well. She was very concerned about how that could have been tragic for Ari had she been the one to discover it.

Then she returns to the subject of Alex’s drinking habits. Alex would order booze at a restaurant downstairs and would also place Instacart orders for her alcohol of choice to be delivered to her apartment. Hannah recounts how she would show the Instacart shopper Alex’s ID (required when you purchase alcohol) whenever orders would arrive.

Hannah next discusses Alex’s permanent state of nudity. She would beg Alex to allow her to dress her appropriately and Alex would deny the requests. Alex goes out wearing a t-shirt and nothing else. She will lean in her chair and expose herself to people in public, which Hannah found very upsetting. When they would be out in public, fans would approach Alex for photos and interactions and Hannah found it distasteful that she would engage in that while having her vagina out. Hannah said that the towel under Alex’s bare ass would be changed multiple times per day. She said that Alex has bladder control and can let people know when she needs to use the toilet.

She says she stayed as long as she did out of concern for Ari and Cairo, but that the situation was so dysfunctional that she probably would have quit before too much longer. Hannah says that the emotional abuse Alex would subject Ari to was very hard to witness. She says that Ari is a an easy baby, that she’s perfect, but that when she would fuss at naptime (as babies do) Alex would call the fussing “pathetic.” Alex would apparently brag to Hannah about how she has had sex with many, many men. Hannah says that Alex said she slept with 20 men before she met Noah. Alex claimed to Hannah that she was actually pursued by Noah and that he was interested in her because she didn’t immediately have sex with him. She claimed that they were “best friends” first before becoming romantically involved. Hannah reiterates that Alex and Noah are still together despite any protests otherwise.

The cheesy hand smell is mentioned but with very little elaboration.

After that, they wrap up the video. DCP makes some reassurances about how Hannah’s identifying information will be held back from his viewers/listeners to protect her privacy. Hannah seems like a nice lady who should probably stop looking for caregiver positions on Craigslist if she wants to work for someone more functional and responsible. She resisted multiple attempts from DCP to speculate or comment on events that took place outside her employment period, aside from instances in which Alex related the details of those events to her directly. She seems credible and I hope she doesn’t face backlash for this interview.