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A caretaker in her situation is mainly there to do her bidding. Unless she told them or they were there for it they would have no reason to even know she has the medication to take.
Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl
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In one of those (horrifying) only fans photos, Alex looked like she was in a crib.
I don’t believe Ari and Noah live there…but if it’s true I’m not so worried if it’s Noah and the baby, and Alex with a caregiver.
She is deteriorating. Lying on the floor like that, it appeared she had very weak use of one hand. She couldn’t pull Ari close enough to cuddle or hug her. To Ari she’s just a big mound of flesh on the floor. Like a dog only without those cool moving ears and and thumping tail.
Alex having to pretend she’s a normal mom is sad. She’d probably get a lot of sympathy and support if she admitted she loves Ari but she’s not able to hold her or do much. and maybe asked for a toddler game suggestion taking into consideration her serious condition and lack of movement and strength. I’m not sure she can do much now besides sing.
Pretending you are in the norm when you are not doesn't work for disabled, deathfats, skellies - nobody. But admitting what you can and can't do makes people respect the struggle.
It’ll never happen though, she’ll pretend to the end.
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I don’t believe Ari and Noah live there…but if it’s true I’m not so worried if it’s Noah and the baby, and Alex with a caregiver.
She is deteriorating. Lying on the floor like that, it appeared she had very weak use of one hand. She couldn’t pull Ari close enough to cuddle or hug her. To Ari she’s just a big mound of flesh on the floor. Like a dog only without those cool moving ears and and thumping tail.
Alex having to pretend she’s a normal mom is sad. She’d probably get a lot of sympathy and support if she admitted she loves Ari but she’s not able to hold her or do much. and maybe asked for a toddler game suggestion taking into consideration her serious condition and lack of movement and strength. I’m not sure she can do much now besides sing.
Pretending you are in the norm when you are not doesn't work for disabled, deathfats, skellies - nobody. But admitting what you can and can't do makes people respect the struggle.
It’ll never happen though, she’ll pretend to the end.
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Alex really fucked up bonding with Ari. There's very little she can do, but the importance of snuggling can't be overstated. Whether it's your brand new baby or a new pet you've just taken home, simply spending time close to them, showing them affection, and - most importantly - making them feel safe is so important. I'm not a mom. The most experience I have the babies is the occasional babysitting gig. Even so, I know that the first line of defense for an upset/scared baby is to comfort them and let them know you're there and they're ok. Be a source of comfort. Snuggling is such a stupidly simple thing yet so damn important. Literally anyone can snuggle in some capacity. Alex managed to fuck up the most basic aspect of bonding with Ari. Now Ari's mobile and just doesn't care.
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If she hasn't got much time left on the clock then I guess Noah is there to wait it out and help record memories because Ari will not remember anything. This is all very sad. She is lucky that Ari has flourished despite the mess she was born into at first.
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That's an interesting aspect, and if it is true then I got to give credit to Noah for actually doing something really considerate and selfless.
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Alex's offering for today:
Because this is obviously a great way to hold a toddler.
Also, Ari isn't remotely fitting in that shirt she's shoved in. You can see in the mirror behind them that her entire lower half is hanging out. Child safety who?
Because this is obviously a great way to hold a toddler.
Also, Ari isn't remotely fitting in that shirt she's shoved in. You can see in the mirror behind them that her entire lower half is hanging out. Child safety who?
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Haha! My kid is pulling at my eyelashes! Relatable mom life! Heehee!
I assume Noah is indulging her out of pity.
I assume Noah is indulging her out of pity.
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I'm surprised she's not going for the necklace. Or the earrings. Poor kid probably just wants out. Toddlers aren't too fond of being restrained.
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Holy shit. Angry Ari could hurt her badly before anyone could untangle her from that shirt...
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The time for snuggle poses has passed Alex by. Toddlers don’t want to be confined like this unless they are unwell. They have shit to do, messes to make, weaknesses in your babyproofing to discover and exploit.
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The chaos era is upon her. She has no damn idea what is about to transpire. Fucking hilarious.
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Terrible Twos and Fuck This Threes.
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I've seen them referred to as threenagers.Terrible Twos and Fuck This Threes.
How likely is Alex to still be alive when Ari turns 3? Or even 2? She's been living on borrowed time for a few years already. Knowing how Alex likes to pretend everything's fine and dandy and she's living her best life just like any able-bodied person, if her health were to seriously decline, she probably wouldn't say it.
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Lolcows have an incredible ability to far out live lifespan calculations. You have exceptions, like Chance Carmichael who ate himself to death because he found it sexually arousing, or that poor lass Julie who killed herself to escape abuse, but generally, lolcows survive multiple crises that would destroy lesser individuals.
That said, Alex is a binge drinker who struggles with swallowing and breathing at the best of times. She refuses to take her medication and is so unbearable on a personality level that she can't keep care staff, regardless of their abilities or lack there of. She has gone sharply downhill following the birth of Ari, both physically and mentally.
So yeah. Alex could have a ways left to go if she has that famed lolcow immunity... but honestly, if she's still around for Ari's third birthday, I'm skipping rent that week and buying all the lotto tickets instead.
I've said it before, but as repellent as Alex is on a personal level, she got severly fucked over when the Moirai spun her thread.
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I think a lot of Alex's shitty entitlement is probably the result of being coddled and doted on as a child. She probably got a lot of praise for doing simple things that would seem menial to able-bodied kids. She probably got a lot of special attention. The effect that has on someone who's only physically disabled but intellectually normal is different from the effect it has on someone who's severely autistic or has Down's syndrome.
I think Alex's drinking could play a significant part in her death. Her wheelchair - a motorized vehicle - is essentially a part of her body. If she tips that thing over, she isn't physically capable of protecting herself. It would be all to easy for her to drive herself into traffic if she's not paying attention. She can't jump out of the way of a moving car like your or I can. That's the most worrying part of her binge drinking to me - the fact that she is almost constantly in control of a motorized vehicle.
eta: I don't fault the people who gave Alex special attention and praised her for doing small things. While working at an amusement park, I met a little girl (about 6yo) with MS. Her parents and I absolutely celebrated finding a single ride she could go on. People like that give you a greater appreciation for little things like that.
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It's kinda bullshit that you can get a DUI on a bicycle because you can run someone down and hurt them while biking drunk, but Alex gets a pass even though her chair is capable of a lot more damage than a bike, probably.
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The reasoning is probably that's it's ableist because she needs that wheelchair and disabled people have just as much of a right to get shitfaced as able-bodied people do.
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