Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

This raises so many questions. It's an... interesting mode of transit.
A girl I grew up with used to ride to school on a motorized cooler. She would stick her backpack in the cooler and sit astride it and off she’d zoom. She had her license and even had access to a car but she loved how irrationally angry it made people that she chose to drive a cooler instead. She’d lock it up in the bike rack area next to all the normal bikes. I think if Alex would have been born normal, she probably still would have her same “fuck you I do what I want” kind of attitude.

Riding a horse while drunk is a DUI, even if the horse is sober. The horse is in control, its sobriety should be the important part. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
If you’re not buying a beer for your horse after it walked you all the way to the dive bar, you’re a bad friend. And Willie will give you a nasty look, which is even worse.
 
A girl I grew up with used to ride to school on a motorized cooler. She would stick her backpack in the cooler and sit astride it and off she’d zoom.
Well, that cooler has more utility than a power wheels. It can store food and drinks and keep them cool. I imagine sitting on that thing was more comfortable than cramming oneself into a toy car.
 
The reasoning is probably that's it's ableist because she needs that wheelchair and disabled people have just as much of a right to get shitfaced as able-bodied people do.
Oh I get the reasoning, I'm just saying that logically, if the point is to protect others, she could do a lot more damage with that chair. But I understand it's not an apt comparison since she HAS to be in the chair. She could still really hurt some people, though.
 
Alex lives up to the thread subtitle again by posting an inspiring (if untrue) Instagram caption, which she followed up with an OnlyFans promo.

The grid post:

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Navigating your life as a disabled adult can be very challenging.

A lot of people look in at my life and make assumptions. People making assumptions about your life is the pinnacle of being a disabled person after all.

A lot of people assume that if I am out of my home doing activities that I always have a caregiver or family/friend with me. However, my entire life I go out to eat, to the beach, to different events by myself quite frequently. Going out on my own really gives me a sense of independence that a lot of non-disabled people feel on a daily basis because they do not have to rely on another human being to have their basic needs met.

Even when I was in high school and younger, I always would ask for the help of a classmate board things I needed in the classroom, such as grabbing a book out of my bag, instead of needing to have an aid with me 24 hours a day.

I’ve carried that into my adult life with simply asking a the server to put my beverage in a smaller cup, or move it a little bit closer to me. Or asking someone at the supermarket to grab an item off a shelf for me. Or putting in a request that the chef cut my burger in half. Simple little things that allow me to be out and about without needing to ask someone to accompany me. Everyone that I ever asked for assistance is so incredibly kind and receptive. Obviously if you are an introvert, it can be difficult to encourage to ask for help, but from my experience, it is so worth it, and humans can be incredibly kind.

I used to be nervous to ask for a small accommodation, until I realize what is the worst thing that can happen? Most people are more than receptive and are happy to help.

I wanted to make this post, because I wish younger me had seen this type of encouragement sooner to pursue my independence and not be afraid to ask for help 💓

The comments aren't having it. They note-- correctly-- that she's seldom alone in the great outdoors. A few commenters want to know how someone with a toddler is ever alone. Like the commenters, I call BS on this one: she might occasionally go for a drunken roll, but she's pretty much never alone. There's no shame in that, so why lie?

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Then, because mama needs her beer money, she posted her thong sunburn (I think that's what I'm looking at here?) with the caption "oops" and "link in bio" (the OnlyFans link):

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And, finally, a rant about a local drugstore. I can believe that the staff at Walgreens was pissy, but I can believe even more easily that Alex was being a half-naked braying entitled jackass in the store:

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Oh I get the reasoning, I'm just saying that logically, if the point is to protect others, she could do a lot more damage with that chair. But I understand it's not an apt comparison since she HAS to be in the chair. She could still really hurt some people, though.
That's one reason I'm glad Ari doesn't live with her. Alex could easily kill her with that thing.
The comments aren't having it. They note-- correctly-- that she's seldom alone in the great outdoors. A few commenters want to know how someone with a toddler is ever alone. Like the commenters, I call BS on this one: she might occasionally go for a drunken roll, but she's pretty much never alone. There's no shame in that, so why lie?
Alex desperately wants the world to believe she - and all of the disabled people she lumps together - can live the same life as able-bodied people. Some disabled people can live relatively normal lives - gonna use Meg as an example again - but some just can't and there is nothing wrong with that. I'm used to seeing shows like Echo showing unrealistic worlds where society bends over backwards to accommodate disabilities and showing disabled people living unrealistically normal lives. It's so weird seeing a real disabled person trying to play into that fantasy.
 
She’s a poor writer, aside from being a fantasist.

Example: as a high school kid and younger, she’d ask her schoolmates for help, things like grabbing books, so much so that she didn’t need an aide. Everybody was helpful and to this day she can just ask people for help and they always do. Then she ends with she wishes her younger self had seen how kind people were so she wouldn’t be afraid to ask for help?

What about all those people she just mentioned in school? Make it make sense!
 
Like the commenters, I call BS on this one: she might occasionally go for a drunken roll, but she's pretty much never alone. There's no shame in that, so why lie?
Her hair looks like shit and she has no sunscreen on. Maybe another Care.com carer bailed on her? That’s a stroller wheel behind her, so I hope that Noah at least put sunscreen on his extremely fair baby girl even if he couldn’t bring himself to touch Alex’s leather.
Then, because mama needs her beer money, she posted her thong sunburn (I think that's what I'm looking at here?)
I think it’s a sideways photo of her collarbone area. With the crease being her armpit. Her tits don’t exist/lay where they should, so the chest looks uncanny and flat.
 
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Her hair looks like shit and she has no sunscreen on. Maybe another Care.com carer bailed on her? That’s a stroller wheel behind her, so I hope that Noah at least put sunscreen on his extremely fait baby girl even if he couldn’t bring himself to touch Alex’s leather.
What does she even do between carers? I doubt they give a 2 week notice. Now she can call Noah, but what about before? What's the average tenure for her carers?
I think it’s a sideways photo of her collarbone area. With the crease being her armpit. Her tits don’t exist/lay where they should, so the chest looks uncanny and flat.
It's like looking at Tess Holliday's new tattoos - a guessing game of "what body part am I looking at?"
 
What does she even do between carers? I doubt they give a 2 week notice. Now she can call Noah, but what about before? What's the average tenure for her carers?

It's like looking at Tess Holliday's new tattoos - a guessing game of "what body part am I looking at?"
Yeah I also vote for sternum. I think she's advertising that you can see her tan lines in full at OnlyFans. Which, like, maybe. But she's pretty much the color and texture of calfskin leather all over.
 
Thanks for the corrections: Alex's anatomy is confusing, and she posts the least-seductive photos I've ever seen. If you're playing guess the body part, it's no longer seductive. It's just weird.

She updated with some photos of herself being "sexi" (I think she's trying to avoid the censor with that spelling) and a so-called "mini vlog" showing her day.

We start, of course, with a selfie:

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Then we have her scratching Ari's head like she's a dog, which is extremely weird:

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Then someone shoved a toy in Ari's hand so they could snap another photo and let Alex tag a potential sponser:

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Then we have the grid post:

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A comment thread on that post:

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Caption for the mini-vlog grid post:

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The video:



It's interesting that she credits the carer but never credits Noah for anything. What's even more interesting is that she calls herself a "mom" in that clip but doesn't mention Ari or show anything about her. There's not even any kid stuff visible.
 
Thanks for the corrections: Alex's anatomy is confusing, and she posts the least-seductive photos I've ever seen. If you're playing guess the body part, it's no longer seductive. It's just weird.

She updated with some photos of herself being "sexi" (I think she's trying to avoid the censor with that spelling) and a so-called "mini vlog" showing her day.

We start, of course, with a selfie:

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Then we have her scratching Ari's head like she's a dog, which is extremely weird:

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Then someone shoved a toy in Ari's hand so they could snap another photo and let Alex tag a potential sponser:

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Then we have the grid post:

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A comment thread on that post:

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Caption for the mini-vlog grid post:

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The video:

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It's interesting that she credits the carer but never credits Noah for anything. What's even more interesting is that she calls herself a "mom" in that clip but doesn't mention Ari or show anything about her. There's not even any kid stuff visible.
I also like how she said, “she helped me meal prep a bit.”

Bitch, she just made the whole ass meal. Stop devaluing your carers and maybe they’d stay for longer than a millisecond.
 
I also like how she said, “she helped me meal prep a bit.”

Bitch, she just made the whole ass meal. Stop devaluing your carers and maybe they’d stay for longer than a millisecond.
It's that sense of entitlement. Her parents cared for her when she was a kid because that's in the job description. She could be as much of a brat as she wanted and her parents had a duty to care for her. Now she's an adult and doesn't understand that she is not entitled to have someone care for her. Caregivers are wonderful to have, but she's not entitled to one. You're their employer. They have as much of a right to quit as any other person working any other job.
 
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