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Sorry I'm retarded, but this is an update on the AGP troon relative. (An only child)
Recap: My male relative comes out as trans and his family doesn't take it well. His mom is practically my second mom, and we grew up together.
It's been about 3 years since I last posted, and I'm sad to say that he has only gotten worse since then.
He larps more as a woman now, after he has browbeaten his poor parents into numbness regarding this issue. In fact, they flew out of the country during Chinese New Year to avoid all the questions.
This is more sad than sideshow, but recently, his mom had her cancer relapse, (She had undergone at least 3 surgeries and her cancer is the aggressive type) and she had been hospitalised. (She's a housewife)
His mother now refuses to go for surgery to remove the cancerous cells, and opted for a treatment with a 10% success rate because she's too depressed and tired. According to the doctors, she doesn't have long left.
After her discharge, I've been going to her house to clean up and declutter (because they are all hoarders). Cleaning and throwing and reorganising is hard work, there's stains from probably years ago, and his mom is too sick and in constant pain to maintain the house. It's so messy and so depressing. Even entering the house makes you feel sad.
Through all this, he stays in his air-conditioned room, gaming and doing what not. He only comes out when there's food and doesn't help his mom at all.
Today, my sister and I went to visit and help with household chores and cleaning. His mom was in constant pain, and she still cooked dinner, served us and washed up while her sweat poured down her face. (She preferred to do the cooking and clean-up herself)
Meanwhile, my sister goes to the troon's room and gets shown some more lesbian manga that are "important" to him.
I really wonder if this selfishness and narcissism comes from the porn-addicted male brain, because his mom constantly suffers in pain and he doesn't even try to help her with what she needs. It's so ironic that he feels like he's a woman while displaying all the selfishness of a male basement dweller. (I know female aidens are as bad, but still.)
Each time I come, he asks me if his mom is forcing me to come. And I always tell him no, because his mom is dearly beloved to me and I want to help her and spend time with her.
I have the rest of my life to work/build experience and run the corporate rat race and die. Each day I go home, I feel my heart breaking as I see how his mom struggles in that horrible house, numb because of his troonery, and too depressed and tired to live. I spend a good 6+ hours cleaning, and it barely looks any better.
I want to tell him that when his mother passes, her blood is on his hands. I hate transgender ideology, and my heart breaks for the families of these narcissistic skinwalkers.