Understanding?
Discussion
For about a year we have been dealing with our wife and what we thought was just being trans... I have 2 kiddos and our wife has not been very supportive. I posted on here and someone mentioned being plural/did/OSDD... Because of this we have been doing research and found that almost everything fit perfectly with being plural.
I (the host and dominant front) am AMAB, my only alt (that I truly know of, I suspect there are others but not confirmed yet) is female. She (Samantha my Alt) has been with me since I was a kid. But due to my living situation I had kept her locked away for most of our life. A year ago I let her out and promised not to ever lock her away again. I'm slowly transitioning to more of an androgynous look so we both can be comfortable in our body together. So I and me has turned into we and us slowly.
Our wife has been having a hard time accepting her as part of me especially in the bedroom... I have been telling my wife what Sam has been saying and what she wants both in and out of the bedroom. When I specified things as coming from Sam it kinda of bothers her and she (our wife) has been flat out refusing to acknowledge Sam and her wants and needs in this relationship. But last night she literally catered directly to Sam... Modified from what was being asked, but damn near, and it was amazing! The statement was made from both me and Sam that we would trust the favor... Our wife actually asked which one of us was doing the repaying...
It took us by surprise! The fact that she actually acknowledged both of us! I'm really hoping that this means she is starting to either understand or acknowledge that it's not just the body she sees but at least 2 of us in here both loving her! Granted with both is in here it's safe to say we are bisexual but our wife is our anchor and the one we chose to travel this life with together.... We are really hoping this new development is acceptance on her part.