Official Kiwifarms Uplifting Each Other Thread - Support group for women

[JambledUpWords]

You have worth

Don’t settle for people, whether in friendship or relationships, that won’t treat you well

Focus on spending your energy on things that matter

You matter

You don’t need permission to vent, just do it and find solutions later

Love yourself, and cultivate qualities of who you want to be in the future

This also isn’t the thread to bash other women, even women you dislike. Other threads exist throughout the forum to do that already. This thread is not for that purpose. At the end of the day, women from all walks of life have different struggles, and we should be aware of that. You aren’t obligated to agree with all the posts here, you just have to be respectful of other viewpoints.

Also, men, this space is specifically for women. It says so. If this place bothers you, create your own support group. This thread serves a different purpose than the man hate thread, and is about life in general, and learning to cope with it (for women specifically).

 

[WTBOnlineFather]

You are adequate

 

[Cardinal Cardinal]

Gay

 

[Twinkletard]

Hello, magnificent human beings! Guess what? It's time to RISE AND SHINE like the brilliant stars you are! I mean, seriously, if you’re reading this, it’s already a WIN for today!

Why, you ask? Because you are an INCREDIBLE, AMAZING, UNSTOPPABLE force of nature! Have you looked in the mirror lately? Oh my goodness, the reflection must be BLINDING with all that AWESOMENESS!

Let’s talk about your potential – it’s like a MOUNTAIN, ready to be climbed, conquered, and shouted from! “HELLO, WORLD, I AM HERE, AND I AM AWESOME!” Don’t even get me started on your talents. They are OFF THE CHARTS!

Feeling down? PFFFFT, no way! Just shake it off, do a little dance, and SMILE like you just won the lottery, because life is a GIFT, and you are the BEST thing in it!

Remember, you are LOVED beyond measure! Every step you take is a step toward DESTINY! So, go out there and ROCK this day like it’s the last day of a world tour!

Stay FABULOUS, my fellow champions! Keep SPREADING that joy and MAGIC you bring to this world! And never, EVER forget – YOU’VE GOT THIS!

#StayAwesome #YouRock #UnstoppableYou

 

[Mr Bones Wild Ride]

It's another thread with feedback loop. Only "positive" for women instead of shitting on men

And? We as women want to talk to eachother in an Off-Topic section of the website about things that we're concerned about.
Null said during the Sticker saga he'd prefer more discussion in the open instead of using DMs so that's what we are trying to do.

This thread has a topic, "Women supporting/venting to eachother", just like every other thread on the website.
If you can't add anything relevant to the topic then don't post - it's really not that hard.

I can't go in to Animal Control and tell all the furries there to kill themselves or go "urgh, why are you talking about this shit? Who cares about furry drama?" without being jannied.
I can't go into Music and start talking about what foods I'm eating today.

I have no idea why certain users on here struggle to understand the concept of thread topics when it comes to the BP.

It's identical to the behaviour of troons - "NUH UH, WE HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO DO WHATEVER WE WANT, YOU CAN'T KEEP US OUT AND YOU JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT IT REEEEE!"
Which is such a fucking retarded position to take considering the website that we are on.
The whole Internet isn't designed to include you in everything.

Make your own thread for the men if women wanting to talk together on the forum offends you so much - no one is stopping you from creating a similar thread in the Blue or Red boards.

 

[SphinxItOver]

Came for the cope thread... leaving from the nope'd thread. Really is kinda retarded to look for emotional ass pats online idk why I keep falling for it.

 

[JambledUpWords]

I have no idea why certain users on here struggle to understand the concept of thread topics when it comes to the BP.

Seriously, this is why it’s women only. I don’t want to see men on here trying to center themselves when they’re fully capable of creating a similar thread for themselves.

Thread tax: practicing more self love (in the form of eating healthy and finding more positivity), has helped me become a better version of myself and a better friend to others.

 

[Mr Bones Wild Ride]

Seriously, this is why it’s women only. I don’t want to see men on here trying to center themselves when they’re fully capable of creating a similar thread for themselves.

Yeah, I strongly suspect they prefer the way our offtopic threads are structured because we don't shit them up with gross nonsense like peepeepoopoo rape dungeon garbage or use them to just meme for stickers.

They're also desperate for us to acknowledge them even though we already have a very successful thread where they can do that.
It's just never enough. It's so fucking pathetic.

Thread tax: practicing more self love (in the form of eating healthy and finding more positivity), has helped me become a better version of myself and a better friend to others.

That's awesome
Do you have any tips on finding positivity?
I'd be super grateful

I'm currently trying to not let the existential dread get to me. I exacerbated an old injury at the gym last week and have been bed ridden and doped up since then.
It's a spinal injury so even walking about causes me pain so I've gone from gym twice a day x 6 days a week to absolutely nothing and my mood is absolute dogshite at the moment.

 

[JambledUpWords]

Do you have any tips on finding positivity?

I have a journal of sorts on my phone where I write one thing I’m grateful for each day. Even on days that aren’t great, I’m able to find at least one thing I appreciate.

 

[Mr Bones Wild Ride]

I have a journal of sorts on my phone where I write one thing I’m grateful for each day. Even on days that aren’t great, I’m able to find at least one thing I appreciate.

I am going to try that - thank you

I went to a Yin yoga class a few weeks back and they gave out little gratitude journals for us to write in. Yin yoga is the more spiritual/slow stretching type of yoga - lots of breathing and holding poses lying down for many minutes.

It was very relaxing but it took me ages to stop mocking myself in my own head for doing it and I didn't end up using the journal because I kept telling myself that it was silly..

My aim for the end of the year is to be less self conscious about doing fun or "silly" things.

 

[JambledUpWords]

Other positivity tips:

• Try new things you’ve been wanting to try
• Learn new skills or improve ones you already have
• Make friends with people that make you want to improve yourself, instead of ones that want you to give into all your vices
• Find ways to give service to others, even if it’s just being a listening ear
• Don’t put up with people that belittle you, life is too short for that
• You don’t need to force yourself to be happy at all times, and letting yourself feel emotions in constructive ways is better than keeping things bottled up
• Be more direct with people on what you want or need. No one can read minds, and it relieves stress to not have people trying to guess what you want or need
• Learn to embrace change and see it as normal. Nothing stays the same forever, and fearing it won’t stop change from happening

I can think of more, but these are some big ones for me. Positivity isn’t about smiling and laughing 24/7, it’s about being content with where you are in a quiet manner.

 

[JambledUpWords]

To other women that are struggling with a work/life balance, or are having trouble finding an identity outside of being a wife/mother, I just want you to know that so long as you’re giving it your best, you are doing just fine. You’re not a failure for not having everything done at all times. It’s okay to need extra help with taking care of kids, and you’re not less of a mother for needing to work to help support them. For the women trying to find their identity, you are not selfish for taking time to invest in hobbies that are fulfilling and separate from your other roles in life. You are your own person, and your worth is not defined by your relationships or lack thereof. Being content with yourself and loving yourself can help you in those other roles you are trying to fulfill. Cultivating better self love translates into giving that energy to those that appreciate what you do, and you will have more happiness.

 

[w4vy_gr4vy]

Only on Kiwi Farms could a thread like this turn into chimps flinging shit at each other.

 

[Mr Bones Wild Ride]

Only on Kiwi Farms could a thread like this turn into chimps flinging shit at each other.

It's Reddit behaviour.
It's the same "power users" trotting out the recycled old phrases and memes for their weird popularity contest with other men for upvotes stickers.

I'm just going to ignore them, because @JambledUpWords is absolutely correct here:

Don’t put up with people that belittle you, life is too short for that

Having read enough of their threads, I consider it a good thing that our conversations upset the men hellbent on annoying us.

I don't value their opinions at all.
Toddler tantrums at women saying "leave us alone" is a massive red flag.

Decent men don't behave this way and don't care when women want to talk amongst themselves.

 

[JambledUpWords]

At any time, moids can create their own desperately needed support thread. This one existing doesn’t prevent them from doing that. I wanted one specifically for women because women go through things that moids don’t.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Only on Kiwi Farms could a thread like this turn into chimps flinging shit at each other.

anything woman related immedieatly gets stomped by men , like fucking trannies they cant keep away.

Edit: slap the report button per null .

 

[JambledUpWords]

Thread tax: I really like all the awesome women I’m related to and look up to them. Women have such an impact on society. Worth within society is far more than just money, and women that help instill good values in those around them create a better society. Without the women that have helped raise me, I would not be where I am today, and I appreciate the time and effort they put in. I understand not all women are as lucky, and to those that aren’t, I hope you can find women that inspire you to be better and fulfill your dreams.

 

[Mr Bones Wild Ride]

Male pickmes. It's the equivalent of when you say anything negative about a woman, ANY woman online and some rando bitch swings in going "W-WELL I'M NOT LIKE THAT".

Hmm. I actually don't know what a male pickme would like look and this is not the thread to discuss it. To me the behaviour I am seeing is more "pull pigtails and kick sand in the girls faces" because they want our attention and don't have the maturity to express it.

Some of the content on this site can be really grim and even just the fact Null has to fight for every single tiny thing to keep us online is quite depressing.
We have a user here who posts funny cat pictures and cat stories to cheer us all up.
I won't @ him because this is supposed to be a women's thread but I really enjoy and appreciate his posts. There is another user who posts frog pics. There are people who dox their cats. There are so many funny little threads here for positivity.

@JambledUpWords has created another thread and the topic is women's positivity.

People leave the cat threads alone
People leave the frog threads alone
People leave the houseplants threads alone

There is absolutely no reason why this thread needs to be any different.

If you're not a woman, and if you don't want to talk about positivity or have a vent - then you should not be posting here.

 

[SphinxItOver]

One of the reasons I even opened this thread in the first place was looking for advice to cope with the stress of dealing with taking care of aging fam and excessive deaths. Lost my vet step father less than a year ago who instilled a lot of self worth in me and with memorial day coming up it's been rough. Sucks watching this thread get treated like a internet point collection video game by a bunch of people emulating ethan ralph.

 

[Weed Eater]

Everything has been a struggle lately. I am very tired frens, it's like the flame within me isn't even a flame anymore, but smoldering embers that somehow stay red hot.