Disaster Dead in 6 hours: How Nigerian sextortion scammers targeted my son - They pretended to be a pretty girl his age and flirted with him, sending sexual pictures to coax him into sharing explicit photos of himself.

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Sextortion is the fastest-growing scam affecting teenagers globally and has been linked to more than 27 suicides in the US alone. Many of the scammers appear to be from Nigeria - where authorities are defending their actions and are under pressure to do more.

It has been two years since Jenn Buta’s son Jordan killed himself after being targeted by scammers who lured him into sending them explicit images of himself, and then tried to blackmail him.

She still can’t bring herself to change anything about his bedroom.

The 17-year-old’s basketball jerseys, clothes, posters and bedsheets are just how he left them.

The curtains are closed, and the door is shut to keep memories of him that only a parent would understand.

“It still smells like him. That’s one of the reasons I still have the door closed. I can still smell that sweat, dirt, cologne mix in this room. I'm just not ready to part with his stuff,” she said.

Jordan was contacted by sextortion scammers on Instagram.

They pretended to be a pretty girl his age and flirted with him, sending sexual pictures to coax him into sharing explicit photos of himself.

They then blackmailed him for hundreds of pounds to stop them sharing the pictures online to his friends.

Jordan sent as much money as he could and warned the sextortionists he would kill himself if they spread the images. The criminals replied: “Good… Do that fast - or I'll make you do it.”

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Samuel, 22, and Samson Ogoshi, 20, arrested in Lagos, are awaiting sentencing in the US

It was less than six hours from the time Jordan started communicating until the time he ultimately took his life.

“There's actually a script online,” Jenn told BBC News, from her home in Michigan, in the north of the US. "And these people are just going through the script and putting that pressure on.

"And they're doing it quick, because then they can move on to the next person, because it's about volume.”

The criminals were tracked to Nigeria, arrested, and then extradited to the US.

Two brothers from Lagos - Samuel Ogoshi, 22, and Samson Ogoshi, 20 - are awaiting sentencing after pleading guilty to child sexploitation charges. Another Nigerian man linked to Jordan’s death and other cases is fighting extradition.

Jordan’s tragic story has become a touch point in the fight against the growing problem of sextortion.

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Jordan's mother, Jenn, has posted dozens of videos to raise awareness

Jenn is a now high-profile campaigner on TikTok – using the account Jordan set up for her – to raise awareness about the dangers of sextortion to young people. Her videos have been liked more than a million times.

It’s feared that sextortion is under-reported due to its sensitive nature. But US crime figures show cases more than doubled last year, rising to 26,700, with at least 27 boys having killed themselves in the past two years.

Researchers and law enforcement agencies point to West Africa, and particularly Nigeria, as a hotspot for where attackers are based.

In April, two Nigerian men were arrested after a schoolboy from Australia killed himself. Two other men are on trial in Lagos, after the suicides of a 15-year-old boy in the US and a 14-year-old in Canada.

In January, US cyber-company Network Contagion Research Institute (NCRI) highlighted a web of Nigerian TikTok, YouTube and Scribd accounts sharing tips and scripts for sextortion. Many of the discussions and videos are in Nigerian Pidgin dialect.

It’s not the first time that Nigeria’s young tech-savvy population has embraced a new wave of cyber-crime.

The term Yahoo Boys is used to describe a portion of the population that use cyber-crime to earn a living. It comes from the early 2000s wave of Nigerian Prince scam emails which spread through the Yahoo email service.

Dr Tombari Sibe, from Digital Footprints Nigeria, says cyber-fraud such as sextortion has become normalised to young people in the country: “There's also the big problem of unemployment and of poverty.

"All these young ones who don't really have much - it's become almost like a mainstream activity where they don't really think too much about the consequences. They just see their colleagues making money.”

African human rights charity Devatop has said the current methods of handling sextortion in Nigeria have failed to effectively curb the practice. And a report from NCRI said that celebrating sextortion crimes are an established part of the internet subculture in the country.

In an exclusive interview with the BBC, the director of Nigeria’s National Cyber Crime Centre (NCCC) defended his police force’s actions, and insisted it was working hard to catch criminals and deter others from carrying out attacks.

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Sextortion criminals are not only from Nigeria, Cyber Crime Centre director Uche Ifeanyi Henry says

Uche Ifeanyi Henry said his officers were “hitting criminals hard” and said it is “laughable” that anyone should accuse Nigeria of not taking sextortion crime seriously.

“We are giving criminals a very serious hit. A lot have been prosecuted and a lot have been arrested,” he said. "Many of these criminals are moving to neighbouring countries now because of our activity.”

The NCCC director pointed to the fact that the government has spent millions of pounds on a state-of-the-art cyber-crime centre, to show it was taking cyber-crime seriously, especially sextortion.

He said Nigerian teenagers are also being targeted, and he argued that the criminals were not just a Nigerian problem, with other sextortionists in south-east Asia. Tackling them would require global support, he said.

With that in mind, the director and his technical team are this week visiting the UK’s National Crime Agency, which last month issued a warning to children and schools about a rise in sextortion cases.

The visit is designed to improve collaboration on sextortion and other cyber-crime investigations. It follows similar recent meetings with Japanese police.

Meanwhile, Jenn Buta continues to campaign alongside Jordan’s father John DeMay. They regularly give advice to young people who may become victims.

Advice that Jenn and many law enforcement agencies regularly give people targeted by sextortionists includes:
  • Remember you are not alone and this is not your fault
  • Report the predator’s account, via the platform’s safety feature
  • Block the predator from contacting you
  • Save the profile or messages - they can help law enforcement identify and stop the predator
  • Ask for help from a trusted adult or law enforcement before sending money or more images
  • Co-operating with the predator rarely stops the blackmail and harassment - but law enforcement can
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Imagine sending nudes to a mysterious stranger that contacts you out of the blue.

Also, gotta love how the article manages to end up being sympathetic to the scammers lol

Just as every cop is a criminal
And all the sinners saints
As heads is tails, just call me Lucifer
'Cause I'm in need of some restraint 🎶

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It really should be taught in schools at this point how to identify scams and cretins who want to exploit you.

First lesson: The pretty lady sending you pictures out of the blue is not a woman, nor are they in to you. It's a nigger in Africa who wants your money and asshole pictures.
 
It really should be taught in schools at this point how to identify scams and cretins who want to exploit you.

First lesson: The pretty lady sending you pictures out of the blue is not a woman, nor are they in to you. It's a nigger in Africa who wants your money and asshole pictures.
Anyone in IT is forced to learn about the 419 Nigerian prince scam. It should be public education taught in schools.
 
this is not your fault
This is absolutely your fault if these are your actual noodz you made and sent, not deepfakes.
Porn should be banned.
Children should be taught that
  • noodz are porn (they are)
  • specifically their own noodz are child porn
  • if they make child porn of themselves for another child, both will get juvie time
  • if they make child porn of themselves and end up extorted by an adult, they're in the clear and the adult will go to prison, report away
 
It used to be we all kept our cards close to our chest online. We didn't discuss our 'real lives', or we sometimes modified details to throw scammers and schemers off the trail. Maybe there were a few friends you'd known for years who would have a contact, but by and large you cherished relative anonymity.

Nowadays there's massive pressure to put everything out there, be 'public', and it's such a fucking terrible idea that it makes me angry.
 
It used to be we all kept our cards close to our chest online. We didn't discuss our 'real lives', or we sometimes modified details to throw scammers and schemers off the trail. Maybe there were a few friends you'd known for years who would have a contact, but by and large you cherished relative anonymity.

Nowadays there's massive pressure to put everything out there, be 'public', and it's such a fucking terrible idea that it makes me angry.
I agree. We need to bomb the Cloud. Inshallah.
 
These niggers may or may not deserve the woodchipper, but: The fact that up non US-citizens can be extradited from their home country to be punished there, instead of in their own country, is horrifying. Fuck globalism.

That aside, it never ceases to amaze me how these braindead scams never change and never stop working. A law of nature.

 
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This is a failure of parenting. My daddy always taught me not to be ashamed of my penis, especially since its so good size and all.

But really, parents teach their kids about stranger danger. You also need to teach them that things posted online are forever and if someone online wants something from you, they are trying to take advantage of you. Even outside of hole blackmail its amazing how subject to 24/7 griftathons kids are nowadays.
 
The criminals were tracked to Nigeria, arrested, and then extradited to the US.
Loool I didnt know the US could just get internet nigerian scammers extradited like that. Is it a deal we have with the nigerian goverment?

"Do not send nudes to unknown people" should be common sense, but damn these nigerians deserve to get fucked


extradited from their home country to be punished there, instead of in their own country,
nigeria probably doesnt punish or even have any enforced law against cybercrime, they would just walk away with the money if they werent extradited.
 
Loool I didnt know the US could just get internet nigerian scammers extradited like that. Is it a deal we have with the nigerian goverment?

"Do not send nudes to unknown people" should be common sense, but damn these nigerians deserve to get fucked

nigeria probably doesnt punish or even have any enforced law against cybercrime, they would just walk away with the money if they werent extradited.
It's the newest way to bring the best and brightest to the US. After a year in prison, if the current administration get's their way, they'll be released with full citizenship and as many benefits as Biden can personally stuff in their pockets.
 
They pretended to be a pretty girl his age and flirted with him, sending sexual pictures to coax him into sharing explicit photos of himself.

They then blackmailed him for hundreds of pounds to stop them sharing the pictures online to his friends.

Jordan sent as much money as he could and warned the sextortionists he would kill himself if they spread the images. The criminals replied: “Good… Do that fast - or I'll make you do it.”
The ideal response:
You do realize that you are in possession of CSAM materials?

Go ahead and release the photos, I don't care. After all, to me you hacked my computer and accessed my webcam when I was jerking off.

Have a nice day in your African or Indian shithole.
 
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