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April and Nick were on a Simpcast together before (as far as we know) the first in-person meeting at that "comedy" show in October.
Edit to add: at least as early as December, 2022.
Nicholas Robert Rekieta / Rekieta "Law" / Actually Criminal / @NickRekieta - Polysubstance enthusiast, "Lawtuber" turned Dabbleverse streamer, swinger, "whitebread ass nigga", snuffs animals for fun, visits 🇯🇲 BBC resorts. Legally a cuckold who lost his license to practice law. Wife's bod worth $50. The normies even know.
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Nick, Marriage, and Women
As the title implies, this post pertains to Nick's views on marriage as it relates to his views on women. This seems necessary as it seems that (in the past) these views have been conflated, with the assumption being made that Nick being pro-marriage would mean that he had a healthy marriage and a healthy view of women. This brought him much goodwill for his grift and even convinced Nick himself that he could do "relationship" streams. However, Nick's understanding of women is way too shallow to make him an authority and consequently it is one of his weak(est) talking points. It was only a matter of time before his marriage would erode.
I will not be going into Kayla going with Nick to Hedonism II, swinging with the Imholtes, and so on as these are largely the natural outworking of Nick's views on women and marriage. This post is primarily concerned with the psychological bedrock that enabled Nick, and Kayla to an extent, to make their decisions.
Nick's understanding of the male/female dynamic is essentially shallow and transactional. This isn't something more recent that has been induced by his drug-use. One can go back to late 2019 and find Nick and Drexel talking about women of value. The following section is a modified excerpt from my Drexel OP, as it is a relevant launching point.
WOMEN OF VALUE: 2019-10-18
NOTE: This section is relevant to both Kayla and April in terms of how Nick "values" them in relation to himself.
According to Drexel, a high-value male is older (40s) and has more resources. A high-value female is young and virginal with next to no resources or experience, (of course) low standards and easily impressed by trinkets. The age gap in necessary for this dynamic to work. During a stream Nick compares high-value females to children, but they both quickly move on.
Low-value women hit "the wall" at around age 30, have more resources and therefore higher standards (trinkets won't impress her). Given the standard for high-value males (higher age/resources), the inverse of being young with fewer resources would make those males low-value.
The high value females that Drexel and Nick are describing (young, virginal, low-standards, easily impressed by trinkets) are very easy to take advantage of because the high-value male is holding a significant position of power due to the female's inexperience and lack of resources. In this scenario, the potential for sexual/psychological abuse is high.
This emphasis on resources is so transactional that one can assume that Drexel and Nick think that all females are functionally prostitutes.
Best case-scenario, Drexel and Nick are unaware that they is paraphrasing/advocating the values of a sexual predator who would prefer much younger females due to their vulnerability.
Some may think there is some wisdom about females in his words, and there is; for sexual predators.
EXCEPTING MARRIAGE AND SUBSTANCE USE: 2022-08-22
Nick and Drexel have asserted repeatedly that that agreed on pretty much everything except marriage. This is why Nick is so accommodating to Drexel's talking points about women (as distinct from marriage). In the clip below Drexel shares with Legal Mindset that he and Nick only disagree about two things.
Given their past streams, those things are marriage being a good thing and alcohol/drug use. Nick is pro-marriage and drinks, Drexel is against marriage and doesn't drink.
HAVE MONOGAMOUS FUN: 2022-09-30
This is around when Nick's views on women started to directly overlap with his views on marriage. Nick started to overshare on his marriage, people didn't like it, and Nick tried to answer the criticism by explaining how important sex was in a marriage.
In a defensive rant, Nick explains that if people don't look for ways to address sexual issues in a marriage then their partner will look for it elsewhere. Nick maintains that they never had to deal with infidelity, but had to deal with pretty much everything short of that (which is normal). He feels the need to talk about it because a lot of other married couples out there have the same problems, and even though Drexel and others tell him marriage isn't worth it, Nick wants people who are in a committed relationship "have ways around it".
The "it" Nick is referring to is boredom and he claims there are tons of crazy "monogamous" things one can do. Nick thinks people have been programmed to think that they can't have "fun" in a marriage while claiming that everyone's mom has a sex toy. Nick has met people who need to hear his message and he wants to help them shed their sexual inhibitions. Nick hates that he can't talk about it without people thinking he's doing something "crazy and degenerate" and sets up a strawman that just talking about sex makes one a deviant (and he dispatches it with ease).
Nick also uses what became one of his popular copes: "who even has time for another woman?", claims that Kayla takes all his time, and asks why he would want another woman to take even more of his time. Nick continues to rant at people who think he shouldn't be having silly sweaty, oily, hilarious, monogamous fun with his own wife.
During an aside, predating his famous and drawn-out "Kayla's body was destroyed by pregnancy" rant, Nick talks about how Kayla's body was broken and distended from pregnancy, so she didn't feel attractive. Nick shared that he had times when he didn't feel attractive due to stress related weight gain.
Nick also claims that people worried about Nick and Kayla's marriage don't know what they are talking about (giving them a whiny voice) and to at least make their theories into something he can jerk off to. He goes on to blame the churches for making people "broken and conditioned" in terms of sexuality.
Nick's overall emphasis on sex and sexual practices would became more pronounced as time went on under the guise "monogamy" and "weird silly fun with your spouse".
A WOMAN'S MIDLIFE CRISIS: 2022-09-29
Nick's understanding of what a mid-life crisis is very telling. According to Nick, a man's mid-life crisis is the result of years of sacrificing everything in his life for everyone around him. Said man will then try to make up for lost time by buying the car, the vacation, banging the Victoria Secret model (while saying that won't happen and the man will end up with a 4/10 and make the man depressed later). The man will get it out of his system, lose all his hair, and he will be fine and everything will be perfect.
According to Nick, the woman's mid-life crisis stems from the woman, who is valued by the man (having benefitted from the man's value) for years, mistakenly think they are higher value than they really are. Nick claims that the woman mistakenly does this while not realizing it was the man who gave the woman her value and she is too old by this point to be taken seriously.
This compliments the pre-established metrics used by Nick for determining women of value in 2018 (see previous section).
HAVE FUN... OR ELSE!: 2022-11-23
Nick continued to preach that his brand of ambiguous "fun" and going to sex shops was a requirement for marriage or else you will hate everything about your life, your relationship will be boring, you'll get tired of the person you're with, and they'll get tired of you." Drexel punctuates the point by asserting himself sexually because his ego demands it and Nick needs a yes-man.
NICK AND PORN: 2023-08-26
*** This clip is unedited as it was not previously archived here on KF *** SPECIAL THANKS TO @elb FOR HELPING ME TRACK DOWN THIS CLIP! |
During this LOCALS stream Nick talks about his porn consumption and the impact it had on his marriage. Nick claims to have cut down on his porn use because one day Kayla caught him.
Allegedly, Kayla said the porn itself wasn't the problem, but that it made her feel "less" and like she wasn't what Nick wanted. Nick explained that it wasn't his intention to make Kayla feel like less of a "person/wife/whatever" or "less attractive". Having now damaged his wife's primary value of sex-appeal, Nick then considered that porn is more destructive than he thought.
Nick then goes into how porn should be protected speech and free from government censorship and how it's "real" and "true", but that doesn't mean he should engage with it because it's hurting someone outside of government, freedom, and everything. He then makes a call to personal responsibility for people to not choose porn in lieu of government control. Nick then immediately says that if someone hasn't made a commitment to someone else they should use porn to "cum through the fucking roof."
Nick then goes into how porn is normalized in males before shifting into telling women some "critical" information. Women have to openly and unapologetically communicate with their husbands why they are uncomfortable with it and realize that (most importantly) "men's bodies need to get rid of hormones that come out of his fucking dick."
Looking at porn is not about the woman he committed to, the girl he's looking at, or anything like that. It is only about discharging hormones. This doesn't mean the woman has to have sex with the man. Women can do a dance or model for him to jerk off to. One way or another, a man is entitled to his release. He goes on to say that women need to be willing to fulfill his sexual desires, because if they don't, then she is inhibiting the man's ability to provide for her and "[she] is garbage, not him".
According to Nick, men need to release at least once daily... twice daily... sometimes more depends on the guy and his job. If the woman can't keep up with that, they can't complain when the man looks at porn. In fact, they had better be able to keep up with that. Ladies, make sexy videos and take sexy pictures of yourself for your man, but don't bitch about where he (monogamously?) puts it if you can't satisfy him.
For the guys, "just make your ladies cum" and try harder to "make her want to be your object of desire".
PRENUPS AND BLOWJOBS: 2023-12-27
*** Keep in mind that the Imholtes were involved with the Rekietas by this point *** |
After attempting to empty his already empty glass, Nick received a superchat saying that he is luck to have and keep his wife. Nick disagrees that he is lucky in this regard.
Nick asserts that "lucky" guys who are married are the ones who have a girl who approach them with a prenup and don't want anything except to give him multiple blowjobs a day.
DON'T GET COMFORTABLE: 2024-01-18
Nick does a show with Steve Gosney (who wrote a book on being a Christian with a foreward written by Nick). During this stream, Nick related how he was relaxing in bed (clothed) with his wife and commented how comfortable it was to which Kayla responded "Yeah... This is comfortable."
Kayla's tone signaled to Nick that something was wrong, so he wracked his brain to figure out what that meant. Nick took this as a reminder that routine/comfort signifies "a lack of effort and intentionality" and should be avoided. Nick then tells people to pursue women to keep things exciting (or else someone else will pursue them) with a shoutout to the red pill community.
CONCLUSION:
Nick has long held a transactional approach toward woman and it complements his attraction to strippers, hookers, and wanting to even interview porn stars on his show. This is because Nick's interest in women is invariably self-serving. Nick (and men like him) are more intensely drawn to strippers, hookers, and the like because they operate on simplistic transactional terms.
Nick's understanding of a woman's insecurity (such as a mid-life crisis) is entirely based on sex and sex-appeal. It's no wonder that Kayla's concerns about being a failure as a wife, mother, sister, daughter went unheard. It wouldn't even register to Nick that a woman has more to worry about than her looks because his understanding of women is just that shallow.
That said, Nick was STILL careless enough to publicly badmouth Kayla's post-pregnancy body on his show more than once. Probably because he wasn't getting enough value/sex from her during that time. Moving on...
Nick has almost non-existent listening skills when it comes to women and only puts in enough effort to get what he wants. His shallow efforts reflect his shallow interest. Take his don't get comfortable anecdote. Kayla's reply of "yeah, this is comfortable" with a negative/sarcastic tone could be any number of things, especially given what we know now. In any case, Kayla is expressing disagreement with Nick. The key here would be engaging Kayla to better understand her rather than guessing why she is unhappy.
Rather than engage with Kayla in a more meaningful way (like really listening to her and talking through the issue), Nick dug deep into his pocket of red pills and assumed the solution was found in the pursuit of "young love" for fear of losing her to another man. Nick isn't interested in learning how to grow old gracefully and mature alongside his spouse. Consequently, the solution is compensation for lost youth (informed by his midlife crisis).
Essentially, Nick interactions with even his own wife is guesswork based on his existing template for the way women are. This is compounded by Nick thinking women are as obsessed with sex as he is which is also why he seems to actively relate more to womenfolk who are strippers/hookers/clubbing over women in general.
When confronted with an issue in his marriage, Nick's go-to seems to be "have weird sexy sex to make her feel sexy" since a woman's only measure of value is sex appeal. So, sexual validation becomes the cure-all and boils down to "you'll feel better if you look sexy for me/please me sexually" or the like. Kayla gets to receive her "value" from a "man" and Nick in turn benefits from Kayla's only value.
Nick's solution of trying to rekindle the early "pursuit" stages of their relationship predating marriage is a fool's errand, and the sooner Nick adopts a more complex view of women, relationships, and marriage, the better off they will be. Of course they can limp along, but their relationship will still be crippled as they fail to mature together and continue to invite more unnecessary risks into their already broken family unit.
It also appears that Nick is supplanting the definition of "monogamous" with the definition of "consensual", but still using the word "monogamous". This mental slight of hand is most likely an attempt to reconcile non-monogamous behavior through consent within the marriage.
Emphasis on common values and direction in life is alien to Nick's marriage. Rather than try to respect Kayla's previously more inconvenient traditional values, Nick seemed to prefer validating her sexually with emphasis on "excitement" in marriage (as if that is where her worth lies). Nick has successfully undermined any traditional values Kayla might have had to the point where she was growing more isolated until Nick was all she had left.
Kayla even got to explain how she forsook her morals, sacrificed her relationships, and felt like a failure in so many ways thanks to Nick.
How romantic.
Nick's take on porn is essentially that the biggest damage it can do is make the woman feel undesirable (which is where he believes a woman finds her value). That said, Nick also believes that a man is entitled to porn if the woman is unwilling to be his "porn" and doesn't seem to recognize the psychological components of sexual attraction and escalation inherent in some fetishes. Apparently, women just need to accept that it is just harmless release of hormones.
Unfortunately for Kayla, Nick is telegraphing that she is very replaceable and can easily lose her "value". For Kayla's part, she not only decided to accept Nick's premise and compete with porn, she actively fed him images of other women while livestreaming with him:
All the above applies to any woman getting involved with Nick, be it the "low-value" Kayla or the more recent "higher-value" April. Both are in a vulnerable position under Nick, who currently has the money and drugs. Perfect picks for a self-described "high-value" male like Nick.
Almost as if adherents to this mindset deserve each other... though not in the way they think.
Meaningful conversation is an excellent way to cultivate intimacy to the point where, even if sex isn't involved, it can lead to emotional infidelity (and then sometimes to sex). Of course, when personal intimacy is achieved through healthy channels, it leads to a more sustainable intimacy that is compounded by sex. Essentially, for good or ill, one of the ways that love leads to sex and ultimately a more devoted relationship.
One doesn't' have to phrase everything perfectly all the time because, well, that person gets you and is willing to talk through misunderstandings (or times when we don't understand ourselves). To be heard is pretty rare these days. That and finding someone you can trust. This scarcity can make these attributes very desirable in both men and women.
The feeling of being truly secure and understood by someone can be intoxicating, even moreso than being simply being desired for one's body. It's part of that enduring "connection" that people feel when they fall in love that also gives way to a kind of relationship that straight up sex just doesn't provide.
Basically, someone who understands you, who is also trustworthy, is better prepared to move forward in the relationship. People who are preoccupied with looking back (like Nick is) or constantly asking for forgiveness/second chances won't be able to cultivate a mature relationship. It will just be a cycle of chasing highs or constant drama with no real progress (or the illusion of progress at best).
One doesn't' have to phrase everything perfectly all the time because, well, that person gets you and is willing to talk through misunderstandings (or times when we don't understand ourselves). To be heard is pretty rare these days. That and finding someone you can trust. This scarcity can make these attributes very desirable in both men and women.
The feeling of being truly secure and understood by someone can be intoxicating, even moreso than being simply being desired for one's body. It's part of that enduring "connection" that people feel when they fall in love that also gives way to a kind of relationship that straight up sex just doesn't provide.
Basically, someone who understands you, who is also trustworthy, is better prepared to move forward in the relationship. People who are preoccupied with looking back (like Nick is) or constantly asking for forgiveness/second chances won't be able to cultivate a mature relationship. It will just be a cycle of chasing highs or constant drama with no real progress (or the illusion of progress at best).
| TL/DR: Nick is frantically treading water and using every quick-fix he can find. Money, substances, sex toys and the like seem to be his only solutions. He will try anything except face the realities of growing old with a woman like Kayla let alone aging with dignity and integrity. Men who spend more time watching porn and listening to degenerate (s)experts rather than trying to meaningfully connect to the woman they are with are the worst. Nick is among the worst. |
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It's for the same reason he becomes a guru everywhere he establishes himself. It's about being the one who has the biggest grasp on the rulebook and setting the guidelines for what others should follow. Remember when he made a big stink about other people forcing their rules on others?... yeah, that's him to a T!
Christianity can be used to manipulate others because by professing himself as a "believer", any oddness in his thinking or behavior can be put down to "We disagree" or personality quirks. He gets to use that as a stick to beat others when criticized since they have to at least pretend (in his mind) they're all on the same page. Because you know he read that page too but he interprets it differently! Even though there's nothing remotely Christian about his outward behavior, it automatically puts others under an awkward spotlight to argue personality and by that point they're judging one of their own flock and that's generally not socially accepted online or by his audience even.
The same behavior can be applied to how he sees himself as a streamer. I suspect he "left" Lawtube once the dynamic was a bit too disadvantageous for his narcissisistic tendencies. Note how he still keeps "rebranding". Rebrand actually means "change up the rules". Oh these rules suck? People are criticizing me??? I'm going to rebrand/reformat... that'll show them!
He moves for situations and scenarios where he stays in full control. If he's just a "member" or "fellow colleague", he can't recontextualize the motives of others in a way that doesn't make him look like a complete ass, thus he has to accept critique as a total equal, which he absolutely cannot stand. Legalbytes lacked this self awareness, but Nick knew his narcissism well enough to know not to get involved in dynamics that would likely reveal his true nature. He's admitted as much during streams around that time when he was plastered.
So I've theorized he is absolutely enamored with himself when it comes to rules and establishing guidelines. It was easily ignored before since he was a lawyer and it's that dynamic that likely kept him under the radar for so long. Forget he has a law degree and view him as just as a streamer and the patterns becomes clear:
When another streamer has a good legal take on his situation that is negative, they're a "bad" streaming friend. If their take on his behavior as a streamer is terrible, they have a terrible legal take (Eric July). He will almost always avoid situations where he has to play by other people's rules wherever feasible. When he loses on points, he goes straight for guidelines or other social quibbles he's invented out of thin air to ruin a conversation. Or he claims the opposition is a liar or autistic. It used to work really well with his audience, because they interpretted the enthusiastic charisma as wit. Most just assumed he knew what was he talking about because he was trained in law. Since he can't even follow his own rules consistently, I don't see how he would've ever succeeded at law, so that was an oversight on his audience's part.
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I am aware April had been on Simpcast with Nick before they met in-person, but I have never heard of her being at AM2023 getting a tattoo. If she was, there is no pictorial or video evidence of it.
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You got me. That was a lesson I had to learn by feeling like an idiot for ever taking this junkie seriously. I didn't have a reason to doubt he did law stuff, I liked the personality he put on, and he put forth viewpoints I generally liked.
Like many narcissists, he had that "charm" that reels people in to thinking they are very likeable, and relatable. Eventually that person gets comfy, and lets their true self show. That's when people have to make a decision - stay, or leave. The mass exodus from his audience says loud and clear what people think of his true self.
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Regular cocaine use will cause hair loss.
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If he had sent them to a public school with apathetic teachers and losers, he probably would have gotten away with it. I said at the time that this was eventually going to get around to the kind of conservative people who generally homeschool and belong to cooperative teaching things like that are Christ-based, and people acted like I was nuts.
The fact is people like this don't cotton to perverted drug addicts fucking up their kids' lives. They intervene.
It's really obvious if you have already seen it and know what it looks like, but someone who hasn't ever been around drugs might just think someone is acting weird.
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Our marriage is already over, lover. Enjoy black penis.
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Aaron got cucked by Nick's vintage car. The Mustang was the gateway to April's snatch.
(Attached: If April met whoever was driving this Studebaker, she'd be deep throating him and out of the Imhotep home in a heartbeat, cocaine or not)
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I don't think it got beyond covering for it before the nanny left. Maybe the swinging cuck parents were already out of hand (which is why the nanny left) but maybe she could at least get them presentable enough they weren't obviously being abused and neglected, and maybe she was doing a lot of the driving whenever Nick was too drunk and Kayla was too benzoed out to do anything.
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What a great mindset to have for a healthy and longterm partnership. This is the bread and butter to gaslighting a spouse into feeling that they're lucky to have you at all no matter how badly you treat them. What a piece of shit, no wonder he can't do better for a wife than a retarded fellow child abuser/drug addict.
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He has never established any career growth, period.
Doing YouTube streams isn't a real job.
Someone needs to camp out at the aisle that sells hard boiled eggs.
The same goes with alcohol. It doesn't make people shitty drunks, it just reveals who they truly are.
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Nick's car isn't vintage.
Looks like April was back up in St Cloud this weekend, if the pic was actually from this weekend:
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Considering what an absolute fiend Drexel is, I'm not particularly fond of saying this, but Nicholas Rekieta does very much seem like one whom Drexel "The Black Bull" Johnson-Yarbrough would bully.
I'm surprised Kayla would settle for someone like Nicholas back when. I guess his not-immodest amount of money helped seal the deal.
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Ok, I know for an alleged fact - she actually bought a dozen fresh eggs. She did not pay $4000 for them but a buck fifty or whatever it was before Bidenflation. She even encouraged the kids to paint the eggs for Easter as a fun thing.
Nick was on the whisky and super angry - he didn't have his pre-boiled eggs in a slimey plastic packet in the fridge that he paid $50 each for. This bitch actually bought and paid for proper eggs and also did the Easter thing with his children WITHOUT HIS PERMISSION!
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The kids could have just sprinkled the pre-cooked eggs with glitter and macaroni noodles, pffft fresh eggs---what a waste
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Honestly, Kayla is the biggest unanswered questioned in this whole thing. To the risk of sounding naive, I do think that she did truly love Nick and all the drugs, neglect, swinging and other shit are her failed attempts to cope with the reality that Nick is dead, and has been replaced by Balldo.
Being honest on my end, going back to early streams, without the alcohol, Nick was a pretty charismatic, funny and normally intelligent man. I really liked his Ace Attorney streams and other early legal streams. I laughed, and it was a good way to spend time, and he had that silly, unvarnished gavel. Lol. Then the implosion happened and he turned into Balldo.