Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

I really don't like to derail the thread but i have to ask you posters here if you are ok with doctor love here posting apparently someone has reported him after him posting several times fairly informative posts and nobody minded . There is a suspicion that woman hate has decided once again to stick its dick in here indirectly because their fee fees got hurt . I just want to know if the posters are ok with it so i can ask a mod to unban him.
 
I need to tell you all about my coworker's new boyfriend, he perfectly fits in here. : )

- ugly as sin
- male pattern baldness he tries to cover up with his greasy hair
- skinny as fuck, no muscle
- unkempt appearance, disgusting beard
- when they first met, he wanted to have kids with her ASAP
- calls her fat & she actually starts starving herself for him
- she says that he gets "very very angry" if he sees her eating sweets (I think the implications are clear, if he's not hitting her already, he will be soon)
- she's forbidden to meet her best (male) friend because of course
- he's always picking her up from work so she can't smalltalk with any of us anymore (outside of work), but she has to wait on the curb for him, away from everyone else
- apparently has a "manager" job at some kind of cleaning company & gets off on being a "manager"
- openly brags to his her about having a "new hot coworker" and uses said coworker to gaslight his gf into sex with him
- according to my coworker he "needs" sex daily, 2-4 times, otherwise she's scared he might cheat or rather he basically said he's gonna cheat if he doesn't get "it" from her
- apparently she's often just sfarfishing during sex which really gets him going (rape-fetish much?)
- she basically hates sex with him, her exact words
- she told him that sex with him isn't really great bc she's never having an orgasm and he apparently said "yeah, but sex is good enough it's enough if one of us is having one, right?" (Just typing this makes my blood boil)
- whenever he sleeps at her place, he's using her stuff without asking, toothbrush included
- he doesn't clean, tidy up, or cook

She justifies all of that by saying "men are men, you know how they are" (yes, I do, I still don't have a specimen like that at home because I'd rather die alone) and "it's a woman's job to bend until she fits her man, it's just like it is" (...).

There is probably more, but that's all I can remember right now. She has been basically trauma dumping onto me, I've straight up told her that this guy is absolute scum, but for some reason she "loves him so much". how can some random dude who looks like he crawled out of a sewer have so much control over a woman?

What the fuck.

What the actual bloody fuck.
 
- ugly as sin
- male pattern baldness he tries to cover up with his greasy hair
- skinny as fuck, no muscle
- unkempt appearance, disgusting beard
- when they first met, he wanted to have kids with her ASAP
- calls her fat & she actually starts starving herself for him
- she says that he gets "very very angry" if he sees her eating sweets (I think the implications are clear, if he's not hitting her already, he will be soon)
- she's forbidden to meet her best (male) friend because of course
- he's always picking her up from work so she can't smalltalk with any of us anymore (outside of work), but she has to wait on the curb for him, away from everyone else
- apparently has a "manager" job at some kind of cleaning company & gets off on being a "manager"
- openly brags to his her about having a "new hot coworker" and uses said coworker to gaslight his gf into sex with him
- according to my coworker he "needs" sex daily, 2-4 times, otherwise she's scared he might cheat or rather he basically said he's gonna cheat if he doesn't get "it" from her
- apparently she's often just sfarfishing during sex which really gets him going (rape-fetish much?)
- she basically hates sex with him, her exact words
- she told him that sex with him isn't really great bc she's never having an orgasm and he apparently said "yeah, but sex is good enough it's enough if one of us is having one, right?" (Just typing this makes my blood boil)
- whenever he sleeps at her place, he's using her stuff without asking, toothbrush included
- he doesn't clean, tidy up, or cook
In a perfect world, men like this would stay forever single and be sent off to war. There is no quality listed that makes him decent relationship material. It’s a shame whenever these types manage to get a relationship they don’t deserve. I probably wouldn’t even be his friend, let alone girlfriend.

Your coworker could be having some self esteem issues too, which is one of the reasons she would put up with this behavior. Low self esteem is sadly great bait in attracting awful people, as those with low self esteem are easier to control. If she is given guidance on how to cultivate more self esteem, such as affirmations or a talent to develop, it could help her leave the relationship. I understand these situations are tricky, as he sounds insanely manipulative, but the sooner she finds a place to stay and changes her contact information, the better.
 
Men not even 10 years ago:
- "Women are poking holes in condoms to baby-trap us! I'm not ready to be a dad!"
- "Women want to settle down too early, I'm a young man and I need to see what else is out there!"
- "Women all want big diamond rings and wedding parties it's too much! I don't want to spend all that money, it's just a useless piece of paper!"
- "I need to have a bachelor party with strippers to celebrate my freedom one last time before I am settled down with a ball and chain hahaha" *literally wears a ball and chain to this"
- endless "I hate my bitch wife" and "I hate my dumb kids" jokes in every single media
- endless tropes of men fucking their young hot secretary cause their wife is so old and gross
- endless worship of millionaire playboy men with 10 girlfriends, never married
- "Al Bundy is literally my hero! He hates his dumb bitch wife!"
- "Women are so dumb for liking romance movies and romantic comedies, that stuff isn't realistic!"
- "Women are all puritanical prudes who hate fun and sex!"

Men now:
- "Men have always been the ones who want to have kids and a wholesome happy family and women just want to slut around, why doesn't any woman want to marry me?!"

???????? Did they forget that they complained about this every single day when it was still what women wanted? Men will never be happy, there is no way to make them happy. Whatever they have they don't appreciate and always want what they don't have.
My favorite reap what you sow moid moment, are third world countries crying about low birth rates, marriages, and male loneliness because they openly practice femicide of baby girls along with female hate and violence. The ratio of men to women in India is like 10:1.
 
I really don't like to derail the thread but i have to ask you posters here if you are ok with doctor love here posting apparently someone has reported him after him posting several times fairly informative posts and nobody minded . There is a suspicion that woman hate has decided once again to stick its dick in here indirectly because their fee fees got hurt . I just want to know if the posters are ok with it so i can ask a mod to unban him.
I don't know who that is or what he did but no man should be posting here
 
You need to talk with your coworker about therapy and therapists know how to convince abused women to leave.
I've talked to her about therapy before, because I always had the feeling that she could be depressed. She always seems so incredibly low-energy, tired all the time, brain fog etc. She's currently seeing doctors for that, but either the doctors are absolute fucking garbage, and not taking her seriously, or she's not communicating well enough with them. She always told me she doesn't need therapy because she's not depressed. But I'll try that route again.

Also convince her to get a cat and a dildo.
Ironically - and sorry if this is TMI - she masturbates. Quite a lot. But she just can't really 'relax' with her new boyfriend. How she doesn't regard this as a red flag is beyond me. How she's still saying that she's the "defective" one even though he's just an egocentric prick in bed is also completely beyond me.

She doesn't want a pet - boohoo. She's just not the animal/pet-type according to herself.

Your coworker could be having some self esteem issues too, which is one of the reasons she would put up with this behavior
Her self-esteem is incredibly low. She's super self-conscious about everything. From her fucking fingernails to her hair to having a pimple here and there to her pale skin. It's sad to watch her struggle. Like, she's no model by a long shot, but she's not ugly at all either. Seeing her struggle like this and seeing her struggles get worse and worse each day is just fucking heart breaking.

If she is given guidance on how to cultivate more self esteem, such as affirmations or a talent to develop, it could help her leave the relationship.
It's interesting that you mention this - because she doesn't have any hobbies or talents (or rather if she had any talents she's not exploring them). Besides sitting on the couch and watching shows/movies and going shopping. Eugh. But yeah, kind of an eye-opener, a hobby could really be a possibility for her to connect with other people and help her leave this asswipe.

I understand these situations are tricky, as he sounds insanely manipulative, but the sooner she finds a place to stay and changes her contact information, the better.
She has her own place, and she's currently thinking of moving in with him. I have no idea how to convince her that this is a fucking bad idea, I feel like no matter what I'm saying, no matter how many times I ask her if she'd wish a relationship like hers on one of her friends, she doesn't get it. Kinda feels like she thinks she's absolute trash and "has" to tolerate him or she'll die alone or something.

... I just want to throw this guy into the trash compactor at work so she's rid of him and doesn't have the option to run back to him. Shit like this makes me so furious and terribly sad at the same time.
 
I've talked to her about therapy before, because I always had the feeling that she could be depressed. She always seems so incredibly low-energy, tired all the time, brain fog etc. She's currently seeing doctors for that, but either the doctors are absolute fucking garbage, and not taking her seriously, or she's not communicating well enough with them. She always told me she doesn't need therapy because she's not depressed. But I'll try that route again.
okay your friend might benefit from these supplements.

vitamin b complex plus folic acid , vitamin d highest concentration possible 4k ui, multivitamin, working out or taking a walk in nature, and is she overweight?
 
Men not even 10 years ago:
- "Women are poking holes in condoms to baby-trap us! I'm not ready to be a dad!"
- "Women want to settle down too early, I'm a young man and I need to see what else is out there!"
- "Women all want big diamond rings and wedding parties it's too much! I don't want to spend all that money, it's just a useless piece of paper!"
- "I need to have a bachelor party with strippers to celebrate my freedom one last time before I am settled down with a ball and chain hahaha" *literally wears a ball and chain to this"
- endless "I hate my bitch wife" and "I hate my dumb kids" jokes in every single media
- endless tropes of men fucking their young hot secretary cause their wife is so old and gross
- endless worship of millionaire playboy men with 10 girlfriends, never married
- "Al Bundy is literally my hero! He hates his dumb bitch wife!"
- "Women are so dumb for liking romance movies and romantic comedies, that stuff isn't realistic!"
- "Women are all puritanical prudes who hate fun and sex!"

Men now:
- "Men have always been the ones who want to have kids and a wholesome happy family and women just want to slut around, why doesn't any woman want to marry me?!"

???????? Did they forget that they complained about this every single day when it was still what women wanted? Men will never be happy, there is no way to make them happy. Whatever they have they don't appreciate and always want what they don't have.
You talk about people that memory holed the fact that right wingers are normaly the anti-porn ones and were behind the cencorship of their beloved anime booba in the past.
 
You'll never believe what the context for this is
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Yes literally moid had a sperg out over some screenshot
of a TikTok where some granny is shitposting.

His blog is a goldmine btw
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He constantly powerlevels about his previous marriage, how his "ex-wife" that
he allegedly met on tumblr cheated on him with his best friend.
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Wow that's fucked up, I wonder what
could make a woman cheat on him like
th- Oh

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>I would totally fuck trannies that pass and men
No wonder his "wife" cheated

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For the context: The video he was reblogging featured some renaissance
fair girl saying very spicy things to the dude and making him chug
beer while calling him a harlot
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>Christian larper that reblogs/likes porn
>Misogynist because of unresolved personal issues
>Weird bisexual that into trannies/femboys


It feels like we have a bingo, but given how common this
type of online moid is, it doesn't feel like one
 
Welp. Over on Facebook, I've had a couple of moids accuse me of lying about a past rape for validation. One also added "Sorry if that really happened, but I guess it would explain why you hate men." (The reason why I'm being accused of hating men was because I said I'd previously told my rapist I didn't want to sleep with him.)
 
talked to her about therapy before, because I always had the feeling that she could be depressed. She always seems so incredibly low-energy, tired all the time, brain fog etc. She's currently seeing doctors for that, but either the doctors are absolute fucking garbage, and not taking her seriously, or she's not communicating well enough with them. She always told me she doesn't need therapy because she's not depressed. But I'll try that route again.
I once told a doctor I was in an awful relationship and that's why I had so many issues with depression and panic attacks and keeping weight on. They prescribed me Wellbutrin and a 7 day dose of Ativan and said I was welcome to come to the office and chat when I was feeling overwhelmed.

When my abusive ex forced me to look into therapy because I was obviously the one with massive problems, I simply repeated what my ex told me my problems were even though they didn't personally resonate. The therapists or councillors would go through their script for depression or anxiety, as though I needed to control the emotions created by living in the situation I was living in.

This is why your friend is the only person who can decide she is finished with this guy.

Long rant about general abuse under the spoiler..

He likely does have rape fantasies as I'd say 50% of the encounters with my abusers were upon me immediately waking up to having a dick rubbed into my vagina in the morning and being groped and prodded in the evening while exhausted in bed. If I did not give into either of these, he would masturbate directly beside me. This was basically an expectation if you shared a bed with him. Multiple times I refused and would try to sleep in the guest bed because it was late and I was so tired but he would make that awful. If I tried to leave, he'd berate me for choosing to walk home alone at 1AM, potentially following me or - the worse, having his mother follow me because he's convinced her I am insane and want to endanger myself.

I too lived alone for the first four years of this relationship. Which always seems so crazy - we have all the space in the world to leave. When we moved in finally, I knew it was the wrong thing to do and everything ramped up tenfold. But I did not leave until I saw how bad it could really be for myself. I was told by everyone to stop and I did not listen, even if I knew they were right.

The only thing one can do as the observer is watch it unfold, remain a safe space for the survivor (which can feel like taking some of the abuse yourself sometimes) and remain vigilant to the clues of escalated violence to be able to help her through the realizations that life could be more than this.

Most people cannot watch someone "willingly allow themselves" to be abused and common sense and logic dictates to our brain to not touch a hot stove. We see the hot stove. To not see the hot stove seems absolutely delusional and mentally ill, which is how we treat survivors more often than not.

But in reality, since we see the hot stove, and this person lost in a delusion of poor self worth is too mentally unwell to do so, it's like a schizophrenic. You cannot tell a schizo that the government is not gang stalking them. No matter how much proof and evidence you have, no matter how unimportant the schizo is, they will not believe it until the delusion is broken. So we medicate them in hopes of breaking this spell, but we cannot do the same for someone experiencing daily trauma. That is simply numbing them to the pain of the experience because the delusion is not coming from the same place. So what can you do with someone who is delusional who cannot be medicated or talked out of it?

In society, we have never had a solid solution to this problem. It's made worse by the fact they are not schizo - they have lives, jobs, children maybe, hobbies, a few straggling friends. So how can someone with existing reasoning to live in society somehow accept this treatment? In fact, they may be the first people to point it out in others because they're so acutely aware and can project the empathy.

For many, if not most, the core problem is self esteem - just like someone like Boogie can believe he deserves to fuck basically a kid (sorry not sorry) because he has a delusionally high belief he "deserves" to do so, many women have a delusionally high belief there is something inherently wrong with them. But for women, this experience is compounded because of the high expectations placed on women. For example: he tells her to lose weight. So does social media. So does pop culture. So did her grade school bully (that may have been a girl even).* How can an outsider erase such inherent experiences over the years to dismantle the beliefs that led to such low self worth? We literally cannot. We can expose them to new experiences, new media, new ideas and concepts in safe spaces that allows them to understand that this belief system is not true. Maybe they will get it, maybe they won't. After so long, it may not feel like an obligation to be a safe space for someone so lost and seemingly content in their delusion, even if that delusion is so obviously harmful. I personally may not spend 72 hours listening to gang stalking methods in hopes that it doesn't end badly. But I'm not a doctor or police so I can choose to report but disengage for my own health and safety.

You may also find many women leave abusive situations via new relationships (that may or may not be healthier than the last) because the adoration gives a temporary pump to their self worth to break the delusion with the abuser. When one feels that perhaps no one else would put up with them because of how the abuser perceives them (fat, ugly, stupid) and then finds out that actually, yeah there is another shitty guy ready to fuck, they get false baddie energy to leave (if it hasn't escalated to physical abuse or threats of murder etc). But it is false because it is receiving self worth by another man's value of you so unless the next man is a complete simp (he won't be), the cycle will continue.

Only when one decides on their own, inside of themselves, that they are ready to leave, will it have the effect necessary on one's life that it needs to.


* for me, I grew up in a very masculine environment and trusted men over women because my mother was not trust worthy but my father was (kid brain) so the incel / MRA movements ideals had greater effect on my mental health as I had an inherent belief that what men said could be trusted. It took a very long time for me to realize very few men can actually be trusted and none of them are MRAs. Therefore my abuser could use this rhetoric to bolster the effect of his abuse.
 
The "What the fuck is wrong with men in Alaska?" discussion earlier reminded me of horror stories women deal with in Antarctica... You see, women still act civilized when they are isolated from the rest of the world and consequences are temporarily out the window but scrotes quickly turn into violent chimpanzees. A lot of these moids sent there are highly educated first worlders and even they are like this.
>be me
>studying aboard
>get the opportunity to study nature in the Arctic with about 15 other people and we would sleep in these cool thermal tents
>seems cool, signs up
>tells family but they're worried about me getting mauled by polar bears or some shit
>I still want to go
>circumstances arise and I am unable to go
>disappointment.jpeg
>life goes on
>completely unaware of the major bullet I dodged
>lives on to shitpost on Kiwifarms
You'll never believe what the context for this is
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Yes literally moid had a sperg out over some screenshot
of a TikTok where some granny is shitposting.

His blog is a goldmine btw

He constantly powerlevels about his previous marriage, how his "ex-wife" that
he allegedly met on tumblr cheated on him with his best friend.
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Wow that's fucked up, I wonder what
could make a woman cheat on him like
th- Oh

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>I would totally fuck trannies that pass and men
No wonder his "wife" cheated

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For the context: The video he was reblogging featured some renaissance
fair girl saying very spicy things to the dude and making him chug
beer while calling him a harlot
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>Christian larper that reblogs/likes porn
>Misogynist because of unresolved personal issues
>Weird bisexual that into trannies/femboys


It feels like we have a bingo, but given how common this
type of online moid is, it doesn't feel like one
Every male Tumblr user is either a TIM, posts "artful" pornography, posts degenerate porn, is a gay fetish blog (usually German), is a tradlarping conservative blog (also posts porn but mostly large breasted and/or pregnant white women), reposts from /pol/ (bonus points if he isn't white), or is some gay guy who still posts photography and has had his blog since 2014.
 
More men should kill themselves, and only themselves. There are objectively far too many useless moids taking up valuable resources to goon and watch YouTube essays all day, especially since it is no longer as easy to fail upwards as a man and have a woman indentured into cleaning up after them. Too many supposedly reasonable men turn a blind eye to incel chimpouts bc muh brotherhood, “clearly he just needs a good girl to turn him around, well modern society is gynocentric (if you mean porn and trying to Buffalo Bill us, sure) sooooo”… blah blah blah. Interesting how it’s always a woman’s fault when a man fails, isn’t it? A woman not sufficiently putting out or playing mommy is equated to actual violence in the scrote mind. Most murder-suicides are males killing a woman, whether it be their wife, gf, or even sister or mother, because she’s there and female, and the average male is incapable of self-reflection or self-control. As a member of the logical sex, he is entitled to brutalize a hooker, stomp a puppy to death or choke out his own mother when he has big feelings and punching the wall doesn’t do it anymore. All that stoicism takes a toll! :'(

The overwhelming majority of murders and violent crime are also committed by males, which everyone knows, but tries to deflect onto solely blacks/gays/troons etc rather than just admit they’re almost all rapemonkeys waiting for an opportunity. “No true Scotsman” can just as easily be shortened to “no true man”. Males are overwhelmingly mental midget emotionally driven hypocrites, and if they are unable to do manual labor (the one thing they are good for), they should be culled.
 
Every male Tumblr user is either a TIM, posts "artful" pornography, posts degenerate porn, is a gay fetish blog (usually German), is a tradlarping conservative blog (also posts porn but mostly large breasted and/or pregnant white women), reposts from /pol/ (bonus points if he isn't white), or is some gay guy who still posts photography and has had his blog since 2014.
Not long ago, maybe a month or so there's was a dumpster fire incident where many people that were associated with right-wing/tradlarping conservative circles got exposed for liking black supremacist porn. I'll try to find the post because it was such a rollercoaster.
More men should kill themselves, and only themselves. There are objectively far too many useless moids taking up valuable resources to goon and watch YouTube essays all day, especially since it is no longer as easy to fail upwards as a man and have a woman indentured into cleaning up after them. Too many supposedly reasonable men turn a blind eye to incel chimpouts bc muh brotherhood, “clearly he just needs a good girl to turn him around, well modern society is gynocentric (if you mean porn and trying to Buffalo Bill us, sure) sooooo”… blah blah blah. Interesting how it’s always a woman’s fault when a man fails, isn’t it? A woman not sufficiently putting out or playing mommy is equated to actual violence in the scrote mind. Most murder-suicides are males killing a woman, whether it be their wife, gf, or even sister or mother, because she’s there and female, and the average male is incapable of self-reflection or self-control. As a member of the logical sex, he is entitled to brutalize a hooker, stomp a puppy to death or choke out his own mother when he has big feelings and punching the wall doesn’t do it anymore. All that stoicism takes a toll! :'(

The overwhelming majority of murders and violent crime are also committed by males, which everyone knows, but tries to deflect onto solely blacks/gays/troons etc rather than just admit they’re almost all rapemonkeys waiting for an opportunity. “No true Scotsman” can just as easily be shortened to “no true man”. Males are overwhelmingly mental midget emotionally driven hypocrites, and if they are unable to do manual labor (the one thing they are good for), they should be culled.
Funny, you mention all of that, because I've today watched this video. This video was very heavy thing to watch for me because the realization/implications of the possibility that with the rise of tradwives we're going to see more domestic abuse cases and family annihilator or murder-suicide cases, and if people in higher position do ban no fault divorces thus condemning women to be stuck in abusive marriages, we're going to definitely see more courts handwaving domestic abuse cases for the oh-so so called "sanctity of marriage".


It also made me sad to see that women that latch onto the tradwife grift tend to be women that think there's no better or third option between picking to work or being basically a janny that sweeps up for a moid that can absolutely can and will dump them the moment they find a younger and hotter woman to be with, even if the wife he's leaving uplifted him and gave birth to their children.

But I don't want to be a doomer, because the reality is for one tradwife that shills this lifestyle, there's going to be plenty more women that are waking up and completely opting out from dating men, especially now when men are desperately trying to manifest for themselves the second part of "Fucking around and finding out" by revoking women's rights, autonomy and trying to force them back into more submissive role so they can feel like a king, even though they're nothing more than worthless peon in the system, because they cannot comprehend and are afraid of a system where they actually have to work for to be uplifted, instead of being uplifted and be given a high status by their peers, at the expense of women and their sacrifice and suffering.
 
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