I used to think this picture was super deep when I felt sorry for online men, but now
I think it's load of horse shit lol, so I decided to modify it.
Anyways, I'm fed up when moids pretend that they're the only exclusive group that wants community and family, especially given they were pretending that women wanted to trap them in marriages. Newsflash everybody to some degree wants a form of community and a family, but having a family is difficult especially in these times and the idea of communities have became completely obsolete thanks to Internet, particularly reddit gentrifying everything and because we as a society became incredibly work-oriented as see work now the only place where you can hang out with people.
I see that too. They are so adamant about it always being yaoi or fanfiction because then otherwise it would be men's fault for the creation of TIFs
Even if yaoi or fanfiction
can play as a catalyst for pooning out, men that blame it entirely miss the point why exactly pooners tend to latch onto yaoi. Most of pooners tend to be young women that unfortunately got raised by the Internet or grew up on the Internet where they grew up seeing their whole existence as a woman be completely sexualized and degraded especially if they were feminine, most of romantic media also either played into this, demure submissive woman being swooped by an Adonis or the woman serving as a supporting role for the main protagonist's journey to uplift him, there's never a story where man and a woman equally develop feelings for each other but they feel as relatable humans.
Yaoi on other hand allows women to enjoy romance genre without having to feel completely degraded or reduced into a one-dimensional character meant to uplift the male protagonist because another guy is the one taking the bullet for team by being the submissive one and in the role of that woman. Why do you think moids absolutely dislike the whole "babygirlification" of male characters? Because it forces their favorite male character into a role of a woman that's being constantly infantilized by men.
When pooners poon out because of yaoi, it's usually because they look at these romantic stories and think "I won't be able to have that as a woman, because most of men want to be in the role I am not comfortable with and feel shame performing, but if I was a man I wouldn't have much of an issue performing them". It all comes back to internalized misogyny, but of course moids will instantly start stomping their foot insisting how this concept does not exist, how it's some made up feminist buzzword but say how internalized misandry is TRUUUUUU and REAL though because young men are taught to hate themselves by evil feminazis single mothers and society.png.
I mainly say this because I've seen so many pooners talk about how hecking valid powerbottoms they are, but then also talk how they can't imagine themselves a submissive woman.
Its not that its that the jobs dont bring anything extra for them . Will it get them a house and car ? No! benefits paying for most of the bills plus work under the table gets them whatever extras they want with far less worked hours . They will be at the same station in life if they work for globohomo plus they will be paying taxes and fees on top of their income . Of course corporations don't want to pay living wages let alone a salary that can afford you a starter shed in some town . So now nobody wants to work. I pretty wary of agri counties claiming nobody wants to work even though they have high unemployment. What they are saying nobody wants to work under the current ( inhumane) conditions and the current ( shit) pay.
I should had clarified better, my post was meant to criticize specific groups of moids, ones that refuse to even work jobs in Walmart or some fast food chain for
a temporarily time until they get/find a better job while whining how they no money, refuse to take these jobs because they think they'll get stuck working on them and of course the whole "muh dignity".
The reason I have a beef with this group is that they always cry they're denied having a family by the bad economy or whatever, okay, let's say they do get their wish, they find some woman to get married with and she's pregnant with their first child, however they get fired/laid off from their current job and the only job that is willing to employ them right now is something they would consider degrading or below them, would they be willing to grit their teeth and work it if it meant providing to their family or would they be willing to potentially damn it because "muh pride"?
If men like these cannot make sacrifices and put their pride aside now, what makes them think they'll be able to if by some miracle they were
given a family they allegedly desire so much?