Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

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A good friend of mine just told me he is now in a polyamorous relationship with two pooners and that he is considering himself some weird gender indentity. He's has been quite feminine for a while but never was annoying about it and he had a very edgy humor too so I didn't really saw it as a problem. But knowing all of this now makes me really worried about him so I'm writing this as he is probably going to be further to the pipeline of trooning out and becoming annoying about it. Im hopeless but I really wish he realizes this is not the way to go. I guess I'll just see how long until I can't keep considering him a friend before he becomes annoying about this
 
A good friend of mine just told me he is now in a polyamorous relationship with two pooners and that he is considering himself some weird gender indentity. He's has been quite feminine for a while but never was annoying about it and he had a very edgy humor too so I didn't really saw it as a problem. But knowing all of this now makes me really worried about him so I'm writing this as he is probably going to be further to the pipeline of trooning out and becoming annoying about it. Im hopeless but I really wish he realizes this is not the way to go. I guess I'll just see how long until I can't keep considering him a friend before he becomes annoying about this
Polyamorous relationships never end well and are for losers
 
It's been two years since I posted my own story on this thread about my ex who never told me they were trans (AGP) until we moved in together (despite him knowing he was for years beforehand) and subsequently guilt-tripped me into staying with them for 4 years, until I at last had enough of their shit and left. After that, they became a huge boobie fetish model (with weight gain on the side) on Twitter/X and now have 60k followers.
Their X has always been a goldmine of degenerate insanity that I've disturbingly enjoyed to peek in on from time to time, but good lord they are really getting cringey lately... so cringey that I couldn't help but comb through their X and make an AI song using their unedited posts.
If you're like me and have a retarded sense of humor, have a listen and enjoy: Song Link
Foreshadowing: Would you watch me hyperfixate on my interests if the camera was pointed at my boobs?

Hey ! It's Moo-nica !
Feed the Cow
Do it Meow!
I'll send pics and other lewd stuff for people who wanna feed me today moo! uwu
Let's get stuffing!

Starting to feel too skinny for my own good!
Look at how flat and thin I am!
Someone should help me fix that uwu
Reminder: My mind is lacking, but my ass is packing

Feeling horngry today uwu
Anyone wanna sate my cravings?
I'll treat you too of course, if you know what I mean!

Truly insane how gigantic my belly is
Like. My tits are the size of a melon each. I have photo evidence.
So imagine how MASSIVE my gut is right meow.
Sheeeeeesh

Wake up babe!
New Photoset just dropped!
Enjoy the low effort 'Velma At Home' energy that this cosplay brings!
Velma Season 2 didn't do its best and neither did I!
... I did my breast!

Gosh, I really look like a human meatball sometimes uwu
Moo~!! Craving a late night snack! Anyone wanna help a fattie out?
I'm tired of sitting on my fat butt where people can't see it

Feeling kinda sad tonight
Would like to see some cute girl armpit pics to cheer up!
Taking all these photos sure makes a girl hungry!
If someone feeds me today I'll burp in their ear, uwu

Hey guys! I'm working on photography and stuff and have come to realize I've also lost a good deal of weight since working at Amazon!
I'm wasting awayyyyyyyyyy
Anyone wanna treat me to some food for a belly pic today?
Please rub my belly and wish me luck!

My thighs are fat
Y'know
I was skinny once
It's May, Make me a mother c:

Wizards won't give me big boobie babes so I'll stick with the Buff baddies instead
Mark please print some fat titties I swear I'll buy every alt art extended showcase foil in existence please

I knew Jojo's would keep my butt glued to my seat but this is ridiculous!!
... seriously my giant hips wouldn't let me get out of my new chair and it was awful

Out of context someone used the phrase "Stuck between a rack and a hard place" in reference to me today and that has made my day better.

If anyone wants to donate beforehand to make my meal even bigger please do so! I always start with an extra large pizza!
I do belly signings live on stream for folks who come along and watch!

If someone wants to buy me a new button up shirt for work
I'll pop these buttons on camera!
Been so active with my job lately that my bra straps have been giving me rope burn!

Oh god of geeze oh god
I regret everything I did last night
Ooooooooooohhhhhhhhh I forgot what a hangover felt liiiiike

I was delivering and accidentally stepped on the break too hard and my boobs hit the horn
It went HOOOOOOONK!!!!
And oh god a few people came out of their homes to figure out what the hell was happening and I wanna fling myself into the sea

Ah well back to horny posting!
Isn't it crazy how much fatter I've become since I started gaining? uwu
What'll ALWAYS be free are headpats!
Thank you for supporting me

It's been 7 years since I left, but at this point all the negative feelings I had towards them have been replaced by the joy of having my own personal lolcow to laugh at whenever I'm having a bad day. In a way, I'm almost grateful to them... because god damnit, this shit is hilarious.
 
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A good friend of mine just told me he is now in a polyamorous relationship with two pooners and that he is considering himself some weird gender indentity. He's has been quite feminine for a while but never was annoying about it and he had a very edgy humor too so I didn't really saw it as a problem. But knowing all of this now makes me really worried about him so I'm writing this as he is probably going to be further to the pipeline of trooning out and becoming annoying about it. Im hopeless but I really wish he realizes this is not the way to go. I guess I'll just see how long until I can't keep considering him a friend before he becomes annoying about this
Just a little note on my friends poly relationship.
This not the type of poly where everyone is everyone's boyfriend/girlfriend. He is in the kind of relationship where he shares one of the pooners with the other pooner. He became a voluntary cuck.
Man at this pace this guy is gonna become a personal lolcow of mine. I usually wouldnt mind but I'm looking at the downfall of someone I really cared about. I'm gonna be seeing him ruin his own life in real time
*sigh*
 
Just a little note on my friends poly relationship.
This not the type of poly where everyone is everyone's boyfriend/girlfriend. He is in the kind of relationship where he shares one of the pooners with the other pooner. He became a voluntary cuck.
Man at this pace this guy is gonna become a personal lolcow of mine. I usually wouldnt mind but I'm looking at the downfall of someone I really cared about. I'm gonna be seeing him ruin his own life in real time
*sigh*
Shiiiit…

Being a cuck is sad. Being a cuck who has to share your woman with a pooner though?

Hoo boy, that’s a level of cuckery I never thought I’d see.

I’m surprised your friend doesn’t wake up one morning without a penis, because his dick packed a little suitcase and left during the night. Leaving a note saying: “I can’t deal with this shit, clearly my work here is done!”
 
I’m surprised your friend doesn’t wake up one morning without a penis
Honestly seeing how ever since he's dating that girl he's been identifying as "non binary demiboy" I will not be surprised if he trully troons out.
For now I can only pray because me and some other friends told him we don't really see a poly relationship as a good thing and that that girl he's dating is kind of crazy but we can't really stop him, he didn't took it so negatively, we are still friends but now we can only observe how he goes down that path by himself. At some point either he will realized he fucked up and leave that relationship, or he will fully succumb into troonery and cuckery and ruin his life.
I don't have a lot of hope for him at this point, if that last thing happens I might have to distance myself to avoid problems with him
 
Shiiiit…

Being a cuck is sad. Being a cuck who has to share your woman with a pooner though?

Hoo boy, that’s a level of cuckery I never thought I’d see.

I’m surprised your friend doesn’t wake up one morning without a penis, because his dick packed a little suitcase and left during the night. Leaving a note saying: “I can’t deal with this shit, clearly my work here is done!”
Blue lipstick stains from the Pooner, a boywife's despair
 
It finally happened. Someone close to me trooned out and it made me so fucking mad that I created an account to rage about it on the Farms.

Apologies for the PL to explain why I'm so goddamn disappointed.

In a past life, I was in academia, getting a post grad degree. While I was there, I got to know this South Korean undergrad, let's call him John. John is (or rather was) an absolute wunderkind at my field of study. While in his third year of undergrad, this motherfucker managed to get a paper accepted at the most prestigious venue for my field. For context, a paper at this venue basically constitutes a full Master's thesis. John could have graduated with a undergrad degree and a Master's with a bit of finagling for the required course work. AFAIK, John chose not to do this, but instead got a full ride to Princeton for a PhD with a leading scholar in the field. That's also a hell of an accomplishment in and of itself.

Lo and behold, one of my extremely pozzed ex-labmates has giddily informed me that John has been trooning out for several months, but wanted to be his """true self""" before he started at Princeton this September.

I should have seen the warning signs when he took multiple "breaks" from his undergrad to basically fart around for a semester. I thought it was just because he was burnt out from internships/academia, but now I know he's a troon, I'm sure he was spending those breaks gooning out on Hentai or sissy porn until he """discovered himself""".

I'm so fucking disappointed in John. I was rooting for this guy to succeed in this field - he had the drive and imagination to do really good work and make an impact. I thought it was incredible that he could a Master's student's work done while in undergrad. Hell, I helped give the guy career advice when he was questioning which internships to do to advance his academic career. And now I'm sure his PhD will go to shit because he's trooned out, as trooning is surely the #1 focus in his life, not his skills at research. 2:1 odds he becomes the nightmare student for his unsuspecting new supervisor at Princeton too.

Of course, the other thing that sucks ass is that all my old academia friends are pozzed handmaidens who are so fucking excited that John has "found his true self". I feel like shit that this guy I admired is pretty much dead, and a troon has risen in his place, but they expect me to be delighted about this turn of events.

Fuck this. I need to stop associating with these pozzed academics.
 
It finally happened. Someone close to me trooned out and it made me so fucking mad that I created an account to rage about it on the Farms.

Apologies for the PL to explain why I'm so goddamn disappointed.

In a past life, I was in academia, getting a post grad degree. While I was there, I got to know this South Korean undergrad, let's call him John. John is (or rather was) an absolute wunderkind at my field of study. While in his third year of undergrad, this motherfucker managed to get a paper accepted at the most prestigious venue for my field. For context, a paper at this venue basically constitutes a full Master's thesis. John could have graduated with a undergrad degree and a Master's with a bit of finagling for the required course work. AFAIK, John chose not to do this, but instead got a full ride to Princeton for a PhD with a leading scholar in the field. That's also a hell of an accomplishment in and of itself.

Lo and behold, one of my extremely pozzed ex-labmates has giddily informed me that John has been trooning out for several months, but wanted to be his """true self""" before he started at Princeton this September.

I should have seen the warning signs when he took multiple "breaks" from his undergrad to basically fart around for a semester. I thought it was just because he was burnt out from internships/academia, but now I know he's a troon, I'm sure he was spending those breaks gooning out on Hentai or sissy porn until he """discovered himself""".

I'm so fucking disappointed in John. I was rooting for this guy to succeed in this field - he had the drive and imagination to do really good work and make an impact. I thought it was incredible that he could a Master's student's work done while in undergrad. Hell, I helped give the guy career advice when he was questioning which internships to do to advance his academic career. And now I'm sure his PhD will go to shit because he's trooned out, as trooning is surely the #1 focus in his life, not his skills at research. 2:1 odds he becomes the nightmare student for his unsuspecting new supervisor at Princeton too.

Of course, the other thing that sucks ass is that all my old academia friends are pozzed handmaidens who are so fucking excited that John has "found his true self". I feel like shit that this guy I admired is pretty much dead, and a troon has risen in his place, but they expect me to be delighted about this turn of events.

Fuck this. I need to stop associating with these pozzed academics.
The worst thing about this thread is that we are never talking about random people we don't know. Its most of the time someone we look up to and care about that troons out and all we can do now is see how that beloved person rots away and becomes a totally different person, most of the time a worst person.

So sad your friend (or whatever he was from you) took this path, from your description it sounded that he had a bright future in front of him
 
So sad your friend (or whatever he was from you) took this path, from your description it sounded that he had a bright future in front of him
The sad thing is that my ex-field is so infested with DEI and troonery that John could conceivably grift shit for years without contributing anything of note to the actually useful parts of the field. Hell, one of the organizers of one of the big conferences in my field is the biggest giga-hon you ever did see (who I witnessed go from man to enby to hon in real time).

On a side note, John has updated his twitter pic to his byootiful new female self. Not posting it so as to not dox myself, but he's literally an average Asian man with garish eyeshadow and a hair barrette. Behold this recreation I painstakingly crafted in 10 gorillion hours with MS Paint of the beautiful belle:

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Honestly seeing how ever since he's dating that girl he's been identifying as "non binary demiboy" I will not be surprised if he trully troons out.
For now I can only pray because me and some other friends told him we don't really see a poly relationship as a good thing and that that girl he's dating is kind of crazy but we can't really stop him, he didn't took it so negatively, we are still friends but now we can only observe how he goes down that path by himself. At some point either he will realized he fucked up and leave that relationship, or he will fully succumb into troonery and cuckery and ruin his life.
I don't have a lot of hope for him at this point, if that last thing happens I might have to distance myself to avoid problems with him
In my teens I had to choose between visiting two friends, both of whom was hoping for more. Went with one who now trooned out, and is dating a female trooner, whereas the other is "a rich loner in bumfuck nowhere". Suddenly they started talking about all these niche (furry) dating apps and how they "had a random meetup" and "got bullied into using someone else's discarded furcon ticket" etc. Month later, thirdwheeling a "straight" couple (both with weird gender agendas) and I'm just here "Man, he should've been the faggot boytoy of a stud" or whatever. Nah, been showing troony behavior and has admitted to wanting to troon out if not the fact it'd never work out. Now he's chasing fem tranny pussy exclusively when he's not hooked on BBC porn.

To think, a good dickin' could've saved him. Alas.
 
all we can do now is see how that beloved person rots away and becomes a totally different person, most of the time a worst person.
It reminds me of a quote from Junky/Junkie, William S. Burroughs/Will Lee, 1953:
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The live human being has moved out of these bodies long ago. But something moved in when the original tenant moved out. Fags are ventriloquists' dummies who have moved in and taken over the ventriloquist. The dummy sits in a queer bar nursing his beer, and uncontrollably yapping out of a rigid doll face.

This isn't how I'd describe gay people today (maybe young or loud "queers," but the louder they are, the more likely they are to go trans). I wonder if the same phenomenon has moved on now that boring homosexuality is mainstream, so it's in the trans people now.

(Personally, I still prefer the cult comparison, but I thought it was really interesting to see such a similar observation from the 1950s.)
 
Elon Musk spoke to Jordan Peterson about how the transing of his son basically made him go full conservative

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[trying to tread very lightly here..but this is similar to my own situation. i have lost one of my own to the cult..he isnt an actual troon yet, but hes living with one, and apparently hes convinced himself that hes straight..and this is what convinced me this was a cult, (aside from everything ive seen with my own eyes)...my son was a happy young man, loved to joke around, very social..was pretty normal..but he got roped into all this shit, and now hes not even 30, and hes bitter, full of rage, ready to start a fight with anyone who even acts like they don't agree with any of this. he finally told me that he isnt going to speak to me for 5 years, and after this arbitrary time limit is up, apparently im supposed to list the ways ive offended him and his degenerate friends..obviously, im not playing this stupid game with him, and he has pretty much walked away from his entire family, bought a house, and moved them all into it, and now basically lives in his own sort of ivory tower that only includes himself, his troon boyfriend creature thing, and a few other of the same types. he hasnt seen his siblings in years. :/ /SPOILER]
 
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