Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

[soft breathing]

Every warning, intervention, or dressing down they gave us involved some variant of "you have all the time in the world to find someone" or even better "if this is really The One, you'll get back together eventually" or "you need to live a little and get more experience"

I never understood that. At fucking all.

Spoiler: rant

If you find "The One", why the fuck would you need to go out of your way to 'experience' other people (which mostly just means having sex)?
Why should you wait to get engaged/married if you're sure that's the one and you're sure you know the person you're dating and you can imagine spending the rest of your life with them?

My partner and me got a ton of shit for this as well, that's why this is enraging me so much.
We started dating in 2008, talked about marriage (just the whole 'do you ever want to get married?' talk, no actual plans, y'know) around two years later, got married in 2015. So we've been dating 7 years, talked everything through, knew each other like the back of our hands, and yet people still gave us shit. Hell, this is the first time I'm ever telling this to someone but we even talked about the "Hey, what if we get married and find out a few years later that we're just not compatible?" scenario. Maybe we're weird and autistic, but this just felt so much better to me than just being all lovey-dovey-nuffin'-can-ruin-this and then falling flat on my face.

Yet, people still gave us shit.
Well, mostly him.

Someone asked him (while I was bloody sitting next to him) "Are you sure you want to settle on one woman for the rest of your life this early? Don't you want to go out and have some fun first?"

My own parents (especially my dad) were like "Isn't this too early to settle? What if you both regret it? Doesn't he still want to enjoy life a little before settling?"

Like, people need to stop projecting their failed attempts at relationships/marriage - and their absolute bloody inability to recognise red flags and/or stay faithful - onto other people. I never felt like being married restricted anything in my life, I never felt like I've missed out on anything - most of the 'experiences' people talk about are so futile and just quick dopamine-hits that just aren't worth the hassle; to me at least. If that's how someone wants to live their life - go ahead. But leave me the fuck alone with that shit, especially if I didn't even ask for an opinion.

 

[I'm a Silly]

These are the same people that will tell you not be harsh on a celebrity like Brendon Fraser because "he had it rough" btw.

Anyways, I want to remind everybody in this thread of how the main honcho behind Women Posting L's looks like, so it's very safe to assume that
the merry band of cryptobro troons to be that follow him and made similar ragebait sludge Twitter accounts inspired by his such as this one also look like this.
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is that Women Posting Ls or Women Being Awful, or is it the same guy?

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Just had this on my YT front page - enjoy.

hehehe

 

[12345]

I am just going to relate to this how I reached the level fuck this I am dating decade younger virgin men.

Good luck with that. Seriously. Virgin males have other things to worry about, particularly attachment. Had one guy lie and say he had experience, he hadn't. And I was too young to see the warning signs.

Spoiler

First he managed to give me a hickey on my nipple and breast that took weeks to heal and was quite painful until it was healed. We ended up not dating but moving in as roommates to share expenses. (I had broken up with him when I found out he lied to me.) But we'd both moved separately to Ontario so it made sense to save money. If we were drinking (which was quite often) he would always try to lean in for a kiss and I would dodge it.

I woke up one night with him leaning over me in his tightey-whiteys dick hard and just sticking out of that weird flap their underwear has. I yelled at him and curled up in the corner assuming he was drunk and he didn't bring it up so neither did I.

Shortly after this we went to a convention where we had decided to stay overnight doing night convention things. Except an hour before the night event we were interested in they switched it to the next night. We had nothing to do. We ended up getting one room an hour's drive away by taxi at 3 am after walking around. It was the last choice. One room. I put all the extra pillows as a wall up with the awkward explanation that I needed something at my back to sleep.

I'm a very light sleeper (luckily) and when I heard my name I woke up right away. I don't know if that first one was to see if I was awake or not. I just lay there frozen, trying to keep my breathing even, you know? I didn't have enough to pay for a taxi to get back to the convention, let alone home. And the bed started shaking. And he started saying my name over and over. It didn't last long. I don't know if he was sleeping or not. I just waited until I was sure he was asleep, gathered my things in the dark and went down to the restaurant and nursed a coffee until he came down in the morning.

But also the current thing that guys like right now are apparently "Hags" (older women) so I guess be careful with it? At least go into it with the experience knowing that guys will absolutely lie or say whatever they have to get their dicks wet. If they even think they have the slightest shot.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Good luck with that. Seriously. Virgin males have other things to worry about, particularly attachment. Had one guy lie and say he had experience, he hadn't. And I was too young to see the warning signs.

I am already in a relationship with one and a kid from him . Depends some lie a lot others a painfully honest. But guys who are painfully honest usually come with I just want ltr and i am virgin but look I have a house and a car and savings . But then again this is norway . So your mileage will vary.

 

[pentangle]

I am just going to relate to this how I reached the level fuck this I am dating decade younger virgin men

My friend (who's 28 ) is the only one I've known who managed to find a virgin guy. Turns out there's a reason he's a virgin: he's got a deeply unlikeable personality (think boring and judgmental and intellectually and aesthetically uninspired at the same time) and grotesque breath and tonsil stones he refuses to do anything about. This friend of mine literally buys him mouth wash and a tongue cleaner and shit and he refuses to use them because 'it's not like his bad breath bothers him, only her.'

Meanwhile I spend my 20s trying to start my family I had ltr who broke up the minute he got his bachelors thinking he can do better and to sow his wild oats because of this mentality . Hint he wasnt that successful and he somehow managed to get woman who looks uglier and older than me how I have no idea a 7 years later of "sowing his wild oats" and trying to get an upgrade.

I was in relationships with 2 guys throughout my 20s and both of them ended up becoming tenuously employed shut-ins and never dated anyone after. It's actually remarkable how quickly they settled into "well I guess I'll just rot in my rented one-bedroom until I die." Both had masters degrees.

 

[Lidl Drip]

Just had this on my YT front page - enjoy.

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He looks like a mangled thumb; and has a lot of opinions for a guy with so little hair.

"Cute finance bro" lmao

Sorry but being bald is an automatic 0/10 no matter how tall and how much money is in his bank account. He looks like a cancer patient. Bald men are creepy as fuck, giving off major gollum vibes every time. Use that money to get some hair transplants before showing your face online. Also that accent is awful.

 

[2mm and 99 others]

Sadly, grafts for hair transplants are taken from one's own head and can save receding hairline and partial baldness, Elon Musk style. If the man is genetically already bald af with almost no hair left, there's no help for that.

 

[soft breathing]

I've went through the YT channel of the dude with the flags some more and just..

This has to be bait, right? Right....?

Just like this one, right? Girls, please tell me this shit is bait...?

If my partner and me ever break up, I'll either move to the forest with 50 cats or become a lesbian. Maybe both.

 

[Inside your walls]

 

[Ass Dan]

I've went through the YT channel of the dude with the flags some more and just..

This has to be bait, right? Right....?

Just like this one, right? Girls, please tell me this shit is bait...?

If my partner and me ever break up, I'll either move to the forest with 50 cats or become a lesbian. Maybe both.

Yes, these are all bait. However, there's nothing staged about the ugliness and stupidity of the moids featured. That's 100% genuine.

 

[Susanna]

Sadly, grafts for hair transplants are taken from one's own head and can save receding hairline and partial baldness, Elon Musk style. If the man is genetically already bald af with almost no hair left, there's no help for that.

Lack of hair is a sign of bad health/bad genetics, so I don’t agree that it’s sad some of them can’t get plastic surgery to hide that from us. It is sad to have to look at them, but if it saves even one woman from making a terrible mistake and giving some genetic dead end children, it’s done good.

 

[In the Sick of It]

Just like this one, right? Girls, please tell me this shit is bait...?

I've had a few of this couple's videos come up on my page and I was baffled why she would deal with him, and looked at the comments for context. Apparently he actually loves her cooking and they are just making rage bait. I still don't understand why you would make videos like this, but I guess it's profitable.

 

[Thé au lait]

Meanwhile I spend my 20s trying to start my family I had ltr who broke up the minute he got his bachelors thinking he can do better and to sow his wild oats because of this mentality

New tradition: if you dump your girlfriend after multiple years, she gets one good kick at your nuts. That way there's less hard feelings, and faggots like that can decide if they really want to waste someone's time.

Just had this on my YT front page - enjoy.


He looks like a mangled thumb; and has a lot of opinions for a guy with so little hair.

There is no fucking way this dude looked at himself in a mirror and went "yeah, I'm cute! 'Cute finance bro'!"

That is some Elliot Rodger levels of delusional self-worship, because good Lord that face is some Islamic content!

 

[Lidl Drip]

I've went through the YT channel of the dude with the flags some more and just..

This has to be bait, right? Right....?

Just like this one, right? Girls, please tell me this shit is bait...?

If my partner and me ever break up, I'll either move to the forest with 50 cats or become a lesbian. Maybe both.

I gotta admit the second one made me laugh cause "I don't really wanna chew my food anymore" made it so obvious it was fake. It's probably not moral to create this kind of ragebait content but man it is so easy to make money off stupid people on social media.

 

[keke]

Sadly, grafts for hair transplants are taken from one's own head and can save receding hairline and partial baldness, Elon Musk style. If the man is genetically already bald af with almost no hair left, there's no help for that.

Just adding on. It’s very rare for men to lose the hair around the base of their hairline because of the different sensitivities the follicles have there. Hair grafts take hair from that area and to the front, but those follicles do not grow back once removed, so there’s a limited supply. Deadzones, where the follicles no longer exist at the front, take a tremendous amount of hair to fill, and it never looks quite right. Prevention is better than the ‘cure‘ here. I do love how men crumble to pieces when a woman merely expresses she doesn’t prefer bald men. The incel entitlement always pops up straight away, despite the fact men can be bald and fat and whatever and still get a wife.

I’m sure many of you have noticed that the misogynistic stereotypes society is flush with are just extreme projections from men. Such as the gossiping women line, which men also do in sneakier ways. Another is this idea of women sabotaging attractive women, and being jealous of them, like dumb cunt Chris Williamson suggesting women are actually jealous of prostitutes because men desire them. lol, lmao, ijbol, kys, etc. A nice little ~2015 study found that in competitive work environments, physically attractive men applying for promotions are more likely be discriminated against, as male colleagues are more likely to perceive them as a potential threat.

 

[2mm and 99 others]

Lack of hair is a sign of bad health/bad genetics, so I don’t agree that it’s sad some of them can’t get plastic surgery to hide that from us. It is sad to have to look at them, but if it saves even one woman from making a terrible mistake and giving some genetic dead end children, it’s done good.

Yeah it was discussed a lot in covid times, that baldness is just one symptom of a much more complex syndrome that affects one's immunity and bald (+fat) guys got the worst deal back then.
Anecdotal, but as I think about it, bald men around me have a shitty immunity, they seem to be sick about every month.

 

[JambledUpWords]

Chris Williamson suggesting women are actually jealous of prostitutes because men desire them.

This is definitely a take only a moid can come up with lol. Many prostitutes aren’t there by choice, and are part of of sex trafficking operations. The ones that do it because they want to are typically mentally broken in some way (whether it be from genuine mental illness and/or very crappy home life with unsupportive parents). I’ve met someone once that was a former stripper, and once she was able to get out of that business, she did, and that’s just for something on the more legal end of the sex industry. She also had a very awful dad, and that likely had some impact too. No woman I’ve actually met expressed jealousy towards prostitutes over them apparently being more desirable to the average moid.

 

[isalaide]

There is no fucking way this dude looked at himself in a mirror and went "yeah, I'm cute! 'Cute finance bro'!"

That is some Elliot Rodger levels of delusional self-worship, because good Lord that face is some Islamic content!

My favourite bit was "you will never date a man like me".

Correct, at no point in my entire life would I have gone out with a bald twat in an ugly suit.

That was the point he was trying to make, right?

 

[obliviousbeard]

Chris Williamson suggesting women are actually jealous of prostitutes because men desire them.

Ngl, it's not even desireability, but accessibility that draws certain men to prostitutes. Why actually put in the effort with relationship, or casual sex with people or whatever - just agree upon time and price and you're set. And at most benign, cause someone to become disillusioned with all things male, and at worst directly fund human trafficking operation.

Also, needless to say but as things lay, male desire isn't really that much of a prize this Williamson seems to think it is. There's no shortage of dick.

 

[Steam Deck Verified]

A nice little ~2015 study found that in competitive work environments, physically attractive men applying for promotions are more likely be discriminated against, as male colleagues are more likely to perceive them as a potential threat.

Curiously enough this translates to my area of autistic focus aka award season races. "Slap the stud" effect is real, it takes a tremendous effort for voters, especially male voters, to reward a young or attractive male actor, whereas they have no qualms about doing the same with young attractive actresses.

But I shouldn't be surprised, I saw how many fat bald and ugly neckbeards LOATHED Timothee Chalamet and refused to believe that any woman was honest to God attracted to a slim, twink-like, young pretty boy instead of a "manly lumberjack" which is Reddit code for a smelly hayfishing fatass with an awful beard. Regardless of anyone's personal feelings towards Chalamet and his looks it should be pretty fucking obvious why girls preferred someone who was cute, spoke French and looked like he showered regularly and washed his clothes instead of your average gas station moid.