@cocotheterrible
"The patriarchy" is a cloying euphemism for something demoniacal;
First of all, this is fucking annoying. It's not a euphemism, it's a word with a meaning and it's what we live in. It's not indirect, it's straight up a word for "male domination". If you think it harsh, blunt, or offensive, go fuck yourself. For someone who uses such ostentatious language you tell on yourself for having a problem with OUR use of "patriarchy". Women being dominated by men is what's harsh and offensive, because you exist to inseminate us at the expense of anything and EVERYTHING. That is the reason for the male to exist. Male domination of women inevitably leads to a terrifying existence for women and girls. We don't want to know what you think of the language we use to describe reality as WE see it, and if you live in the delusion moids must to think of themselves as rational, decent people, that's your problem. A very big problem.
I sincerely hope other guys pay close attention to all this and keep your knees from jerking for just once.
This part tells me you think your approval of women's thoughts validate them. Of course, men won't listen to women, but if a MOID tells them it's ok, then that's authoritative and makes it ok to consider what women think. Women don't need your approval. "Men can't be feminists". You can't. This is a space for you to stfu and lurk if you want to, there are meta threads to go talk to men if you want; I personally don't feel validated by male approval at all. You're using it to make yourself feel above it and you're not. You didn't need to announce to the "no boyz allowed" thread that you're a moid, but you did, why? Because you think that fact makes you more valid, more worth listening to? I'd be insulted if I didn't inherently look down on you people.
But why was it always men advising me on actual social skills, or how to initiate and sustain romantic relationships? Why were none of them questioning the implicit assumption that men knew what women needed, better than women knew?
The coup de grace here is even as I read this thread I see thoughts come up like "I wish women were this direct to my face, I could have been a better person, I'm broken and need women to tell me how to fix myself" which just illustrates how profound the self-gaslighting is
Just explained it. You don't think women's words are inherently worth listening to. You value moid opinions and moid views of reality above women's.
The system is sustained because it's recursive cycle of familial abuse at the macro level. Like species-wide.
the system is sustained because each moid individually makes a decision at some point that male approval is what's most important. That women's approval and thoughts are worthless. You're blaming a cycle of familial abuse at the macro level, but really every moid has a choice and he chooses that male approval is worth more to him.
Men are so deeply brainwashed by other men from birth that they live and die wholly oblivious to it.
Blame. Inability to take accountability. When will the moid ever admit that he has choices in his existence, that brainwashing from other men or familial cycles of abuse aren't at the root of his own, personal misogyny? It's choices you've each made.
