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- Nov 15, 2021
What makes me shy away from having most women as friends (let alone forming romantic relationships) is not only feminism, but parts of the female psyche that predate feminism by billions of years. The constant talking. Their obsession over minor details of things. Their absurdly high disgust reflex. Their incredible sensitivity to social cues. Their prioritization of safety over literally everything else that matters. I know not all women are like this (even seen some exceptions here of all places,) but enough of them are to make me shy away from interacting with women at all unless absolutely necessary. I suppose feminism amplified some of these aspects, but many are not exactly new.
Feminism is the reason you think you should want a woman to be your friend. Feminism says men shouldn't first and foremost see women as our sexual complements; we should see them as our equals and worthy of every social role in our lives that another man should have. That's nonsense. Of course you shouldn't be friends with women. Go read some classics of pre-feminist literature. Could be anything, Grapes of Wrath, Grant's Memoirs, Tale of Two Cities, you name it, and you know what you don't find? Men chumming around with women, all buddy-buddy. The fact that women aren't people I want to be friends with doesn't upset me or make me hate them because I don't accept feminism.
"Romantic partner" is a silly concept. What even is that? Someone you ejaculate into for a while until you both move on? It's more nonsense promoted by feminists, who insisted, following Andrea Dworkin, that marriage and motherhood are prison cells that oppress women, and must be abolished so women can be free to be the equals of men that they truly are.
Reminder that most of our modern ethos surrounding love and sex comes from this woman:

You shouldn't be looking for a "romantic partner." You should be looking for a "wife and mother." All those traits make for admirable mothers, as children need a lot of care, especially in the early days, and someone who's a little neurotic about filth and attentive to every variation in a baby's cry does a pretty good job of making sure they survive. A woman who doesn't want to be a wife or mother is trash; discard her.
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