Three more women have come forward to the Herald-Leader detailing specific instances of alleged sexual harassment by state Rep. Daniel Grossberg, even as state officials continue to investigate previous allegations of improper interactions.
The three women, all involved in Kentucky’s political scene in Frankfort, contacted the newspaper after its initial July 30
story where other women said the Louisville Democrat had sent them unwanted “creepy” and “weird” text messages they said crossed ethical lines.
That same story confirmed the state’s Legislative Research Commission was investigating Grossberg’s behavior.
The most recent allegations include inappropriate, harassing or sexually-tinged text or direct social media messages. One of the women described feeling sexually harassed by Grossberg in the summer of 2023, in his statehouse office after a legislative meeting.
Late Monday night, when presented with details of the three women’s accounts, Grossberg denied the claims, but also apologized to those he’s made “uncomfortable.”
“I deny any allegations of sexual harassment or abuse of office,” he emailed to the Herald-Leader. “I sincerely apologize to anyone who felt uncomfortable because of something I said or wrote.”
The women’s ages range from 26 to 28.
Grossberg, 45, is married. He represents about 46,000 Louisville residents in the 30th House District.
The Herald-Leader has granted the women anonymity due to the intimate nature of the allegations against Grossberg and their fears of retaliation.
To ensure the veracity of their stories, reporters reviewed 68 time-stamped texts or direct messages sent by Grossberg via X, formerly Twitter.
Reporters also reviewed another 63 text messages the women sent to friends and family detailing how his behavior triggered worries for their safety. The Herald-Leader also spoke to some of the people to whom these women confided at the time to corroborate their stories.
Their accounts paint a portrait of a rookie representative in Frankfort, running unopposed in November’s election, who wields his power and influence to target ambitious young women whose careers intersect with politics.
The three women who shared their stories for publication said they contacted Herald-Leader reporters to protect other women they feared Grossberg could target.
“While I value my position and involvement within the (Democratic) party and believe deeply in the principles it stands for, I cannot in good conscience remain silent about this issue,” one of the three women told the Herald-Leader.
“No woman should ever feel unsafe or intimidated in any situation, and especially not in a community that should be rooted in respect and equality.”
She added: “All women deserve to live and work in Kentucky without the fear of being targeted by people like Mr. Grossberg.”
Since the Herald-Leader first published the
story about Grossberg’s behavior in late July, a dozen women from around the country, many of whom have no relationship with each other, reached out and shared allegations of harassing or sexually-charged communications from him dating back to 2001.
Grossberg added in his statement that he is “fully cooperating” with an ethics investigation into his conduct and said he’s determined to hold himself “to a higher standard and am committed to listening to women’s voices.”
One young woman recalled Grossberg inviting her to his office after a July 20, 2023, legislative committee meeting they both attended. He poured himself 6 to 8 shots of bourbon, eventually slurring his words. She refused his offers to drink with him.
He asked her several intrusive, sex-related questions, including about her sex life and genitals. He told her she was very attractive and said it was a “shame” she didn’t like men.
The two other women shared text messages from the past two years that they described as harassing, unwanted or threatening. Grossberg wrote to one woman “I love you” on multiple occasions, and told the other that if she were to find out his pornography preferences, she “would never forgive him.”
All three said Grossberg, one of 20 Democrats in Kentucky’s House of Representatives, is unfit for office. They said they were intimidated by him after tense interactions and receiving messages from him because he’s an elected official and about 20 years older than them.
After the Herald-Leader published its initial story, House Democrats voted to temporarily
remove him from their caucus pending further investigation. House Democratic leadership also called for an additional ethics investigation, beyond the initial Legislative Research Commission probe. He also has been booted from his statehouse office space.
The Kentucky Young Democrats, a political organization that supports politicians under 40, has formally called for Grossberg to resign.
Grossberg and his Frankfort-based attorney, Anna Whites, have offered several defenses, including claiming that the initially reported texts did
not reveal “sexually harassing or inappropriate” material.
When contacted close to 8:30 p.m. Monday and presented with details of the three women’s accounts, Whites said this has been a “long process” for Grossberg – “months in which he has been picked on and bullied.”
Whites said that she’s worried the latest publicized exchanges have been misunderstood.
“It’s very easy to make accusations and take comments out of context,” she added.
Whites told the Herald-Leader she had not seen any messages that “cause me concern,” or that she considers harassing.
Grossberg’s attorney has previously said the lawmaker has a
“neurodivergent diagnosis,” placing him on the autism spectrum.
She did not specify what condition the lawmaker has. She told the Herald-Leader they had sent medical records to the Kentucky Legislative Ethics Commission in response to a complaint filed by House Democratic leadership against Grossberg.
The three women who most recently shared their stories to the Herald-Leader will be referred to Woman A, B and C for ease of readership and to protect their identities.
“I was in a tenuous situation”
Woman A, a 28-year-old involved in politics in Frankfort, recounted what she described as sexual harassment in Grossberg’s office last summer.
The Herald-Leader has reviewed messages corroborating that the events occurred in July 2023, as well as messages she sent to friends after about what happened.
During a late-afternoon July 20 legislative committee, Grossberg, a committee member, texted her asking to talk after it ended.
When the meeting ended, Grossberg invited her to his office instead, stating he couldn’t remember what he wanted to talk about. Woman A, who was 26 at the time, agreed.
There, he showed off some of the items on display in his office, including a bottle of bourbon made by a Jewish distiller.
Grossberg asked if she wanted a drink, she said. Woman A told him she’s sober and doesn’t drink. He insisted they do shots, and she again refused him.
As an alternative, he left his office to grab a Starbucks cold brew from a nearby fridge. He poured her a shot of cold brew and himself a shot of bourbon, and they toasted before drinking.
They’d been talking for nearly an hour when Grossberg left his capitol annex office again to see how empty the nearby rooms and hallways were given the political dynamics they were discussing. He returned and confirmed it was “just the two of us” in the office, she said.
Grossberg then brought up Senate Bill 150 — a sweeping GOP-backed law passed in March 2023 over Gov. Andy Beshear’s veto that bans doctors from providing gender-affirming health care to trans youth.
Grossberg asked Woman A, who is trans, about her own experience. Questions like, how long had she known she was trans, and did she have her gender updated on her driver’s license?
Woman A said she had fielded similar questions by other sitting lawmakers during deliberation on this bill, and the questions “did not take me by surprise,” she said.
But then Grossberg, who was still drinking bourbon, began to probe deeper, asking intimate questions that quickly made her uncomfortable. He asked about her genitals, her sex life and whether she had gender-reassignment surgery.
He added that he did not find the post-operative vaginas of trans women “convincing,” Woman A said.
She bristled at his comments and questions, saying that information was between her, her partner and her doctor.
“At this point I realized I was in a tenuous situation,” she said. “As a 26-year-old trans woman, I was alone with an inebriated middle-aged male state representative in his office, asking me about my sexual identity and history. I felt trapped.”
While this conversation was taking place, Grossberg continued to take shots of bourbon, she said.
“Sometimes, Rep. Grossberg would remember that I don’t drink. Other times, he would act as if he’d forgotten that I wasn’t drinking alcohol with him and begin to pour me a shot of bourbon,” she said. “After reminding him, he would apologize for forgetting and pour me more cold brew coffee.”
Grossberg asked her about her sexual orientation, specifically if she had ever performed a certain sexual act with a man. She responded she only dated women and was in a committed relationship.
Grossberg then told her it was a “shame” she didn’t like men, told her she was attractive and called her partner a “lucky woman.”
He then shared details about his sex life with his wife before asking her more questions about her body, which she said she did not answer.
Shortly after, she told him she needed to get home, and he said he should do the same. Grossberg offered to escort her out and she agreed.
On the walk out, he commented about how empty the building was, that they were “closing the place down.”
To avoid continuing to be alone with him, she excused herself to the restroom and told Grossberg to go ahead without her.
“I hid in the restroom for roughly 20 minutes until I was confident that he had left, and I could walk to my car without encountering him again,” she said. “I was in disbelief at what had just happened.”
Just before 6 p.m., a friend texted Woman A to ask how she was doing. She wrote back, “Well, I’m just leaving Frankfort (because) I was in a committee meeting and Grossberg wanted to chat afterwards and then he ended up getting drunk in his office.”
“Deeply uncomfortable and increasingly unsafe”
Woman B is 26 and involved in Democratic politics in Kentucky.
On several different occasions in 2024, both in person, through texts and in other messaging apps — she shared 14 different text messages from the lawmaker — Grossberg repeatedly made comments she considered harassing or threatening.
In messages she shared with the Herald-Leader, he asked questions about her sexual orientation and expressed serious romantic interest despite being married. The Herald-Leader has reviewed these messages and others referenced by Woman B.
Grossberg told her if she were to learn what his porn preferences were, “I would never forgive him,” Woman B texted a friend May 17 of this year.
“This comment, along with others, left me feeling deeply uncomfortable and increasingly unsafe,” she told the Herald-Leader. “His power within the party, combined with the nature of his questions and comments, left me feeling threatened and concerned for the future of my career.”
In one message, Grossberg encouraged Woman B to use the messaging app Snapchat, where messages and photos disappear soon after sending.
“I like chats that can’t be used against me. lol,” he wrote to her on Dec. 1, 2023.
Woman B called him “scary” and added his actions “have caused me significant distress and have left me with a deep sense of vulnerability.”
She also mentioned in a May 17 text to a friend that Grossberg was “relentlessly” asking her for nude pictures of herself.
Woman B shared with the Herald-Leader multiple texts between her and others referencing a comment Grossberg made to her, stating “you owe me.” She took that to mean either sexual favors or nude photos.
“I remember waking up to that text and thinking how gross that was”
Woman C, who is also involved in Democratic politics in Frankfort, shared messages of Grossberg calling her “beautiful,” telling her that he loved her and saying he had a “crush” on her.
She said she’s speaking up for “those who feel silenced” and “those who are scared of his power since he is a sitting lawmaker.”
His pattern of behavior, she added, “has got to stop.”
On Nov. 27, 2021, when Woman C was 24 and “barely knew him,” Grossberg told her “I love you” and added “(I) still have your back.”
Woman C said she found it odd but didn’t push back, due to his connections and status in the political world.
But the unsolicited messages made her more uneasy to interact in person with him at political events, which they both regularly attended, she said.
In August 2022, during the busy campaign season and after Grossberg won his primary battle against a longtime incumbent, the two became more acquainted through Democratic politics.
He texted her Aug. 19, 2022, at 11:37 p.m. This time, he asked her a campaign question but prefaced it by calling her “beautiful, beautiful.”
“Being referred to as ‘beautiful, beautiful’ in a text message at 11:37 pm by a married man is something I wish to not happen to me,” she told the Herald-Leader.
“I remember waking up to that text and thinking how gross that was, but never said anything to him or anyone, because I didn’t know who to say anything to.”
On Jan. 25, 2023, Grossberg asked Woman C out for a drink in another late-night text and inquired about the year that she graduated high school.
When she answered the following morning — she agreed to get a drink but never did — he responded “there’s something about” girls from that particular high school, punctuating it with a winking emoticon: “

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Later that year, on May 23, Grossberg again messaged Woman C, “I love you.”
In December 2023, when Woman C was involved in another Democratic campaign, Grossberg texted her, “my crush on you just went to 11.”
“I remember the feeling of my heart sinking to my stomach as I sat in my office at work, getting ready to eat the leftover Indian food I had just warmed up,” she said. “I remember losing my appetite. I remember my entire body shaking from anxiety. I remember wanting to go home.”
Woman C eventually wrote back “Lol, I know you’re kidding when you say that, but please don’t say that to me.”
After that, the messages stopped.
However, she remained anxious and asked male friends to be around her at events, including Gov. Andy Beshear’s inaugural ball late last year, where both she and Grossberg were present.
“Two of the friends who knew about the text and I walked into the tent at the gala, and I saw Daniel,” she said. “I immediately got that feeling in my stomach again. A night that was supposed to be full of love, celebration, turned to anxiety.”
She added, “I looked at these two friends and made them swear to me they would not let him get near me.”
This story was originally published August 20, 2024, 6:00 AM.
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