E Beggars on Twitter / Social Media E Beggar General - "Pay for FUCKING EVERYTHING"

Here are a couple of recent food/soda begging posts.
I'm sure whoever came up with 'poor people deserve nice things too' had nothing but good intentions, but these entitled assholes who insist they deserve nothing but the finest of brand-name empty calories use the phrase as an impregnable shield for their audacity.

Imagine being post-partum and asking for free Monster. Tell me you're white trash without telling me you're white trash. Goddamn.
 
whoever came up with 'poor people deserve nice things too' had nothing but good intentions
i remember in the 80's and 90's it was actually a thing pushed by the replacement SNAP program because food should be more than bland nutritional yeast with water. the idea is to have a rounded meal plan per week with a few things to look forward to now and then to avoid depression, provide variety, and a sense of normalcy for someone that is impoverished or has unstable food/shelter/warmth/family/security situations. much in the same way giving a make up kit or a football or art supplies or something can be a mood stabilizer, mood-improver, and help boost self esteem and confidence when otherwise every other aspect of home life is isolating (unable to go out with friends easily, unable to spend money they don't have, limited or possibly anxiety inducing home life, worn and mended clothing that was cheap to begin with that might make someone also feel equally worn and threadbare, et c).

when i was sent overseas during my first deployment, food was something to look forward to and also had some reminders of home (chili mac, fajita chicken, chicken and rice, whatever that pork sausage riblet thing was in the red-brown gravy/sauce that came with beef jerky and apple strudel) when each day was working in a fairly unpleasant environment. usually once a week or so we'd get fresh food or be able to get snacks at the PX, but DFAC wasn't a thing until coming back from patrol to one of the larger green zone bases or the airport or something.

i can criticize people for begging for snacks and treats on top of getting government assistance and almost purposefully making bad choices for their budget or "how-to-be-poor". but much like i can't criticize someone begging to get work clothing/shoes, i can't in good conscience criticize someone wanting a treat now and then or something like movie tickets or a KFC meal deal or whatever.

it's the demand and entitlement that is terrible. it's the inability to make rational decisions to improve their situation that is terrible. it's using unfortunate situations to guilt others into supporting your lifestyle and it's using kids as convenient props to do it that i find angering.
 
I've lurked in a bunch of threads about notable e-beggars for a while now, and after seeing how aggressively some of these people demand money right this second, I realized that Twitter e-beggars actually have a lot in common with incels. I know that might sound crazy, but take a second to think about it:

-Both groups display a sense of entitlement and/or a victim mentality. E-beggars feel entitled to donations or support from others without offering much in return, while incels feel that society or women "owe" them sex.
-Both blame external factors for their problems. E-beggars attribute their financial problems to the economy, society, or being part of a minority. Incels blame women, societal norms, or genetics. Neither group can accept the fact they are at least partly at fault for their problems.
-Both turn to the internet to seek validation. E-beggars use social media or crowdfunding to ask for money, while incels congregate on forums/subreddits to vent about their struggles and connect with others in similar situations.
-Both are dependent on external validation and echo chambers to reinforce their beliefs. E-beggars rely on donations and develop a dependency on the generosity of others. Most incels rely on communities of like-minded individuals (ie other incels) to validate their worldview.
-Both groups often feel alienated from mainstream society. E-beggars feel marginalized due to financial hardship, while incels feel socially isolated because of their lack of romantic relationships.
 
I'm sure whoever came up with 'poor people deserve nice things too' had nothing but good intentions, but these entitled assholes who insist they deserve nothing but the finest of brand-name empty calories use the phrase as an impregnable shield for their audacity.
This paragraph is healing my soul of the last three books I've read recently. Sadly, slapdash, barely-edited nonsense is par for the course these days.

Imagine being post-partum and asking for free Monster. Tell me you're white trash without telling me you're white trash. Goddamn.
A pot of coffee costs like, five cents. A basic drip coffee pot can be found at your local Goodwill or Salvation Army store for $5-$10. Add another $2-$5 for paper filters if you're so fucking busy you can't be assed to wash the free filter it comes with. They act like this shit is rocket surgery.
 
Regarding Mem. @toilet_rainbow noticed her GFM is set to Bethany, OK. Yet the electric bill she's currently fund raising for from Evergy...

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does not service OK. It only services KS and MO.

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Now, the natural gas (?) bill she's also recently posted about from Spire Energy...

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also does not service OK. It does, however, service MO.

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The overlapping area they both service is Kansas City, MO (Jackson County).
 
Regarding Mem. @toilet_rainbow noticed her GFM is set to Bethany, OK. Yet the electric bill she's currently fund raising for from Evergy...

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does not service OK. It only services KS and MO.

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Now, the natural gas (?) bill she's also recently posted about from Spire Energy...

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also does not service OK. It does, however, service MO.

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The overlapping area they both service is Kansas City, MO (Jackson County).

Interesting. Kansas City gels with something that she once tweeted around the Super Bowl about how (what else?) people gathering to cheer on the local NFL team will kill her via Coof despite that she's a total germaphobic shut in

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Similarly:

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GoFundMe requires a form of ID to be "verified" by their platform, including driver's licenses. Maybe Mem used an old Oklahoma one?
 
I remember the good old days where begging for money made you a fucking loser, but now being a winner means you're a bad person, and its never the losers fault.

Its like the bar has been lowered and only James Cameron can save us (This makes sense if you get the reference)
 
Tumblr recently made a page about how to recognize potential scammers on the platform (archive).

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Tumblr is home to some of the most incredible creatives on the web, from brilliant artists to creative fandoms. However, any such large community will also inevitably have bad actors who try to take advantage of the kindness and generosity of the community members.

In recent times, we’ve received feedback and a number of reports from you regarding an influx of scammers taking advantage of real-world issues. We wanted to highlight what some of these common scams may look like and what you can do to help yourself avoid falling victim to these bad actors.

We want to highlight, though, that these bad actors are very small drops in a sea of genuine posts and content. Not all requests and messages are scams—very few are when we investigate them. However, automated spamming and fraudulent links do occur, and we take strict action against these.

It mentions some of the common grifts, including medical fraud, pet scams, sextortion, and, most notably for this post, "aid seekers from around the world."

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Aid Seekers from around the world

This is when a person posts about collecting donations for themselves or “their family” who need help, health care, or evacuation from where they currently reside in the world. Places like Palestine, Lebanon, and South Sudan are common examples.

Of course, with how particularly rampant Palestinian crowdfunding scams and spam are on the site at the moment, some of their blind supporters believe that Tumblr's motives and timing of posting this now is very suspicious.

(archive)

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Mem confirmed that she currently lives in Missouri despite fearing that “harassers” are out to get her.

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She has a specific beef with concerts and other major gatherings on the grounds that they are “superspreader events” for Covid. Salvatore made a specific poster about how going to concerts keeps Mem people from receiving critical, life saving mutual aid

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Mem piggybacking about how going out in the Kansas City, Missouri area will get her bird flu (which she is now also more terrified of than something like diarrhea or cholera)

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She has an apparent annoyance with Stevie Nicks at the moment, as she retweeted someone’s posts about how Stevie has her crew mask but not the actual concertgoers (so you can still get the coof from all the other unmasked guests, because it’s not like you can’t just wear a mask yourself or something)

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Oh, what am I saying? It’s just entitlement. It always is. Mem’s GFM is actually doing great, as it’s at over $1000 as of two days ago. But people going to concerts somehow “robs” her other people’s money (and gives her the coof if she leaves her shitty private air)

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Mem confirmed that she currently lives in Missouri despite fearing that “harassers” are out to get her.

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She has a specific beef with concerts and other major gatherings on the grounds that they are “superspreader events” for Covid. Salvatore made a specific poster about how going to concerts keeps Mem people from receiving critical, life saving mutual aid

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Mem piggybacking about how going out in the Kansas City, Missouri area will get her bird flu (which she is now also more terrified of than something like diarrhea or cholera)

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She has an apparent annoyance with Stevie Nicks at the moment, as she retweeted someone’s posts about how Stevie has her crew mask but not the actual concertgoers (so you can still get the coof from all the other unmasked guests, because it’s not like you can’t just wear a mask yourself or something)

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Oh, what am I saying? It’s just entitlement. It always is. Mem’s GFM is actually doing great, as it’s at over $1000 as of two days ago. But people going to concerts somehow “robs” her other people’s money (and gives her the coof if she leaves her shitty private air)

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Fun fact, according to Missouri law, it's the landlord's obligation to pay for heat.
 
"Why is doing the bare minimum so hard to do for so many of you" asks the woman trying to guilt you into financing the lifestyles of degenerate beggars. The total lack of self awareness from any of these people is astounding. How DARE any of you use your hard earned money to treat yourself, when Mem and her friends need tens of thousands of dollars for all their expenses AND for little treats for themselves. I really wonder if this form of online panhandling is more or less over. I see those messages are failing to crack 10+ retweets. Even the most credulous donor must realise by now that Mem is a lost cause.
 
I'm not one that subscribes to the "poor people don't deserve nice things" line that these scammers push
But I'm 100% "people who put in zero effort unless that effort is towards making excuses don't deserve nice things."

The satisfaction i feel by watching these people seethe over the fact that those with jobs (or the rare lucky ones that got a trust fund) can afford nice things is only comparable to the joy i get when fatties who refuse to work on themselves seethe over watching thinner people eat a burger.
 
Of course, with how particularly rampant Palestinian crowdfunding scams and spam are on the site at the moment, some of their blind supporters believe that Tumblr's motives and timing of posting this now is very suspicious.

(archive)

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If people on tumblr believe Palestine is in the Global South, they don't get to have an opinion on the Israel/Palestine conflict.
 
I'm not one that subscribes to the "poor people don't deserve nice things" line that these scammers push
But I'm 100% "people who put in zero effort unless that effort is towards making excuses don't deserve nice things."
The ebegging regulars love variations of this line. Polissa, Kyttie, Mem and others are fond of repeating some variation of poor people deserve x any time they're challenged on their shit spending habits.

What they don't seem to realise is that besides maybe the extremely wealthy, everyone has to make careful choices about what things they treat themselves to, and they only do so after their obligations have been met first.

So yeah, the average working person "deserves" to doordash food in every so often if they want a little treat, but a sensible person realises they can't do that all the time AND buy themselves the latest tech gadget. And they can probably do neither if they want to have a big vacation at the end of the year. It's the sort of tradeoff most of us figure out in our teenage years during our first part time job. eBeggars just demand both. Or ask for money for one item and then move into begging for money for the next.

More importantly, it doesn't fucking matter what you "deserve" if you're not looking after the people and animals in your care. I couldn't imagine doing shit like grifting for food deliveries while my kid was sleeping on a trampoline, like Kyttie did. Or blowing my money on quartz crystals while my pets remained malnourished like Polissa did.

It's the difference between poor people and grifters. Plenty of people have limited income and no real way to drastically improve their financial prospects and are in that situation for things outside their control. Mem has been given life changing amounts of money multiple times and pissed it away each and every time.
 
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