Semi-off-topic but how do you deal with the women in your life who refuse to acknowledge that horrors like the ones in the thread can happen (and have happened) to them? Even if they acknowledge the things that happen to other people, they often proceed to risk themselves needlessly with the men they choose and so on. I basically fully grasp the reasons why they might do this, so I'm only interested in if anyone has found that some specific tactic is effective.
Personally? I communicate what I think are the concerns and risks, then leave them to make a decision.
No matter how much we as women might band together, ultimately, your choice in moid will only affect you (and your genetic line). If you choose a shitty moid, even if you figure it out later and leave, those are years of your own life gone, and they're never coming back. If your moid beats you, those injuries and that stress will shave time off your own lifespan, as well as diminish the quality of whatever years you do have left. If your moid is such a shite parent he causes mental illness in your offspring, that is the success of your genetic line being lost.
No sympathy from another woman can undo the damage. No one else can suffer for you. Each woman
has to look out for herself, she
has to know she is a valuable, good and worthy person deserving of happiness, and she
has to understand this life is the one go we have on this earth, and that there are no do-overs.
The hardest thing we have to do, as mothers and as friends, is to let the people we love go and make horrible mistakes. If you like them, you'll warn them of what you see coming, and if you love them, you'll be there to help pick up (some of) the pieces. But fundamentally, each woman has her own life, and you have to let her live it.
Sometimes, the mistakes a woman makes might kill her. It's hard. Do your best to help her as you can, but don't try to get in there and live her life for her.
Never ever misapply your anger. No matter how stupid a woman is, and no matter how much she ignores your warnings, the fault still lies with the perpetrator.
A woman being a retard and ending up beaten or raped or killed still requires someone else to be the one beating, raping or killing her. Making dumb decisions doesn't mean you should pay the price wth your body or your life.
Blame women for their actions, and men for theirs. Until women start beating, raping and killing themselves, it's a moid what did it, and it's the moid who should get the brunt of our rage.