Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

People don't tend to die directly from muscle weakness, even quadraplegia- they die from complications relating from their care.
And seeing as she refuses to get proper carers... Would Salina know the signs of, say, a UTI? Does she know how to perform the heimlich maneuver? And do it on someone in a wheelchair? Would she know to call an ambulance afterwards?
Alex's decline will be of her own doing.
 
Aside from her drinking and falling, the most concerning thing I see with Alex is her swallowing. It’d be easy for her to choke. At some point, her doctors will want to give her a peg or feeding tube but she doesn’t go to doctors that we’ve seen, so it would become a crisis. She must have a cough assist-does that help with choking?

She isn’t paralyzed, such that she can’t feel at least. So a UTI would probably be as uncomfortable for her as anybody, AFAIK. She might go in for that. But not being able to eat might suggest she’s more disabled than she wants us to think so she’ll ignore it too long.

She really does look worse. Alcohol takes a toll on everybody but it’s really doing damage in a person with no muscle strength and coordination.

Why she’s lying about the second picture being her hair I can’t figure out. She has candy floss, shoulder length bleached hair, not the long deep blonde beach curls that were shown from the back. Unless she threw on a wig or got extensions, not her and weird lie.
 
I think the hair lie is simply that malnutrition and poor hygiene has done a number on her hair and now she's bleached it again, it's too damaged and gross looking to show. Surely the ends of her hair would be tangled/damaged by the back of her chair and headrest?
 
I think the hair lie is simply that malnutrition and poor hygiene has done a number on her hair and now she's bleached it again, it's too damaged and gross looking to show. Surely the ends of her hair would be tangled/damaged by the back of her chair and headrest?
She’s been box dying and I think finally did a bleach. The hair is fucked. Lol

Her hair isn’t even too dark to bleach easily but her dumbass did box dye, she thought she lost hair after having Ari…..oooof.
 
Didn't she say previously that she has "sensory issues" and she can't stand her hair being in her face?
I'm totally sure she won't go back to the pathetic high ponys and braids tomorrow.

Also, that puffy face. Her undereye area is horrendous. She's really in a hard decline right now.
 
Didn't she say previously that she has "sensory issues" and she can't stand her hair being in her face?
I'm totally sure she won't go back to the pathetic high ponys and braids tomorrow.

Also, that puffy face. Her undereye area is horrendous. She's really in a hard decline right now.
Not just her face but we have been commenting on her hands and feet being grotesquely ouffy and swollen as well for a while, especialy the last couple months.

I wish i could know what medications she is taking. Surely if she was regularly seeing a doctor, they would have her on some sort of diuretics like lasik. All that fluid is a sign of the heart strugging
 
I checked out the "other reddit" and found that there's extreme drama going down...it seems that one of the redditors was school friends with Alex. Her mother still lives in Illinois, and spotted Alex's mother Jackie with baby Ari locally.
Alex read the reddit post, freaked out, and blew up the redditor's phone. Redditor provides screenshots of Alex's calls (and a transcript of a voicemail showing her name is Lisa.)
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If this is true, and it looks like it may be, this is dreadful news. Poor Ari.

Edit: added the screenshot pic. Was unable to archive for some reason, kept booting me out. Will try later.
 
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I checked out the "other reddit" and found that there's extreme drama going down...it seems that one of the redditors was school friends with Alex. Her mother still lives in Illinois, and spotted Alex's mother Jackie with baby Ari locally.
Alex read the reddit post, freaked out, and blew up the redditor's phone. Redditor provides screenshots of Alex's calls (and a transcript of a voicemail showing her name is Lisa.)
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If this is true, and it looks like it may be, this is dreadful news. Poor Ari.

Edit: added the screenshot pic. Was unable to archive for some reason, kept booting me out. Will try later.
No offense to you (just Reddit) but I don't buy it. Noah's parents never would have allowed it; legally Noah would win, being her father (and clear favorite); Alex is never alone with Ari and I actually doubt she'd allow it either, not with his parents right there and all. Absolute facts: a redditor posted screenshots from a contact named "Alex Dacy". Occam's razor: Ari is with the Smiths and two bored redditors changed their contact names. The other option is that, while being the responsible adult, Alex's mother picked up Ari and left and, somehow, Alex has managed not to mention this.

She won't post that Ari is happy and thriving without her, it only makes her look bad, but if Ari is with her mother she's either a good mother using the support system look at her, or her mother took her baby woe is her. We'd hear about it from the (drunk) horse's mouth.
 
So most of my experience in this is from watching friends go through NASTY custody situations in states that aren't Illinois or Florida, so ymmv, but
legally Noah would win, being her father (and clear favorite); Alex is never alone with Ari and I actually doubt she'd allow it either, not with his parents right there and all.
I dunno. He seems to be pretty clearly untrustworthy and has been Baker Act-ed and to rehab a few times that we know of - with the possibility the bts is much worse (as it often is with what you see on IG vs reality). I knew someone who felt their kid was in danger from the other parent and their lawyer suggested to flee with the kid, basically. Take the kid, get away from the other parent. Otherwise you can't really claim in court that you were scared for the kid's safety. I could see Alex claiming that she was afraid for Ari's safety, and that because she can't flee she sent Ari with someone else. COULD see that. Not saying at all that's what's happening, only that custody shit is super convoluted and often fucked up.

It's too bad she's not with The Smiths who seem to take pretty good care of Ari from what we've seen - but maybe Noah's there and still using whatever drugs - they definitely enable him.

Anyway, loads of reasons Ari would be with Jackie, but it's intriguing. At least kid's not alone with Alex.
 
No offense to you (just Reddit) but I don't buy it. Noah's parents never would have allowed it; legally Noah would win, being her father (and clear favorite); Alex is never alone with Ari and I actually doubt she'd allow it either, not with his parents right there and all. Absolute facts: a redditor posted screenshots from a contact named "Alex Dacy". Occam's razor: Ari is with the Smiths and two bored redditors changed their contact names. The other option is that, while being the responsible adult, Alex's mother picked up Ari and left and, somehow, Alex has managed not to mention this.

She won't post that Ari is happy and thriving without her, it only makes her look bad, but if Ari is with her mother she's either a good mother using the support system look at her, or her mother took her baby woe is her. We'd hear about it from the (drunk) horse's mouth.
Noah isn't listed on the birth certificate, so do paternal rights exist the same in such cases? He does have a positive paternity test but didn't take the legal steps necessary to have himself added to the birth cert.

If it is true, my theory is that something kicked off that culminated with Alex in hospital (boozing followed by neglect? Alex was very dehydrated), and Alex's mother arrived to take Ari to prevent further CPS involvement.
We can see that post-hospital admission all of Ari's toys and little table set are gone, plus Alex stopped posting her.
Jackie has said previously that Alex should go for sole custody, but I don't believe this has been done via the courts or CPS.

The redditor who is claiming this has posts going back as far as a year talking about her past with Alex, talking in some detail about school, family etc.
It seems credible to me, but let's see.
 
Oh no, Ari is spending time with a family member! Someone call the police!

Sometimes parents leave their small children with grandparents for a break. Maybe Noah and his family went on a baby unfriendly vacation and thought it would be a nice time for Ari to bond with her other grandma and made an offer. Not everyone has contentious and miserable relationships with extended family, even in light of divorce/separation.

If Alex did blow up the idiot Redditor's phone and any of this is at all based in reality (🌈🌈🌈), maybe it's because she doesn't want her mother and precious daughter bothered by CPS for nothing, since no matter what, we know this total retard is unhinged.
 
Oh no, Ari is spending time with a family member! Someone call the police!

Sometimes parents leave their small children with grandparents for a break. Maybe Noah and his family went on a baby unfriendly vacation and thought it would be a nice time for Ari to bond with her other grandma and made an offer. Not everyone has contentious and miserable relationships with extended family, even in light of divorce/separation.

If Alex did blow up the idiot Redditor's phone and any of this is at all based in reality (🌈🌈🌈), maybe it's because she doesn't want her mother and precious daughter bothered by CPS for nothing, since no matter what, we know this total retard is unhinged.
I agree the story is sus. But…..

I wonder if squishy Hitler is in rehab, his parents needed a break and it of course can’t be Alex. Not solo or with whatever Craigslist bff she pays.

ETA: I am happy she’s not posting Ari, be it because she’s not there or chooses not to. Keep the lils off the internet.
 
I agree the story is sus. But…..

I wonder if squishy Hitler is in rehab, his parents needed a break and it of course can’t be Alex. Not solo or with whatever Craigslist bff she pays.

ETA: I am happy she’s not posting Ari, be it because she’s not there or chooses not to. Keep the lils off the internet.
It could definitely be true. I just don't understand why it's a Reddit scandal.
I figure all we have to do is wait for Alex to confirm the allegations by vagueposting in retaliation.
What's the deal with the Reddit saying Baby A and then calling her Ari in the same breath? It's annoying how gay Reddit is.
It's going to be an interesting next few days.
 
Forgot to post this earlier, distracted by the reddit stuff.
I made a comment less than 24 hours ago saying that she would go back to the high pony/braids, and she has not disappointed me.
So much for her new bangs.

Nice thinning sweetie.

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It could definitely be true. I just don't understand why it's a Reddit scandal.
I think if Alex just immediately confirmed that Ari is visiting her grandmother in IL, or just ignored the Reddit altogether, there would be no scandal at all. If any of this is true, Alex is Streisanding herself a bit by freaking out.
 
I could see Alex claiming that she was afraid for Ari's safety, and that because she can't flee she sent Ari with someone else. COULD see that.
Me too, but she'd take to social media to screech about it immediately.
The redditor who is claiming this has posts going back as far as a year talking about her past with Alex, talking in some detail about school, family etc.
Knowing Alex doesn't prove that it's Alex blowing up her phone. But I'll admit it does make it a whole lot more likely that Ari was spotted with grandma.
I think if Alex just immediately confirmed that Ari is visiting her grandmother in IL, or just ignored the Reddit altogether, there would be no scandal at all. If any of this is true, Alex is Streisanding herself a bit by freaking out.
Yeah, this. The only way I see her not having a drunk livestream about Ari not being there is if she's with the Smith's like usual.

Is Jackie more competent than I thought she was though? I know Mrs. Smith can't actually prevent Ari from visiting her other grandmother but I don't/didn't think she'd be too keen on it.
 
It’s weird to me that Reddit is jumping to assuming that Alex’s mom has legal custody. Like, there are so many scenarios that could explain this. Off the top of my head:

-Alex and the Smiths fought so much that the Smiths told Alex she’s on her own and Alex’s mom was thus forced to take the baby

-The Smiths refused to raise Noah’s baby for him anymore and Noah is a shit parent/relapsed/is in rehab, so Alex’s mom is forced to take over

-Alex’s mom and the Smiths have some type of joint-custody arrangement, either formal or informal.

-Alex decided she didn’t want Noah/the Smiths to have Ari anymore out of spite so she got her mom step in.

-Some incident with Noah and/or the Smiths called Ari’s safety with them into question

-Alex’s mom just straight up wanted custody of her granddaughter

In any of those scenarios the arrangement could be informally agreed upon by all parties or the courts could be involved. Alex could still plausibly have some amount of custody rights in any of these scenarios. Just because Ari is not in her custody does not mean Alex does not have rights to custody.

That said, Alex was clearly trying to hide this development, which makes me think there’s some kind of failing on her end involved here. If I had to speculate, I’d guess that the Smiths don’t want primary custody anymore, so that leaves only Alex’s mom, but Alex’s mom is only gonna do that if Alex’s parental rights are terminated. I think Alex is less embarrassed about the reason why Noah/Smiths don’t have Ari and more embarrassed about where all this is likely headed.
 
Over on TikTok, Alex has confirmed that Ari is with her parents in Illinois. She characterized it as "visiting," but Ari has been gone since Alex's hospitalization several weeks ago, and all of Ari's things are gone from Alex's apartment. Recall that-- very recently-- Alex herself has expressed that her parents' home is not a safe place for her [Alex] to be, and Alex's mom-- or possibly both parents-- is an alcoholic.




Someone over on the subreddit caught that Alex is advertising for a caregiver (I think on a caregiver site; screenshot is from Reddit):

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Salina was still around very recently, so no idea what's up with this.
 
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