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I'm trying to improve things I can control. I'm going to the gym, I'm trying to cut down my alcohol intake, and m nail biting habit is out of control at the moment so I need to rein that in.
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
You've got this mate, keep it up. Especially during the rougher periods, focus and push through it and you'll be well on your way
 
If a man can keep it clean and conditioned, then most women probably wouldn't mind. I think the full santa/wizard beards are less likely to be admired though than something like a short boxed beard or stubble, just for the sake of cleanliness and not looking disheveled. Completely shaven is reserved for those with a pronounced jawline.

You say that but look at this chiseled wizard:

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:smug: I rest my case
 
In regards to this coat, would this fit work.
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Work for what?

Is that a style/line (slim, long) that suits your body?

But you replied to your prior comment linking a completely different style of coat...if that was intentional, no, you don't want a casual leather/ sheepskin coat cut as slim as this one.

Cigarette case is nice. Will it fit easily in an inner pocket?

Make sure you have nice shoes, and keep them polished.
 
Work for what?

Is that a style/line (slim, long) that suits your body?

But you replied to your prior comment linking a completely different style of coat...if that was intentional, no, you don't want a casual leather/ sheepskin coat cut as slim as this one.

Cigarette case is nice. Will it fit easily in an inner pocket?

Make sure you have nice shoes, and keep them polished.
Work for a general look
I am very tall and gangly.
I need a warm and water proof outer coat for the environment I live in. A certain level of style mishmash is permittable as long as a general sense of aesthetics is met that marries the practical with the stylish.
Yes, it is a ten unfiltered cigarette case so slightly longer and wider than a deck of cards.
Nice shoes don't work here. You wear boots and it is expected they will get covered in mud, which is why every house has a mud room to take your boots and rain gear off before you enter the house proper.
 
How do I meet a woman IRL organically? I feel like there's no real hope outside dating apps.
Given that you are willing to put yourself out there, I recommend hobbies and events where interacting with other people is inherent to what you are doing. Stuff like trivia nights, dance classes, volunteering, and clubs for any other hobby you can think of. If you live in a neighborhood, it is entirely possible that it has a biking club or something along those lines, for example. All of these will also benefit you regardless of if you meet anyone through them.
 
I recommend hobbies and events where interacting with other people is inherent to what you are doing
How do I meet a woman IRL organically? I feel like there's no real hope outside dating apps.
Simple: start doing a sport. There’s probably something you’ve always wanted to try but never got around to. So why not give it a go? The best part of being an adult is having the freedom to try new things. And if the hobby or sport isn’t for you, there’s no pressure to stick with it—no parents to scold you for quitting after they’ve already paid for 10 lessons.

I started horseback riding at 27—still terrified of falling, and it would probably be easier if I’d started younger, but it’s something I’d always wanted to do.
 
was wondering: long hair, yay or nay?
Personally, I’m a fan—but under a few conditions: you have a good hairline, and you commit to taking meticulous care of it. That means regularly trimming the ends, using quality shampoo and conditioner, and not keeping it in a sad, low ponytail. If you’re willing to stick to that routine, then you have my full blessing
Edit: how long are we talking about? A black metal musician from Scandinavia long?
 
was wondering: long hair, yay or nay?
Because every time im in a book store and pass near old lady smut book section theres always a Fabio looking dude. And im not sure if long hair is a part of the appeal for everyone or is it just old lady thing.
I get compliments on mine quite a lot, mostly from older gals saying it's pretty. You have to take care of it so you don't look like a hobo. For instance mine is very naturally wavy and has a ton of volume, and right now it's well past my shoulders and can look very retarded in the morning before I've cleaned up. As long as you don't go around wearing it with something like anime shirts (and bathe) it'll be fine. Of course, I'm not a woman, but this is my advice as somebody who prefers to wear his hair long.

Like the above post said make sure your ends aren't frayed to shit, or it will knot up really badly on top of looking ugly. Oh and don't overwash it. Do it every other day (unless you get your head pretty dirty of course). Your scalp has oils in it that keep your hair looking shiny and healthy, and drying your scalp out with overwashing can irritate your skin and fuck your hair up.
 
For instance mine is very naturally wavy and has a ton of volume, and right now it's well past my shoulders and can look very retarded in the morning before I've cleaned up.
Lmaooo, same. I don't have long hair anymore, but can second the whole post, including the compliments! I always tamed them by putting them under the shower in the morning (just making them wet, not shampooing them).

Just be aware that the growing out period is really shit. And you'll have hair everywhere. Get something that blocks the drains when washing them, vacuume more frequently, etc.
 
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How do you trim the sides with long hair? I've got a ponytail going but it's kinda a bitch to keep because the sides kinda "puff out". (It rubs against my ears also which is annoying as fuck lol)
 
how long are we talking about? A black metal musician from Scandinavia long?
shoulder length, no idea how anyone can keep em longer then that.
I get compliments on mine quite a lot
Ive been told a couple times that the girls were jealous, however its note necessarily means that its something that they want to see on the guy.
idk i just started to grow them after my military service and kinda never stopped because i liked how they looked, however i never really thought if I'm doing myself a dissevers when it comes to dating.
 
You say that but look at this chiseled wizard:

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:smug: I rest my case
Ok but are YOU a chiseled wizard? Exactly. Get back to me when you have magical chiseled abs, a wise white beard and plentiful powerful spells, bro....!
long hair, yay or nay?
if it's stringy and greasy, nay. If it's washed and not worn in a hipster man bun 24/7, YES, ALWAYS YES. The Metalhead long hair is the best, IMO, but shorter hair is also nice, it can frame the male bone structure very well. Plus when taken good care off signifies you're not a mess of a person.

Nowadays zoomer women don't like buzzcuts on men but tbh that's one of my preferred hairstyles. It can look so bold and nice. A treasure amidst a sea of shitty ugly broccoli perms.......

@The Jewel of the Nile I GET YOU. The sitting on the hair thing is horrible :stress: :stress: . Mine is also is down to my hips. The upkeep isn't that bad but it's annoying to make sure it doesn't get caught up in zippers and such lol. I think it's still worth it though
 
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Im afraid to imagine how you sleep or how you fight your head while hymidity is high
A loose braid takes care of everything. As for humidity—luckily, I don’t live in a humid climate, but I did spend some time in Tokyo, and it wasn’t too bad. Good conditioning keeps hair 'heavier' so it doesn’t fly everywhere and tends to stick together better
@pork and beans so you get the struggle! Does your hairdresser force you to stand up as well to trim the endings? Do you have any tips to speed up hair drying process? It's a struggle but the effects are SO WORTH IT ❤️
 
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