Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure

[The Skeksis Emperor]

If it happened, why isn't Kelly oversharing in grotesque detail? Why all the vagueposting? The more she continues without specifics, the more I doubt. I suspect she just didn't want to take them kids to school.

I think she might truly be shocked by what happened, even if it wasn't anything violent, just something she didn't expect and didn't like. For once she's not revelling in it, she feels upset and confused. Which I have sympathy for. But Kelly probably won't learn what she needs to learn from this experience - that she needs to focus on her family and her home, and stop getting high and hooking up with randos.

I'm concerned about her writing "I got what I needed, I'm getting out soon". Wtf does that mean?

 

[LonesomeDud]

Kelly is suicide baiting. I don't know. Maybe something happened, but she's talking a lot about this while saying nothing, and it makes me feel weird about it.

 

[Breadbear]

If it happened, why isn't Kelly oversharing in grotesque detail? Why all the vagueposting? The more she continues without specifics, the more I doubt. I suspect she just didn't want to take them kids to school.

I think it's something that most people wouldn't consider "that bad." Like the guy pushed her too far in a BDSM scenario or something. People would tell her that she'd agreed to XYZ and not see the problem.

I took a look back at her list of fetishes on FetLife:

And some of these things can go pretty far. Let's say the guy was just into riding crops and deep throating... And what Kelly had in mind "tee hee, a light slap on the ass and a blowjob" turned into something else (beating the shit out of someone and deepthroating). Strictly speaking, she agreed to it.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I think it's something that most people wouldn't consider "that bad." Like the guy pushed her too far in a BDSM scenario or something. People would tell her that she'd agreed to XYZ and not see the problem.

I took a look back at her list of fetishes on FetLife:
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And some of these things can go pretty far. Let's say the guy was just into riding crops and deep throating... And what Kelly had in mind "tee hee, a light slap on the ass and a blowjob" turned into something else (beating the shit out of someone and deepthroating). Strictly speaking, she agreed to it.

I'd feel sorry for her if she hadn't done it again and again and again. Sex with strangers is a terrible, dangerous idea. I'm glad she didn't die, but I have no pity for her as time has matched forward.

 

[Breadbear]

I'd feel sorry for her if she hadn't done it again and again and again. Sex with strangers is a terrible, dangerous idea. I'm glad she didn't die, but I have no pity for her as time has matched forward.

It's a FAFO experience, to be sure. I wouldn't wish a sexual assault on anyone, not even Kelly. But she should count her lucky stars, get tested, and get her house in order.
She won't, of course, which is why she had a thread here.

 

[babyTAP]

Lmao they don’t have the “capacity to care for you” because you’re a secret slam pig. Nothing more. “Why won’t they watch a movie with meeee?” That’d be the post-nut clarity, Kelly.

 

[Adrenochrome Dreams]

Regarding the sexual assault, just because something may not meet a criminal threshold doesn’t make it any less traumatising.

Also, being a slutty deviant doesn’t protect from feeling traumatised by unwanted / unpleasant sexual activity.

Is it really so hard to believe that a bunch of perverted males with abnormal and violent fetishes wouldn’t push too far, knowing that Kelly wouldn’t have a legal leg to stand on?

Wait til you see all the men who post unrelated children in their pics on vanilla dating/hookup apps, with the helpful caption "not my kid."

They think it makes them look like safe potential father types. It doesn't, but they keep doing it.

That sounds like it might be a secret paedo sign to find fellow paedos, while also functioning as a lure to draw in stupid single mothers.

 

[Berserker Armor]

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This woman is a black hole of misery inside that house. I feel so bad for the kids.

I feel like we are getting closer and closer to a poon out idk. The fact she is taking T is honestly scary to me because of her health. Also She’s having break downs where she’s sobbing, shaking and making noise like a child but no mention of Jerry coming to comfort her?
Another thing I do wanna say is that her basically demanding people somehow just psychically know how to care for her without asking is.. honestly hard to describe. Weird? Childish? A narc trap so she can lash out at people? Put your big girl panties on, Kel. Communication skills are important in these situations. I know you know and you know you know. You have done enough therapy on Jerry’s cushy insurance (probably also paying for her t ) that you know that. Come on now.
She also has mentioned going to MFF this coming month so I think the getting out thing may be referring to that? What I have always pondered: I know she’s… Kelly. but let’s put it in a way where we temporarily disregard it. she is constantly home without much to do that isn’t kid related or cleaning and cooking. She has her furry discords and hook up apps. That’s about it for her social circle other than family members and therapists/doctors. The fact that her getaways from that for time for herself is getting high, furry cons + general furry behavior and sex stuff (on and offline) is so so bleak. It’s likely not crossed her mind to get other hobbies or things to do with herself. What happened to photography? Her photos were decent. art? She’s a really good artist i won’t lie. Why doesn’t she ask Jerry to take over the kids for an evening so she can just draw or paint?
But I digress.
As gloriousscarf said, she’s a black hole of misery.

Anyway, Here’s a art commission she got with Jerry’s money from a fat fetishist (nsfl link click at own risk)

Spoiler: Idk why it has a penis

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Is it really so hard to believe that a bunch of perverted males with abnormal and violent fetishes wouldn’t push too far, knowing that Kelly wouldn’t have a legal leg to stand on?

Kelly is into men, women, troons and pooners. Who knows which flavor of deviant scared her.

Also She’s having break downs where she’s sobbing, shaking and making noise like a child but no mention of Jerry coming to comfort her?

They sleep in separate rooms. If she's carrying on at night, the only one there is the kid she sleeps with and no child should be exposed to their parent acting like that.

Kelly needs to handle shit in therapy and grow the fuck up at home. She has kids and a house to take care of, by her choice, and as far as I can tell, she does nothing but run around fucking strangers, getting high and bitching online.

 

[one_time_user]

Maybe if she hadn't pretty much intentionally created a household with such chaos, neglect, selfishness and disfunction she would have loved ones who supported her emotionally.

 

[Clotso Coof]

If it happened, why isn't Kelly oversharing in grotesque detail?

That makes me wonder if the real trauma was more of a refusal and/or insult than an act. If she and the "partner" agreed to do X to each other, but he refused and laughed at her when it was his turn to do it to her.

A bad enough narcissistic injury would cause her to reevaluate the entire sexual encounter as "non consensual", like the concept of rape-by-deception. If she serviced some guy until he was done, then he said, "Haha, you stupid pig. I'm not going down on your smelly ass!" and kept laughing at her instead of respecting her sacred queerhood...

She’s having break downs where she’s sobbing, shaking and making noise like a child but no mention of Jerry coming to comfort her?

Sounds like she's in her room wailing as loud as she can, hoping everyone in the house hears and feels sorry for her. She expects Jerry to come running in to her room to "comfort" her. But he's ignoring the noise as hard as he can and playing computer games with headphones on.

 

[brooky]

That makes me wonder if the real trauma was more of a refusal and/or insult than an act. If she and the "partner" agreed to do X to each other, but he refused and laughed at her when it was his turn to do it to her.

I 100% believe it was this.

According to her, her kink journey had been all good vibes up until now. Then suddenly she met someone who got within smelling range and was like "no thanks." Or maybe not her first rejection, but the first rejection where they were rude about it. She's the type to blow that stuff way out of proportion.

Also I think "I got what I needed, I'm getting out soon" might mean the bath tub. She wasn't clear, but what she was describing sounded like a mindfulness/grounding technique, like she was crying in the bathtub and then talking to herself to ground herself in the moment, to get out of the trauma. Idk though. I think her suicide baiting would be more obvious.

 

[Breadbear]

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Lmao they don’t have the “capacity to care for you” because you’re a secret slam pig. Nothing more. “Why won’t they watch a movie with meeee?” That’d be the post-nut clarity, Kelly.

Irt that shit, I'll say I do have the capacity to care for someone else. Everyone does.
Except Kelly, the tar pit. And since narcs don't see other people as people, but as projections of themselves, well. Here we are.


Guys, help me out here, I'm starting to get another pity hurdle for Kelly.

 

[Oda Nobunaga]

I'm sorry if I missed it but did we ever talk about her ao3 ? I don't keep up closely with her thread (reading her weird fetish shit makes me physically nauseous).
I also have no proof that it's her besides the username (same as her tumblr), and the fact that the stories are depraved and gross.

The most recent one is called Charcuterie (archive) - tags: Horror, Eating Disorders, Fat Shaming, Fat Main Character, Cannibalism.
The other one is titled Beauty is the beast (archive) - tags: Werewolf Sex, Transformation, Alternate Universe - Werewolf, Face Slapping, Anal Sex, Body HorrorRape/Non-con Elements, Sexual Violence.


I haven't read any of it, the tags were enough to deter me.

 

[Berserker Armor]

I'm sorry if I missed it but did we ever talk about her ao3 ? I don't keep up closely with her thread (reading her weird fetish shit makes me physically nauseous).
I also have no proof that it's her besides the username (same as her tumblr), and the fact that the stories are depraved and gross.

The most recent one is called Charcuterie (archive) - tags: Horror, Eating Disorders, Fat Shaming, Fat Main Character, Cannibalism.
The other one is titled Beauty is the beast (archive) - tags: Werewolf Sex, Transformation, Alternate Universe - Werewolf, Face Slapping, Anal Sex, Body HorrorRape/Non-con Elements, Sexual Violence.


I haven't read any of it, the tags were enough to deter me.

Oh man.. yeah this is def her. She’s talked about writing multiple times so. Account is newer. I will take one for the team and read these later so watch out for reviews. I archived nemu art back in the day I surely can stomach this right?

Edit: also here’s her tiktok idk if it’s ever come up but she doesnt use it often. Some videos has one of the girls (the youngest)

 

[Grilled Cheese Combo]

Oh man.. yeah this is def her. She’s talked about writing multiple times so. Account is newer. I will take one for the team and read these later so watch out for reviews. I archived nemu art back in the day I surely can stomach this right?

Edit: also here’s her tiktok idk if it’s ever come up but she doesnt use it often. Some videos has one of the girls (the youngest)

It’s def her because: the main character needs weed to sleep, uses a cpap, has bad knees, has a clit that is buried very deeply under vulva fat, has a fat gut that hangs like a “fleshy curtain,” and has a husband who plays video games during his free time.

 

[brooky]

She only joined AO3 this year? I'm happy for her. I definitely think it's a safer outlet for her than whatever she's doing on Fetlife.

 

[The Queen of Autists]

I believe her about the assault. She is very open and into all sorts of kinky sex so for something to be considered an assault by her which is distressing her weeks later then something happened.

I think it’s wrong that people are dismissing it and saying she’s exaggerating or lying. This is what happens when people talk about sexual assault sometimes and it makes other people afraid to come out about it. And it’s probably more common than the dregs of society get assaulted not just the pretty confident girls because people are looking for a good victim that won’t report it, they go for the weakest in the pack. It’s about power, not sex and they go for fat or ugly women or whatever so then they could say why the hell would I even want to have consensual sex with “that?”. I think that men who are planning on killing the victim will go for the pretty jogging ladies but the ones that want to get away with it and not get caught will go for somebody like Kelly. And me! It’s happened to me so that’s why I get it.

Spoiler: tmi storytime with the queen of autists

I would do a lot of silent screaming and whisper screaming and talking to myself and crying at night and do it in a way so people didn’t hear, and do it in the shower and the car. One of them was this guy I was obsessed with and would have totally done consexual sex with but he came out at me angrily and intimidating and coercive and traumatized me and was brutal and violent and that’s when I understood that it really isn’t about sex it’s about power and violence. He was mad at his kids mom and took it out on me. He had been my best friend for years that knew I was obsessed with him as a crush and would do anything for him. I didn’t even say no because I was too terrified but I knew it was assault and I was afraid for my life, it’s a completely different experience and vibe.

Another one, some drunk guy that was in my house for a roommate grabbed me by the vagina in my hall through my clothes. I screamed and kicked him out. I didn’t report it til a few days later and the cops were like well why did it take you so long and I told them the truth, I didn’t realize it was a crime! I thought it was just rude. But I was terrified of strangers for a few weeks cause I felt as if anybody could grab me and hurt me, even going to the grocery store and I’m not a fearful woman I’m a very wild, brave, outgoing to a crazy point type person. But it hurt my psychologically and that’s when I realized I wanted him punished to avoid it happening to other people and being worse.

People who are sexually abused at a young age are often reabused many times by different people cause we carry that victim energy and don’t react right when it’s done to us, we might just freeze and let it happen and then blame ourselves later.

It’s a TMI about me, but I’m going to put it here anyway because I think people need to know what it’s like to the person it’s happening to and maybe try to understand Kelly better instead of dismissing her. People do lie but I don’t think she did and I think it really hurts other people who have gone through it and will keep them isolated and in silence and holding the shame and ptsd for years or even their whole lifetime.

The bigger picture is more important than any particular persons case because rape keeps going on due to the silence and not reporting.

 

[captainpicardsjockstrap]

Oh my god, @The Queen of Autists, shut the fuck up.

I feel like I’ve been sexually assaulted every time I read one of your TMI posts.

 

[Single_Sock]

@The Queen of Autists is fat and no one would have sex with her