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Another weird question. Do women actually get jealous of each others’ looks? I know you see breast envy in anime played for laughs and coom (and it works), but I assumed it was played up. But then I saw a study about how apparently women are meaner to women with larger breasts.


At first I took it at face value, but then I realized the study was poorly done. It was a small sample of hispanic college women who were just, “How aggressive would you be towards this woman? How angry would you get at this woman? Would you want to yell at these tits? What about these tits?” So I figured I’d ask our unwashed femcels (affectionate) about this instead.
 
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You wrote complete nonsense.
If you think it's nonsense then it may apply to you.
Another weird question. Do women actually get jealous of each others’ looks? I know you see breast envy in anime played for laughs and coom (and it works), but I assumed it was played up. But then I saw a study about how apparently women are meaner to women with larger breasts.


At first I took it at face value, but then I realized the study was poorly done. It was a small sample of hispanic college women who were just, “How aggressive would you be towards this woman? How angry would you get at this woman? Would you want to yell at these tits? What about these tits?” So I figured I’d ask our unwashed femcels (affectionate) about this instead.
I'm just going to take this question as like a personal survey, so answers may vary:

Personally no. I've never really experienced a jealousy toward others for looks so much as "I wish my skin didn't break out during my period" or "I wish my hair didn't need to be washed constantly". I'm pretty sure breast envy isn't a thing at all, if it does exist then it's extremely limited to certain cultural groups.
 
Do women actually get jealous of each others’ looks?
Jealousy is a pretty intense feeling, I'd wager it only really applies to the bitterly insecure. I think women usually only wish that they could pull something off when they can't. Like with the breast thing: if you have larger ones you could bemoan not being able to wear baggy stuff, while the other end of the spectrum will wish they could fit certain roomier shirts or w/e. Doesn't go beyond that if you are sane, I think.
 
That looks really good! I've been trying out baking as a hobby recently and would be interested in making this. Would you be comfortable with sharing the recipe?
Yeah, of course. I did it up in an oven myself instead of an air fryer since I almost torched my house doing it in the air fryer. You want one of those 14oz packs of cream cheese, and use both of the bricks that comes with it. Make sure it's room temp before you start so you can mix it easily. Key tip is to mix the everloving hell out of it and not make any bubbles.
 
Yeah, of course. I did it up in an oven myself instead of an air fryer since I almost torched my house doing it in the air fryer. You want one of those 14oz packs of cream cheese, and use both of the bricks that comes with it. Make sure it's room temp before you start so you can mix it easily. Key tip is to mix the everloving hell out of it and not make any bubbles.
Thanks very much! I didn't know you could use air fryers for baking. I will definitely be playing it safe and using an oven, but that sparks my curiosity. Have you ever baked anything else in an air fryer before?
 
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Thanks very much! I didn't know you could use air fryers for baking. I will definitely be playing it safe and using an oven, but that sparks my curiosity. Have you ever baked anything else in an air fryer before?
I've only used it twice myself, the other time for chicken. The element in mine is on the ceiling of the thing, and it's a very low ceiling, so my parchment paper wound up burning on it. I've been too much of a pansy to go back and revisit it apart from the chicken lol
 
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Baking, sprinkle some cheese on top and stick it under the broiler for a few minutes. You can also top it with some seasoned buttered breadcrumbs.
Status update: It's in the oven now. Complications arose when I noticed something swinging around in the oven and upon further investigation discovered it was a tiny spider that I accidentally immolated trying to rescue it with a paper towel that I set ablaze. Spirits are low. The mac smells good.
 
The most painful thing will be that he quickly changes what he's doing when you stop enabling him. It'll make you realize he could have done that at anytime.

I've taken a couple days away from the internet to hang out with family and clear my head, and yeah, this is what really gets me. Six months is so much time. If he felt like changing himself for the better for our relationship, he would have done so months ago, I feel.

I was catching up with my best friend from high school earlier today (my first crush), and he got married last year... Jeez I feel like I've wasted so much time, I want to be in a relationship with the person I'm going to get married to and have kids with. I'm going to move out in like three weeks and spend some time with family before probably moving in with friends.

I just remember going into this relationship with so much hope for the future, moving in with the funny, handsome man who shared my hobbies and could always cheer me up, and the resolution was watching a guy in thigh highs and a thong jerk off to femboy porn clip compilations. I fucking hate my life.

I'm going to have to work on my general well being and happiness before I can pick someone to be with in a stable and operational relationship....
 
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Jeez I feel like I've wasted so much time
You've got a lot more than it might seem. You're gonna grow a lot from this too. It was a shitty experience, but a powerful learning one. Think about any number of the cows on this site and how many of them just continue to lean into these things and double down on the lifestyle. This whole thing is going to arm you with the experience you will need down the line to figure out what it is you truly value in a partner. I think you're doing just fine, all things considered.
I'm going to have to work on my general well being and happiness before I can pick someone to be with in a stable and operational relationship....
This is a very great development to hear. Your baseline happiness and fulfillment has to come from within, it can't be contingent on whether or not you're with anybody. It's a realization I myself had to have when I was younger and rushing into things, saying things like "I can only be happy when I'm with somebody". Gotta take that time to figure out who and what you are. Anybody can love bomb their partner with treats and gifts and whatnot, but you need to be an actual person too. There should be somebody on the other side for them to want to invest in as well in return, because you deserve it just as much as whoever it is you settle up with.
 
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Deviating a little from the topic but still related to dating/relationships.

Rate it "Thunkful" but what are the chances singledom becomes the norm among the population in the future? Legit question.

A hypothetical situation where dating, courtship and marriage is something seen as, save for reproductive reasons, useless when it comes to people meeting their social fix quota because of reasons like toxicity, emotional baggage, female or male abuse, mental games, both genders don't trust each other anymore, romance is seen as overrated/is dead, failed marriage and turbulent divorce, broken households and single people becomes the huge majority in the world while friendship, casual or not, becomes the ultimate relationship.

I ain't talking about incels/femcels just for the record.

Sex becomes purely transactional and casual and dosen't necessarily gets mixed up in romantic feelings. Akin to going to a restaurant and having a meal. Or taking a dump.

Let's imagine that said singledom is validated through people emphasizing the pros of being single (which are many). People don't need to worry anymore with trying to flirt with the opposite gender because romance overall became something to scoff at.

What are the chances things turn out to be like this? And, except for declining birthrates, how bad would it be for both genders? Or would it actually be good?
 
Rate it "Thunkful" but what are the chances singledom becomes the norm among the population in the future? Legit question.

A hypothetical situation where dating, courtship and marriage is something seen as, save for reproductive reasons, useless when it comes to people meeting their social fix quota because of reasons like toxicity, emotional baggage, female or male abuse, mental games, both genders don't trust each other anymore, romance is seen as overrated/is dead, failed marriage and turbulent divorce, broken households and single people becomes the huge majority in the world while friendship, casual or not, becomes the ultimate relationship.

I ain't talking about incels/femcels just for the record.
Slim to none. The farms are a small pitri dish, and twitter is loud; neither are a good representation of the thoughts of average people who aren't terminally online. This isn't a perspective that people who socialize in person outside of work have. Anybody who sees romance and relationships as dead and transactional are incels/femcels. Ordinary people don't think of them in that way. Good relationships, romantic or not, are built on friendship first and foremost. I don't think the internet should be your litmus test of 'trust' between the sexes. You only really see the most extreme of takes on the internet, which are the loudest. I don't believe it describes the average person whatsoever.
It isn't if it's not your main/only hobby and if you don't waste your entire fucking day on it.
Even if it's your main hobby I'd say it's fine if you also partake in hers, or demonstrate you'd like to be shown what she likes and take part in it. You should both want to explore each others' worlds, but even I've said that I don't want to talk about gaming as a hobby since it's kind of niche and difficult to share in the same way that something like, say, hiking might be. Having some more hobbies that you can actually include your partner in is important.

I don't even think 'gaming' counts as a hobby, honestly. It's just too broad. What do you like to play, and why? What about that particular kind of thing do you think is fun, and how would you convince somebody else that it's fun? Saying 'gaming' is your hobby is about as dumb (in my opinion) as saying 'I like music' or something vapid like that. As usual, when it comes to 'gaming', ask yourself 'can I show this to my mom?', and if it's some horny Jap game or something other then you should probably keep your partner out of it (no, beating your meat is not a hobby).
 
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Hey what kinda food do ladies like after they've worked really hard and are really tired?

My girlfriend's been up for 36 hours cause she can't sleep but she still has to go to work. I wanna give her something nice next time I see her, like a food that can help her recuperate or just relax.
I wanna be nice and spoil her! I've done all nighters and nightshifts before that shit sucks dick.
 
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