Why Modern women expectations are too high and unrealistic?

[Divine Power]

Why do modern women have such high and unrealistic expectations? What value do women bring to the table that justifies these high expectations? I often wonder why their expectations of men have become so elevated in today's society.

 

[Dagoth AMOGUS]

I am sure this will be a positive and enlightening discussion.

 

[Dialtone]

The Internet.

 

[David Brown]

Tagging Android Rapt- oh, right

 

[Wild at Heart]

Women's online presence is a brand. They present themselves as having super high standards and a list of demands. Offline, they get drunk/high and go fuck the best option at the bar or club. Better yet, they text their shitty ex and hook up with them. They cannot control the sex part of their brain so these high standards are just BS. It is up to the men to realize this is all peacocking and refuse to marry or speak to these types.

The girls who aren't online talking shit to men are just chilling and being normal. Don't forget they exist.

 

[From The Uncanny Valley]

I just want an evil alien robot overlord who loves me for what I am ;_;

 

[One Winged Pear Farmer]

The same reason men today nearly always overestimate how many women they have a chance with. The information flow we have available to us drives many normies into manic insanity

 

[Éamonn Ceannt]

Feminism.

Women think that they can whore themselves out and still find prince charming. They have forgotten what the purpose of life is for them. It isn't to have a career, be hot, get their holes demolished by Jamal, and cry while eating a tub of ice cream. It's to find a man, settle down, and raise a family. This lifestyle that they currently have has quite honestly created a psychosis of types.

 

[grump]

Biology: A perennial topic of discussion on Reddit is why there is a loneliness epidemic for men and not for woman with most of the redditors arriving at an only partially true conclusion that women are just naturally more social. While that is correct, women also are naturally inclined to not look as desperate as men even when they are. Women are the ones who wait for someone to court them. Being desperate is not a good look on either sex but for women it is seen as especially bad and a signal of poor fitness. Some women slowly deevolve to angry catlady status because they cannot get over their pride.

Audition Princess Syndrome: Due to the nature of courting the man tends to shower the woman with attention. And women get several auditions from men while men audition for several women. This a leads to a phenomenon I call Audition princess syndrome where the woman gets a big head from all the attention when in reality you have the same amount of men and women.

Feminism: Revolves around how women don't need men and so even the highest quality man getting a scrap of attention is a gift from the woman according to feminism.

Princess/You go girl culture: Really too many examples to list. Movies and tv shows of women getting prince charming with 10 incher a huge bank account, with an always exciting personality and life. Songs about women who don't need their boyfriends. Seriously how many songs are out there of a man who doesn't need a woman vs a woman that doesn't need a man? It must be around like at least a 1 to 5 ratio if not more. Princess culture is the older more traditional predecessor of you go girl culture where the girl is coddled by society.

Dating Apps: Dating Apps radically amplify the effects of Audition princess syndrome. You can be a moderately ugly woman and still get tons of apparent attention.

 

[Dysnomia]

Have you ever asked women what they really want? You might be surprised. Don't use internet articles or blog posts and TikToks by entitled harpies to gauge that. I'm sure your mom had hopes and dreams that never panned out. But she learned to be satisfied with what she got because there were some joyful things in there. Just like anyone else. Male or female.

Both men and women wish for a happy life. It is not unnatural to want more than you need or aim your standards high. You shoot for the stars and hope you at least clear the roof. Most women aren't thinking "I'm definitely going to land that 10/10 gym god with the six figure salary who showers me with gifts". But they do think it might be nice if it does happen. It's no different than hoping you win the Powerball. Unlikely but anything is possible, right?

I think a lot of modern men are very ignorant of what women really want and assume we want the whole world just because we dared to have some standards. Social media doesn't help. Influencers are pure cancer. Those vapid types make women look bad. But they are a small portion or women and they are just doing it for attention and freebies. Just ignore them.

 

[Neodanthril]

Ladies of Reddit - what is the most sexiest thing an overweight gamer has done that made you immediately want to have sex with him/be his girlfriend?

 

[Éamonn Ceannt]

Both men and women wish for a happy life. It is not unnatural to want more than you need or aim your standards high. You shoot for the stars and hope you at least clear the roof. Most women aren't thinking "I'm definitely going to land that 10/10 gym god with the six figure salary who showers me with gifts". But they do think it might be nice if it does happen. It's no different than hoping you win the Powerball. Unlikely but anything is possible, right?

Sure but at the end of the day I don't make financial decisions off the assumption that I am going to win the lottery. That is the problem. Sure, look for the guy but by the time you're 25 you should be thinking of marriage.

 

[Fapcop]

The problem, like so many of our societal ills, started with boomers.

They first spread this cancerous idea that women don’t need to settle, but can in fact have it all: Career, family, being sexy and desirable (and an amazing sex life of course!) as well as romance that’ll sweep them off their feet.

In reality, you can’t have it all.

Unless you’re like 1% of women, you won’t even be able to balance family and career.

Nancy Pelosi, (yeah she’s a cunt) is one example of that. She didn’t start her political career until her kids were grown. But she’s is the absolute exception.

Top men in their fields likewise often neglect their families, especially if they don’t have a woman who manage the family life.

But top men, unlike many women, don’t have an illusion that they can be amazing homemakers, top executives, sexy AND have the love life of a romance novel. Unlike too many women.

 

[Osmosis Jones]

I’m fat, sweaty, don’t shower or shave, don’t get haircuts, don’t even wipe my fucking ass and I get pussy. What is wrong with you guys that you don’t just automatically get pussy? I smell like someone set an ammonia dump on fire and yet Stacey still sucks me off while I announce profusely that “itz only smellz”. Women don’t have any expectations, your genetics have automatically disqualified you from the breeding pool. Thanks for the free snatch, losers!

 

[HOMO FOR LIFE RETURNS]

Why do we give a shit about what women want? This thread is gay.

 

[Nique la mere de Macron]

Jesus. I expect a job, basic hygiene, no active addiction, and common courtesy, which is a hell of a lot less than what I bring to the table. And I cannot be the only woman who has been called a gold digger for insisting on employment, but my days of running a home for wayward losers are over nevertheless.

 

[SSj_Ness (Yiffed)]

Simple, we live in a feministic society, and the dominant gender is going to have more bargaining power in this regard, and therefore have higher expectations.

In theory you'd think the solution is equality of the sexes, but that's impossible because humans aren't wired that way, and we're naturally different. Long-term solution here is political, short-term is just find a low maintenance woman, typically ghetto chicks, but that comes with its own set of problems.

 

[Trump's Chosen]

I expect a job, basic hygiene, no active addiction, and common courtesy, which is a hell of a lot less than what I bring to the table.

Do you bring things to the table that you care about, or things that you would care about in a man?

Long-term solution here is political, short-term is just find a low maintenance woman, typically ghetto chicks, but that comes with its own set of problems.

Tell me more about your experience with low maintenance ghetto chicks.

 

[Rekieta’s Broken Penis]

Women are fine. Log off. Meet a normal woman. Knock her up. Become a father.

Jesus. I expect a job, basic hygiene, no active addiction, and common courtesy, which is a hell of a lot less than what I bring to the table.

I bet you smell sour.

 

[isalaide]

Have you ever asked women what they really want?

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