I don't get women that stay with these freaks. Especially if they have kids in the picture. Get away from the sick fuck before he decides to try and "crack their eggs" it's gonna happen. He's either gonna molest them or try to turn them into trannies, a guy who puts his fetish ahead of his family isn't safe to be around children, whether thats physically or psychologically. He's gonna fuck them one way or the other.
Get the fuck out, divorce rape his AGP ass.
No fucking sense. The relationship is dead. If he cared he wouldn't be mincing around in a fucking dress.
I don't know about this particular freakshow, but a
lot of these men troon out when their partner is pregnant (+ too far along for an abortion) or has just given birth, or if not they do it after agreeing to let her be a SAHM and letting her quit her job. These freaks do the exact same shit abusers do - because this kind of narcissistic, controlling, forcible rearrangement of their lives is a form of mental abuse imho - to ensure their victims are as well and truly trapped as possible. And, also like abusers, they tend to lose it and show their true colors when their partner's attention is captured by something else, like a baby, and they're not the center of all attention anymore.
Getting out can be really, really hard in that kind of a situation. Remember that the idea that family courts favor women is a myth and in reality, almost all men who want custody of their children and actively seek it
get custody, including abusive husbands - in fact, there is evidence that abusive husbands are even
more likely to get custody of children than husbands who aren't abusive - meaning that unless she already has airtight evidence that her husband
is actively harming the children in irrevocable ways (ie sexual abuse) he's going to get at least half custody of those kids and be alone with them the whole time. Unfortunately, unless a woman has absolute proof her ex is physically or sexually abusing their children, and here I mean she needs photographic or video evidence, if he wants custody he's going to get it and he can molest, abuse, and psychologically warp the children to his heart's content during that time. Many women find it safer to stay with the abuser, at least until/unless they can get that ironclad proof, because they can be a positive influence for their children
all the time, instead of leaving them totally on their own half or more of the time.
There's also the financial aspect, because like I said, a lot of these guys wait to pull this shit until their wives don't have steady income and can't afford to leave them. Getting a job after years of being a SAHM is difficult to begin with. It's harder with the Incredible Hon throwing a temper tantrum every time you put some makeup on for your job interview, or refusing to watch his own kids for an hour because it interferes with his girly shopping time or whatever.
It's just hard, in the end. Abusive and manipulative men - a group which includes all troons, since they are at their core manipulators - can make it really, really fucking hard for women to escape them, and unfortunately society in many ways aids and abets those abusers and manipulators.