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Femcels could get a normal boy if they wanted. They just can't lower their standards.
No, because actual femcels are some combination of ugly, weird, and annoying. Nobody wants to stay around. That cartoon references the performative femcel, a reasonably attractive woman who is frequently approached by men, but has impossible standards/actively drives them away, and appropriates the struggles of ugly chicks for herself to get attention, primarily from her orbiters.
 
I went to school with some girls that:
  • was fat, really fat now, had a head like a cinder block and uneven eye size, but not too bad, still looked human. Might still get dick, but she's a raging feminist.
  • one looked normal, but had a smartphone hunch before smart phones, bushman eyebrows and half jeet. Could probably get dick, but is a bit too autistic and was obsessed with the Jonas Brothers.
  • was also fat, looks like a dysgenic pedo brony, and has uneven leg lenght topped with male levels of screeching autism. I highly doubt anyone would be willing to stick it in this one, unless it's JF Garapey.
 
There's no "boy talk general" or whatever so I thought this would be the best thread to ask for advice.
Do you guys think going to Army will make me a better, manlier man or am I doomed to stay a clumsy, unconfident coward forever? I wanna confidently talk back to people, get into fights and casually hit on the girls without even a hint of awkwardness but every time I try, there's some inner pathetic worm in me that holds me back as if I was afraid or cared about the consequences of my actions.
My best bro got drafted after getting his dumb ass kicked out of college, he was stationed at the border for the entire duration of his service in 2023 and even took part in fending off the mercs during Belgorod raids: shooting from the trenches, getting bombed by drones and all. Before the army he was kind of lost in life - failed getting an education, had no hobbies, was in a shitty relationship for a short time, spent too much time playing vidya; after he came back, he really was a changed man - became very responsible, climbed a career ladder at a local McDonald's (is now a manager), found a very cute and sweet gf there that really loves him back, is making a great progress learning to play on electric guitar and in general really grew as a person.
And to be fair, he's not the only example of army's good influence. The bro's cousin got seriously BUFFED in the army because he had nothing better to do there then getting into brawls with shitskins, guarding drafted inmates and doing pull ups all day.
I could never tell my friend this, but I secretly envy him in a good way and aspire to be like him. I really wonder if I went through the same or even simply through a regular service, I'd become a better man too. I asked my dad who's currently serving in Crimea if it's worth it and he told me that it's kinda boring and I'm better off not wasting a year of my life on this. He most likely meant it, but I can never be sure if he lied to get me out of harm's way or not. I know the military service differs from country to country, but I'd like to hear about your thoughts and experiences nonetheless.
 
It reminds me a little of the idea that 'Oh X will reeeaallllyyy suffer in prison!' He won't. They don't care, no one cares.
Granted, that's just because if you mention prison in any context, every American is obligated by biological triggers to immediately talk about how much negroid penis said person will take up the ass.
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I think people give radfems way too much slack. This is where that shit leads.
Remember that whenever these people claim that "it's just a joke, we aren't serious about our manhate/'kill all men' posts", they're lying. They are 100% serious and genuinely believe the things they type, they just claim they're joking so people don't call them out on their shit.
 
Women do, and Donald Trump lost in 2020 largely because women perceived his policies as mean and his personal behavior as rude.
There's one part of this that I do not understand.

How does this same logic not apply to female sexual selection? How do they not perceive the same sort of issue in abusive men? They're pretty mean and rude!

Or were Trump 50 years younger but act exactly the same, women would vote for him?
 
I wanna confidently talk back to people, get into fights and casually hit on the girls without even a hint of awkwardness but every time I try, there's some inner pathetic worm in me that holds me back as if I was afraid or cared about the consequences of my actions.
Real talk, do you actually want that life, or have you just convinced yourself that somehow you would be happier doing these things? Getting in fights is a great way to go to jail, and talking shit to people is a great way to get in fights.

If acting like a public nuisance is what you want out of life then joining the army is pointless, just get blackout drunk and go act a fool. I really hope you're not contemplating all of this because of pussy m8.
 
Nah, man - this really was something else. I meant, specifically, physically compatible - to an unprecedented degree. On an entirely different level, in its own category. And I'm old.
If it's any consolation, you're not the only one I have heard such a story from. I gave such a gentleman advice regarding a woman way out of his league both looks-and-family-wise whose parents even liked him, and he dumped her because of the sense she was too good for him.

So take heart in the fact there is a man who is dumber than you around, at least?
 
Real talk, do you actually want that life, or have you just convinced yourself that somehow you would be happier doing these things? Getting in fights is a great way to go to jail, and talking shit to people is a great way to get in fights.

If acting like a public nuisance is what you want out of life then joining the army is pointless, just get blackout drunk and go act a fool. I really hope you're not contemplating all of this because of pussy m8.
It's not about being a nuisance, it's about confidence. I was just giving a few examples of when being confident would've really helped in life. Have I had been more self-confident, I would've punched first, I would've stood up for myself better, I would've had more luck with women, etc. No, it's not just because of pussy, I really wanna improve myself and gain better self-esteem but I don't know how. I saw army work for a few people in my life, so that's what I'm contemplating at the moment.
 
It's not about being a nuisance, it's about confidence. I was just giving a few examples of when being confident would've really helped in life. Have I had been more self-confident, I would've punched first, I would've stood up for myself better, I would've had more luck with women, etc. No, it's not just because of pussy, I really wanna improve myself and gain better self-esteem but I don't know how. I saw army work for a few people in my life, so that's what I'm contemplating at the moment.
It all depends if you manage to connect with your fellow comrade-in-arms and not be a liabililty to them. You can be a social outcast in the fields, too. In that case, it won't help your confidence, it will royally fuck you up way more.
 
Joining the Army will not make you a better man. The military is a thankless job much like any other career path that involves immense suffering and conditioning. Maybe if you were an engineer it could work. It all really depends on you. If you are into becoming robotic and a fleeting shell of a man I recommend signing up. No cause to fight for much anymore under militaries unless you begin your own causes. You honestly sound like you'll end up like a Travis Bickle with the way you want to "prove" yourself.
 
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It's not about being a nuisance, it's about confidence. I was just giving a few examples of when being confident would've really helped in life. Have I had been more self-confident, I would've punched first, I would've stood up for myself better, I would've had more luck with women, etc. No, it's not just because of pussy, I really wanna improve myself and gain better self-esteem but I don't know how. I saw army work for a few people in my life, so that's what I'm contemplating at the moment.
It can whip your ass into shape but the problem is you're quite literally signing your life away for people that hate your existence.
I think the reason joining the military helps out some is the forced structure of everything. Some people (fuck, myself included) need a regular schedule to be productive people.

(semi off-topic but there should be a men's advice thread or something, lots of people here and who knows, maybe it can help someone out)
 
How men's advice threads/fraternities/clubs/spaces start:
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There's one part of this that I do not understand.

How does this same logic not apply to female sexual selection? How do they not perceive the same sort of issue in abusive men? They're pretty mean and rude!

Or were Trump 50 years younger but act exactly the same, women would vote for him?

It's all about context. In person, Trump slays pussy. However, on the national stage, Trump's supposed meanness and rudeness are products of the media, who portray it as socially unacceptable to vote for him.
 
Do you guys think going to Army will make me a better, manlier man
Are you currently exercising, getting good sleep and eating well? Starting a physical fitness regimen, going outside more and picking up a useful skill will make you a better, manlier man than joining the military probably ever could. You do not need someone or something else to bring order to your life it just takes initiative to make your own way forward. Your father's advice was good and I don't know you, but I don't want you to throw your life away gambling on a confidence gain you could get from just refocusing your life.
 
You're high if you think JFG or rackets aren't suffering from the consequences of their actions.
Suffering is not the same as getting justice and that is always a fallacy people seem to have. MamaJF is still a mashed potato and JFG is not in jail. Rackets is still allowed to raise his coke addicted daughter, and might even someday give her more. Consequences are permanent. Suffering is temporary. No matter how much stress they got dragged through, none of these things really matter in the long run. All of this will some day be a bad year to Rackets. Same for JFG. They're not in jail, which is what they deserved. Saying "well they suffered at least" is nothing more than faggot cuckoldry.

Also to bring it back to women hate let's address modern women's favourite buggaboo:
Daily reminder, nobody can force you to do anything. If we could, nobody would be single and divorce wouldn't exist.

Femcels do not really exist. Change my mind.

(The point I'm getting at is any woman can get a man, not every man can get a woman. There is certainly bitter miserable cunts and I know a couple in my family lmao)
They don't and they never have. Any woman at any time can walk up to any random, ask if they want to bone, and they'll get a yes in 15 minutes or less. Any woman can sign up on a dating app, date and marry the first man in her inbox. They CHOOSE not to. Men don't get to choose who they fuck. Women do. And very often when women are begging for someone to date them their first instinct will be "gross, no what's wrong with you if you're into me?".
 
They don't and they never have.

Any woman at any time can walk up to any random, ask if they want to bone, and they'll get a yes in 15 minutes or less.
Nope

Any woman can sign up on a dating app, date and marry the first man in her inbox.
Nope

They CHOOSE not to.
That's like an incel saying he wants to be single and that's his choice, when he can't get a date. It's just cope talk for women.
Next level is: I am better than them and I don't date losers. Even when the women has a crotch goblin and SS.

Men don't get to choose who they fuck.
Have you even talked to a man ? I said no when women begged me to fuck them. We definitely get to chose. I rejected plenty of women I found unappetizing or they lacked qualities that would even make them date-able.

Daily reminder, nobody can force you to do anything. If we could, nobody would be single and divorce wouldn't exist.
That's why rape and shot-gun weddings "exist". .. and then wars, police and so on...

Women do.
No you don't. You can only pick what's available to you. Men with qualities are not available to you and you cannot choose them. You are invisible to them even if you throw yourself at their feet. There is no quality you have that would make such a man want you. And no, having a crotch and tits is not enough. Men don't value sex, only woman do.
Regular dog ranks higher in respect because it is thankful for food and is loyal to the owner. Even the abused shelter dogs have higher intelligence level and they understand they are safe and mellow over time if you provide them a warm home.
50% of women are fueled by pure vitriol and only wait to explode when they sense they have hooked a man and he can't get away anymore.

And very often when women are begging for someone to date them their first instinct will be "gross, no what's wrong with you if you're into me?
That is why women are afraid to beg as they know-feel that will sink them to the lowest level of imaginary social curve and they rather stay in the vices of begging for e-cash and attention online.
Ironically, not doing anything or even voicing their opinion that they want something just breaks them completely and turns them into social rejects that no man wants because they have 0 communication skills and are easy prey for feminists that promise them a good dick and a slave husband.

I know the military service differs from country to country, but I'd like to hear about your thoughts and experiences nonetheless.
I can tell you from veterans I talked to: Their opinion is they have wasted their time in the military and would have rather do everything else.
People who get injured in service get no compensation. Wages are shit. You are basically a slave to your superior.
With regular job - you get to choose where you want to be. In military, you don't.
You are romanticizing military like my ex: "They will fix me", no they didn't. She's only more f*d up now than before.
If you want to get better, work on yourself, NO ONE ELSE will.

t's not about being a nuisance, it's about confidence. I was just giving a few examples of when being confident would've really helped in life. Have I had been more self-confident, I would've punched first, I would've stood up for myself better, I would've had more luck with women, etc. No, it's not just because of pussy, I really wanna improve myself and gain better self-esteem but I don't know how. I saw army work for a few people in my life, so that's what I'm contemplating at the moment.
My word of advice: Don't worry this much and don't dwell on past.
Society is established around tearing men down - that's the only way they can get labor-life extracted from you. Even other men are accomplices in this. Army may have worked for few, others you don't see because they are dead or crippled.
Throwing punches and other shit is just stupid, you have a brain, use it. Avoid risks and dangerous areas. There's no point in getting into a fist fight, to prove a point. Time spent in a bar and getting wrecked can be spent on obtaining women - or being happy.
 
Have you even talked to a man ? I said no when women begged me to fuck them. We definitely get to chose. I rejected plenty of women I found unappetizing or they lacked qualities that would even make them date-able.
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If women are openly begging you to fuck them, congrats, you're in the top 10-20% of men in terms of attractiveness. Your experience is not the experience of most men. Out side of force, women control access to sex and these days relationships too. If you don't have a problem with those things, great, I hope that continues for you, but that's not most men these days.

Men don't value sex, only woman do.
Just wild.
 
I said no when women begged me to fuck them. We definitely get to chose. I rejected plenty of women I found unappetizing or they lacked qualities that would even make them date-able.
Think you left out some details from that story.
"Why are you still single:" Because I got ridiculed as a youth with prank calls by schoolmates for fake dates and interests piled on top of other trust and abandonment issues. My relationships don't last as those reasons manifest themselves in giving up effort the moment I sense other party lost some interest or is simply talking less. The sensation is completely made up but it's inescapable thought that just burns every bridge. The only thing that nearly lasted was "I can fix her", where I just hid my issues by concerning myself with someone elses. I am broken and it will never get better.
Anyone feigning interest in me also unnerves me to no end.
 
Out side of force, women control access to sex and these days relationships too.
Women don't control access to relationships. See all the apps, and chatrooms asking "Are we dating the same guy?" Or all the women being "led on" by men they are in LTRs with, but not married to. Women assume because they fucked you, and they want a relationship that the two of you are in fact in one. That's not how it works. Pussy doesn't "seal the deal."
 
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