When people do this to themselves in affects every single aspect of every single person they have ever interacted with. I deeply deeply hate was was peddled to my friends as a way to solve their problems. They never even got the chance to reflect on what they had done to themselves, it was impulse to impulse to impulse to overdose. No do-overs. Fuck.
Was watching squid game 2 recently, which has a troon character, and was bemused. They entered the game to get money to transition. So theyre killing other people in a death game, because their gender surgery is more important than other people's lives. I think its a pretty accurate metaphor.
But thats also where my 'live and let live' is challenged. We arent completely autonomous in our lives and are very interconnected. Transitioning isn't just a personal journey, its something which affects every single person around you as you say, and its not fair for one person to dictate the way an entire family relates to something.
You have the extreme cases with trans-widows, where the husband is incredibly selfish and self-centered and doesnt care about how it affects their kids, but even for trans-kids, or the incel-to-trans type, transitioning tears families apart and has a deferential affect on the entire families psychology.
You can't cause people to feel guilt tripped to allow you to transition with constant threats of suicide, and also play off that youre the victim and the parents, siblings, etc arent going to be psychologically affected. This is something said less, but theres also very real psychological affects on family members and someone entitled trooning out will also give parents depression, insomnia, anxiety, etc.
I say this as someone with a
brother who had psychosis before trooning out, and took the kool aid. It chews me up at night, its destroyed my mom's psyche, my father's and I've seen their own mental health deteriorating for something that is not their fault.
If you want an equivilent, its sort of like: Imagine that you have a family member with mental issues- sad enough. They believe they'd be better off if they cut off both legs (insert Kelly Ronahan). You want to get them help, it kind of works. Then this ideology comes along. Then he hyperfixated on it, and its going to cure everything. Then it cuts off one leg, and you can't mourn his own loss, because if you do, youre bigoted. Then everyone in the world is demanding that you cheer this on, and that you need to make him a cake and encourage him to cut off the other leg. Its madness.
all while my brother is completely oblivious to what hes causing, and his demise is celebrated. I don't even wish him ill, I want him to be better desperately, but that shows how much I hate this ideology and those who enable it
There is no gain befriending troons. Like, there's no chilled, easy going, mentally stable versions of them. You always have to be on your guard and be careful about everything you say around them and it's just like a ticking bomb before they negatively fuck you over some how. As you get older, you realize that befriending people like this is potentially dangerous for your well being. It's like inviting junkies into your life. It's going to have negative consequences.
It was like this for me at one point, but Ill add something further. Gamed in an online community for years (since the mid 2000s) and someone in the community who was even a troon back then basically went full psychotic when the worst of the tranosphere became prominent.
They unironically had thicker skin in the 2000s, and if I knew any trannies then, I was definitely more neutral or sympathetic.
Regardless, this person went full woke leftard and started yelling at people for voting Trump, calling them /pol/tards, incels, fascists etc, and really drank the lib kool-aid in the mid 2010s.
When they insulted someone, the person would just respond with 'Okay Bruce', as their original name was known.
Drove the person mad, unironically. I tried to help them, to tell them to chill and stop starting shit themselves, and tried to ask people in our own community to chill a bit with their responses- not even in a forceful way, but just because I wanted peace in my community, regardless of who started it or who was at fault.
>insert me saying the wrong thing with 'Yeah we shouldn't be fast tracking kids, I think its a social contagion' a few weeks later, and theyre suddenly at my neck and rabid.
>insert a few more weeks later, and they have the libtard mods convinced they need to ban anyone from calling him Bruce and all of Bruces 'trolls', including myself
These people drive everyone away around them.
