Trainwreck ArchivistBecks / 8bitBecca / RemembrancerMx / Yonah Bex Gerber / Rebecca Marie Hernandez-Gerber - The Unhappiest Bitch on Earth. Used a Cancer Scare to Raise Money for a Disneyworld Trip. Collects Identities and Minority Labels Like They're Pokémon; Retired at 36 because of Self-Diagnosed PCOS

I would imagine Daniel's taken a step back while Bex pretends it's just her and Jackson now. Which, while somewhat understanding considering the situation - means Bex will only consider the effort he's been making since he told her he's done.

Ulimately he's boned because I think - despite Bex not really putting much effort in - if he steps away he's super unlikely to get custody of Hannah. Best he can ever hope for is visitation rights.

Or he can stay and be miserable for the next 17 years I guess - but that would be awful for Hannah as well. Staying together for the kids never works out all that well for the kid long term.
The real reason fathers get awarded custody in the US less often is because they are less likely to ask for it in the first place.

If Daniel wants Hannah, I think he could get her pretty easily, especially since Becky and Jackson are unemployed and Becky posts about smoking massive amounts of weed, sleeping around, her baby getting injured on a broken bong, etc. Daniel has a job and if he is sleeping around or getting stoned constantly, he has the sense not to tell everyone on the Internet about it.
 
The real reason fathers get awarded custody in the US less often is because they are less likely to ask for it in the first place.

If Daniel wants Hannah, I think he could get her pretty easily, especially since Becky and Jackson are unemployed and Becky posts about smoking massive amounts of weed, sleeping around, her baby getting injured on a broken bong, etc. Daniel has a job and if he is sleeping around or getting stoned constantly, he has the sense not to tell everyone on the Internet about it.
God, it’s a bad outlook when Daniel is the best parent.
 
The real reason fathers get awarded custody in the US less often is because they are less likely to ask for it in the first place.

If Daniel wants Hannah, I think he could get her pretty easily, especially since Becky and Jackson are unemployed and Becky posts about smoking massive amounts of weed, sleeping around, her baby getting injured on a broken bong, etc. Daniel has a job and if he is sleeping around or getting stoned constantly, he has the sense not to tell everyone on the Internet about it.
Seeing the depths of this insanity get unpacked in family court would be great Farms content.
 
I never get tired of watching poly relationships fall apart and then all the smug meets the reality of the world.

No, your constant communication and overplanning for contingencies doesn't work. The moment your relationship falls apart, no one will want to abide by the agreements they previously agreed to.

I've seen poly family after poly family tell everyone how concerns about the likelihood of a relationship failure were overblown and how unlike you unenlightened mono couples, poly people have open lines of communication to discuss these issues and pre-determine how a breakup will go. Unlike dumb two-parent families, poly families know that parenting isn't just about being biologically related to a child, and they have all agreed that everyone will stay in the children's lives forever because ohana means family and family means no one gets left behind.

Inevitably, the breakup includes mutual accusations of abuse, children taken out of the family home in the middle of the night and into other states/countries, and none get a chance to say goodbye to people they were told until that very moment were their parents and protectors. Some of the kids didn't even actually know whose biological children they were until the dissolution of the poly compact.

Poly people get into this relationship dynamic because they're fundamentally emotionally immature but believe their immaturity to be a sign of maturity, wisdom, and depth. They're always fast to dismiss any critique or act like they can address concerns with "ha ha, we talk to each other far more about our emotions and relationships than you normies." It's very much like watching a teenager try to tell you why actually, it's okay if they in particular drive while under the influence because they're such a good driver it doesn't impact them.
 
Sounds like Danny blew off "Family Counseling" - likely due to needing to, ya know, work to feed his five children at home. Becky wonders if it's time to "call it" as if that's not what Daniel already has done.

It's possible he forgot or whatever, but i suspect it's equally possible she has some insufferable therapist who Danny doesn't want to listen to blame him for everything.

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Or yeah guess it could be Sam. Who knows, @Orcrist.bkyfanboy.social

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Becky who doesn't work can't understand how someone might have had conflicting interests or a necessary work thing.
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Edit: she deleted this right after I posted it.
 
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work to feed his five children at home
Fuck you I wasn’t expecting a zinger in the first line, thanks for the coughing fit asshole

In other news Becky has booked herself solidly into the Bitch Had It Coming quarterfinals. Takes some real brass balls to abdicate all responsibility for every aspect of your life and then still talk shit about how everyone else does things.

Huh. Maybe she really is trans.
 
She has to decide if he's retarded enough for it to be okay.

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Imagine trying to go to therapy with this loon, by the way. Maybe whoever his new girlfriend is sent him some resources about why it's a bad idea to try couples therapy with a cluster B nightmare.
 
Imagine trying to go to therapy with this loon, by the way. Maybe whoever his new girlfriend is sent him some resources about why it's a bad idea to try couples therapy with a cluster B nightmare.
The only people who walk away in any permutation of that situation with anything of any benefit to anyone, even if it is only themselves, are Becky and the therapist. Guaranteed she does not return to anyone who does not tonguebathe her asshole, so she’s getting validation. Presumably, eventually, the therapist gets paid but boy is that a fucking roll of the dice as to when that will take place. If you walk into couples/relationship counseling and the therapist is not prepared to be the impenetrable wall of Jericho to keep the conversation constructive, someone like Becky will have her bootprints all up and down their back by the end of the first session.

I would sooner slather my genitals in barbecue sauce and go annoy a badger.
 
Becky posts a photo of Jack and his unrelated kid (but adoption is BAD) with her typical caption "them"

Behind them on the counter is a very large takeout bag of sandwiches. Sure grateful that she was able to afford that psych intake the other day, huh? Poor as they are.

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Pro tip, Becky: you can BUY sandwich ingredients and assemble them at home for far less money than you're spending at whatever fancy sandwich place you ordered from.


I'm reminded of the Juliana/Corissa thread where Coco is forever taking the MOST unflattering videos and photos of Juliana and the consensus is she does it on purpose in some sort of cluster B narc attempt to humiliate her partner. Idk if I can regularly accuse Becky of that, but an.open mouthed eating photo? Really? All over the Internet? Mkay girl.

Becky also reposted this shitty poem with her determination that Hah-nuh grows up to be a caregiver. With you as her Mom, Becky, there was never any question that you'll expect her to take care of "hurt things" aka her Mom.

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Children lol. I have a feeling we will see a Becky preg arc again soon. It’s weird how she doesn’t seem to have shit to do with Hannah but lately she’s been sperging about multiple kids and fussing over the future of muh white children, I think she’d get preg to spite Daniel for sure.

I dunno when it happened, but I find it so insidious, the societal trickery that says therapy is not only the One True Solution to everything but it’s also almost mandatory. Becky treats it like it’ll definitely fix everything if Daniel just shows up while ignoring her part in things falling apart. I bet we’d all be horrified if we knew the extent to which she has wielded therapy as a weapon against the cucks and her family.
 
Children lol. I have a feeling we will see a Becky preg arc again soon. It’s weird how she doesn’t seem to have shit to do with Hannah but lately she’s been sperging about multiple kids and fussing over the future of muh white children, I think she’d get preg to spite Daniel for sure.

I dunno when it happened, but I find it so insidious, the societal trickery that says therapy is not only the One True Solution to everything but it’s also almost mandatory. Becky treats it like it’ll definitely fix everything if Daniel just shows up while ignoring her part in things falling apart. I bet we’d all be horrified if we knew the extent to which she has wielded therapy as a weapon against the cucks and her family.

I think she's going to use another pregnancy as an excuse for why she can't be bothered to watch Hannah but should have custody anyway. "Your Honor, of course I am the primary parent taking care of my daughter, but you know how disabling pregnancy can be..."
 
Lol, she’s going to escape to Europe? Bitch, have you looked in on what’s going on there?
She’ll never leave California, and I do mean never. It is the safest place in the world for people like her, because nowhere in the world is there a bigger service industry.

When society backslides back to the point we have wipers again, Cali is where they’ll be first.
 
Love how all their replies are telling her to end a relationship over one missed event after she prompted those responses by suggesting this was a reasonable thing to do in the first place.

I'm not suggesting that it's not reasonable to use such an event as the final straw after a train of abuses, but this is the first event after the sorta-separation Immediately jumping to black-and-white thinking to justify a catastrophizing mentality might be something for both therapy and family counseling to work on and push back against rather than endorsing splitting!
 
She will be back; guessing it's temporary while whatever job she's currently after vets her. Hopefully they find us instead. Hi recruiter! Don't hire Becky!
I'm sure there is an employer out there who would love to hire a BPD nightmare who either spends hours crying under a desk merely from hearing the Jurassic Park theme, screaming at people about how they are NOT A GIRL! despite wearing makeup, long hair, and dresses, or banging their coworkers!

I bet her email is just flooded with job offers!
 
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