Kaynisha Welcome (known to go by the names "Saturn" or "Weather" interchangeably) is a pathological liar, serial emotional abuser, and a conspirator in Kiwi Farms harassment against myself and my partners, and by extension, some of y'all. Pictured below are some of her alternate accounts.
Kaynisha was (until recently) dating both of my girlfriends, and two of my metamours, one of whom lives with us 90% of the time, the other of whom resides very close. She will constantly seek out new additions to her supposedly "poly" relationship, yet willfully neglect the partners she already has unless she believes she can soak up their attention without returning any of it herself, to a point where it's arguably toxic and unhealthy. She has repeatedly gone behind my girlfriends' backs in concerted efforts to conceal her activities regarding her relationships from us.
What makes this especially unsettling is that many of these people are known abusers or antagonizers, some of which have directly targeted my partners and I, including but not limited to one Shiloh Anne Marie/Autumn Michelle Whitehead, who we are confident leaked sensitive information about my partners and I to Kiwi Farms after they began their attack on one of my girlfriends. We consulted her individually about the danger of remaining involved with Shiloh, and she pretended to agree and shrug it off, while secretly remaining involved with her even while she routinely acted transphobic towards us in messages between Kaynisha and her. One of these messages specifically states her desire to, and I quote, "bash" my girlfriend's face in. It's also worth noting that Kaynisha allowed people to believe that one of my girlfriends (age 32) was much older than she is, which I can only assume is an attempt to make her look predatory. Whether Kaynisha instigated this rumor or not, I do not know, but she regurgitated it, as did some of her friends.
Kaynisha has also lied to multiple people, some of whom are friends, some of whom are mutuals, about the conditions in which we live and the behaviors of my partners. She has attempted to say that we keep "no food in the house", even though we go well out of our way to considering we have disabled people living here, and that we routinely make her feel "neglected" and "abused". She has attempted to paint us as abusive towards her and has likely damaged several friendships which we're still probably not aware of.
On top of this, and this is the part which infuriates me the most, Kaynisha willfully pretended for several months to identify as trans and specifically told us that she preferred a different set of pronouns, which we obliged, because we figured "Oh, hey, obviously we ought to validate them, right?". But apparently Kaynisha was "only doing the trans thing so we wouldn't hate her", as if to imply that we somehow pressured or groomed her into identifying a certain way when that is absolutely 100% bullshit on top of bullshit. But, apparently since we "bash cis people all the time", that counts.
Kaynisha has also been discovered to have made ableist DIDphobic remarks directed toward my girlfriends (both of whom are systems) behind their backs, even after having everything explained in great detail to her.
We have a number of screencaps available upon request. I'm unsure how many of you remain mutuals with her currently, however, myself and everyone I live with can confirm that Kaynisha Welcome is a toxic and unsafe presence and I'd personally urge everyone to act within the best interest of your friends.
