Trainwreck ArchivistBecks / 8bitBecca / RemembrancerMx / Yonah Bex Gerber / Rebecca Marie Hernandez-Gerber - The Unhappiest Bitch on Earth. Used a Cancer Scare to Raise Money for a Disneyworld Trip. Collects Identities and Minority Labels Like They're Pokémon; Retired at 36 because of Self-Diagnosed PCOS

Sam reportedly kicks Becky out of his room mid-sex, leaving her alone and barfing in her bathroom.

Apparently this is especially egregious because Daniel apparently spent last week "gaslighting" her that everyone hates her.

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Idk if gaslighting is the term you're grasping for here, Beckah. "Informing" you might be more accurate .

*she added this, after my first post:
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Lol Danny has her NUMBER

Y'all, the way she WISHES she could stop trawling for greasy 20-something dick, but alas. Tis her burden to carry!
 
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Half the people in Becky's house regularly tell her they can't stand her. She has "lost access" to public transportation, and she's scared to overhear that Jack hates her too.

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She's so dramatic and very bad at math. Unless SAD and NymphoMancy (how I remember his name in my head) actually got based, she's just being hyperbolic bc Daniel finally woke up.

Also, I know she's lying about public transportation, but this just gives me a fun headcanon that she has been banned from the bus for being too annoying.

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Usually women are different after pregnancy/giving birth because they become MOMS and priorities change and such. But not Becky. Miscarriage and pregnancy and C-section itself changed her completely and there's no going back to a Becky who can get up in the morning! In fact, she loves this version of herself, guys!
 
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It's especially funny because the issue Daniel has is that Becky didn't change during pregnancy and birth, at all. She was workshy and lazy and couldn't keep a job before pregnancy, she had a total lack of gratitude for her life or childhood or her generous parents. She liked weed too much and spent too much time deliberately seeking out arguments online, and had little ability to regulate her emotions.

I could see a woman making the claim that all of many of these issues were a result of infertility causing a sense of purposelessness and short sighted thinking, or a man thinking a woman might reform some of these traits with a baby to look after. That does happen. Some women who act insane pre baby really do settle down.

But Becky hasn't changed. At all. Everyone in her life hoped she'd walk out of the hospital a different person. It didn't happen.
 
I think that Becky knows that Danny Boy wants to bail with the baby, but that he is also aware that if he does, Jackson's wealthy family will use that EPSN money to hire a pack of the most rabid lawyers on Earth.

Give me rainbows, but I don't think Jackson's family would finance a custody battle. It seems like his mom views Hannah as a stepchild. There is a huge difference between spoiling a cute baby in your life, and spending a small fortune on a legal battle with an uncertain outcome. At most, I could Becky and Jack scamming another IVF cycle out of her

I think the biggest danger for Daniel is that he would have to go through the family court system in California. I could see a danger hair judge saying it's fine for Becky not to change diapers because of her autism. And that Daniel is in fact ableist, transphobic, and sexist for expecting her to parent.
 
What a drama queen! :lol:
Here are some archives of this new spergout:
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DANIEL REEEEEE
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Some of my favorite bits:
Becky said:
First my ex partner spends the last week gaslighting me & trying to convince me everyone in my life secretly hates me. Now my boyfriend demonstrates that might actually be true.
Who knew everyone in my life actually hates me & I have no friends because I’m so volatile & extremist everyone is scared of me & thinks my physical symptoms are my acting for attention? Things I learned this week 🙃
[...] every time my ex makes an emotional swing at me, they just both decided I was too happy this week or whatever the fuck crossed their minds.
I can’t drive. I don’t have access to public transportation. I’ve lost all my friends since having a baby. Half the people in my house regularly tell me how much they can’t stand me. Scared to talk to the other half in case I’m overheard…
I can barely get up in the mornings. [...] For three years of my life, I fucked up my body trying to have kids. I lost pregnancies, had surgeries, constantly injected myself with hormones. Then I had to survive c-section recovery & PPD. It’s 13 months later & folks in my life are cranky I haven’t 100% bounced back. Y’all serious?!
There is no going back to who I was before this pregnancy. [...] I can’t fucking deal with all these fucking people demanding I go back to who I was. That person died in the hospital & I came out instead.

Yeah, it's obvious that everyone in the household (aside from Cuck King Jackson) is tired of Becky's bullshit. She's a hateful person who constantly stirs up drama, feels entitled to being treated like an ailing princess, and doesn't contribute anything aside from occasionally doing laundry.

LOL at the lies about the totally-traumatic pregnancy and how she "died in the hospital". :lol:
In Becky's warped mind, birthing Hannah "fulfilled her side of the bargain", and now she expects the cucks to "keep their side of the bargain" by allowing her a life of indefinite, idle luxury. Of course, this "bargain" was likely just dreamed up by Becky herself. And especially now that the household is under financial stress, the cucks are tired of her hysterics & bullshit excuses.
 
Whenever I read about divorce in burgerland it’s always something about one or the other parent ”getting custody”. Is co-parenting after divorce or separation not a thing at all in the US?

As a t&h Scandinavian this is very confusing - I honestly can’t think of a couple around me where shared custody hasn’t happened after divorce, without the courts being involved.

Or is everyone just assuming there will be a dragged out court case since we’re discussing severely disordered people?
Fill the retarded Scandi in, pls!
 
Whenever I read about divorce in burgerland it’s always something about one or the other parent ”getting custody”. Is co-parenting after divorce or separation not a thing at all in the US?

As a t&h Scandinavian this is very confusing - I honestly can’t think of a couple around me where shared custody hasn’t happened after divorce, without the courts being involved.

Or is everyone just assuming there will be a dragged out court case since we’re discussing severely disordered people?
Fill the retarded Scandi in, pls!
Co-parenting is definitely a thing.

The people who talk about their divorce the loudest usually had the nastiest divorce. Survivor bias or whatever
 
Whenever I read about divorce in burgerland it’s always something about one or the other parent ”getting custody”. Is co-parenting after divorce or separation not a thing at all in the US?

As a t&h Scandinavian this is very confusing - I honestly can’t think of a couple around me where shared custody hasn’t happened after divorce, without the courts being involved.

Or is everyone just assuming there will be a dragged out court case since we’re discussing severely disordered people?
Fill the retarded Scandi in, pls!

Visitation or co-parenting totally happens in the US and generally family courts will try to work towards that first, unless one parent or the other is claimed to be unfit to care for the child.

Mind that a lot of cows tend to fall into this bracket so that might not help the visual.

I believe the assumption here on a tough custody battle is based on Bex being a BPD shrew who loves to use people who are close to her as pawns + I don't think long term it's healthy or tenable for Daniel to stay in that house IF he genuinely wants a clean break.

Bex isn't going to play nice at co-parenting. She already uses Hannah to punish people who displease her like Mami and papi. She'll do the same to Daniel unless he gets a legal visitation agreement down and gets the law involved when Bex withholds access. I'm not sure he has the balls to do all that.

That said both of the cucks don't make very smart life choices and I equally suspect Daniel will stay there because he still feels bound to support Bex and Jackson - even if only for Hannah's sake. It'll make him utterly miserable and damages his chances to find an actual healthy relationship in the long run..
 
"Custody" means two different things.

Legal custody is getting to have a hand in major decisions for the child. Education, medical care, childcare, stuff like that.

Residency or physical custody is actually having the kid live with you.

You can have legal custody without residency but cannot have residency without legal custody (because how would that work, the kid lives with you but you can't make decisions?). So a lot of times when US people say they have "joint custody" they may still have a very typical "dad gets the kids every other weekend" plan, or a 50/50 split, or even "dad takes the kids for occasional school breaks but doesn't see them consistently every month." In those situations, the dad (it's usually the dad, obviously there are situations where that's not true) is still supposed to be consulted on things like whether the kid can have her ears pierced, or go to Montessori school, or whatever.

Having joint legal custody with only one parent having physical custody is a hard situation for the people in it, who have to navigate talking to an ex who may use every decision as a big negotiating point to re-litigate old hurts in their relationship.

In Becky's situation, I would see her very much going for this exact scenario, leaving the physical custody of Hannah to Daniel while she gets to continue trying to make insane decisions for Hannah's life, like demanding she be homeschooled for covid safety or regularly taken to Jewish worship services Daniel doesn't believe in just to make his life as inconvenient and annoying as possible. She seems like exactly the type.
 
Visitation or co-parenting totally happens in the US and generally family courts will try to work towards that first, unless one parent or the other is claimed to be unfit to care for the child.
Thanks to everyone for explaining, you do get a weird idea of how things work when your entire database is filled with cows.
 
*she added this, after my first post:
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"Y’all the way I wish I could turn monogamous with my first husband & move into the woods with our daughter & never see a man again…"
I love these subconscious slights against Jackson. If they moved into the woods she would indeed never set eyes on a man again, lol.
 
Mysterious. What does she mean by "coveted" here?! Covered, maybe? If you're begging other people for it, you didn't cover it.

Which of the "partners" was going to the ER, anyway? I'm guessing Sam. So Becky's doing her center of attention act even though people in her household are going to the ER, and using it to beg.

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How much do you want to bet Sam's new glasses were expensive, and bought by Becky because she actually does not find him attractive? The fact that he went into the "unwanted" thing about Becky's nausea during sex (that she totally has always had but never mentioned) to me suggests that he's picking up on something real. Becky thinks he's stinky and ugly, and he was always just there to try to keep Daniel from abandoning her (because she was, in her mind, showing how insanely desirable she was to be able to pick up much younger men).

I've seen multiple scenarios among friends where someone felt nauseated during sex with a partner. In every case, there was an underlying issue with one person not finding the other attractive. But of course Sam's not allowed to notice and has to accept her excuse that she's always been this way. I don't find Sam attractive either, his greasy hair and flaky scalp are really gross, but I'm not the one who spent months talking about my way younger boyfriend.

Has anyone noticed how Becky talks a whole lot about Sam being young, but never, ever, ever says he's attractive? I've noticed.
 
Becky’s social media addiction provides an unrivalled opportunity to see how a BPD beast like her heals from unfiltered truth. She ‘s forced to confront the fact that no one likes her, then she swiftly bounces back with “My abusive ex abused me into thinking no one likes me with his abusive abuse.”

Note that she also uses the pregnancy to fish for sympathy. For a nonbinary trans person who despises gender roles, it sure is unfortunate that the thing causing her to act out is something that allows her to play the “biological woman” card!
 
Sam reportedly kicks Becky out of his room mid-sex, leaving her alone and barfing in her bathroom.

Apparently this is especially egregious because Daniel apparently spent last week "gaslighting" her that everyone hates her.

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Because it's totally normal to puke and bleed all over someone during sex!
Knowing Becky, she wanted an orgasm without consideration for other people's feelings, and didn't tell the guy who was riding the Crimson Tide until she bled all over his dick.

So of course, it's HIS fault for not knowing her cycle and not going down on her for a piece of "Cherry Pie',
 
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