Q: did you have to clean waffle stomps out of the shower
AB: no, don’t know how that came about as a rumor
Q: why did you have to burn her mattress from KY
AB: I don’t know exactly why but Amber just didn’t want to bring it so Ricky offered to burn it
Q: did Amber ever show concerning behavior around minors
AB: I never saw any red flags, there were some times she said she felt “mentally a teenager”
AD: no red flags
Q: did Amber talk negatively about her mother/family to you
AB: no answer skipped over the question
Q: how did you feel when Amber would flirt with Destiny in front of you
AB: I don’t think we realized it was happening
AD: agreed, and Dana would have said something
- INSERT SUCKING UP TO BECKY -
Q: did you ever hear or see Mamalynn call out Amber for mistreating you
AB: no because her mom also wouldn’t stick up for herself so why would she stick up for anyone else
AD: her mom has a lot of guilt about Amber so she puts up with her
Q: did you hear the doctor say verbatim “you have cancer” to Amber
AB: all I know is we went to the ER, they said they found “cancer cells” and she had surgery to have “stuff removed” and then she didn’t do shit after that for treatment
AD: she couldn’t fit in the PET scanner
Q: did Beck have to wipe Amber in public bathrooms
AB: I wasn’t wiping her in public bathrooms so she was finding her own ways or holding it in, she also wouldn’t stay the night at peoples houses because she didn’t want them to see Beck going in to the bathroom with her
Q: did you ever reconnect with Hanna and Rafe after Amber was out of the picture
AB: it was off and on many times, Amber would clash with Rafe a lot, we did reconnect, not going to discuss them
Q: what do her all out tantrums look like
AB: all of the above (yelling, screaming, crying) being manipulative and guilt tripping
AD: I would try to leave or ignore her, then it was phone calls and text messages
Q: did Amber actually graduate high school
AB: I don’t know
AD: it was an “alternative” school
Q: what happened with Eric and Ricky, why did they continue speaking with her after the breakup even though they seemed to dislike her
AB: love/hate with Eric, mostly hate with Ricky but they started to build a friendship when Amber would put on her best friend face and then it would slip and they would stop talking for a while
Q: did she even mention why her and Krystal fell out
AB: after Krystal started dating Becky’s ex Krystal was not being an “attentive friend” to Amber and Amber tried to break them up and Krystal cut her off
AD: I assumed it was Krystal moving on but I don’t know details
Q: what’s the most repulsive thing she has made you do
AB: you guys know all the repulsive stuff
Q: during the staycation in Lexington how did you feel staying in the room for days as an excuse for Amber to eat, did you have to deal with any aftermath once home
AB: it was disappointing we didn’t get to go to Pride, I expected it though. She said it was too hot, she would rather stay in the room. Family and I went to Gatlinburg after my mom passed and my family did a bunch of stuff and me and Amber only went to Walmart
AD: Amber bragged to me about how much fun she had at Pride (LMAO)
Q: did anyone try to step in and say anything to you about the way Amber was treating you
AB: (skipped it)
Q: can you talk about the engagement story
AB: I felt pressured in to it, she bought the rings, it was ridiculous. She bought 3 different rings. She wouldn’t stop pressuring about it
AD: I also felt pressured about the promise ring, it was literally a shut up ring
Q: were there a lot of the arguments and did she make a point to hide that from people
AB: (skipped it)
Q: why did you want to be in a relationship with ALR to begin with, did she manipulate you in to being in a relationship
AB: she was funny and seemed to care, she seemed like a really good friend and that drew me to her
AD: she definitely manipulates and love bombs, compliments you buys you things then when she hooks you in she is real
Q: can you elaborate more on the tea she spilled she said she called you when she was drunk and “hyped you up”
AB: didn’t happen at all, supposedly it was a text but Becky never got anything
Q: how does it feel to have succeeded on YouTube as opposed to Amber
AB: I’m not a YouTuber, I’m not a successful YouTuber. I also can’t compare what I’m doing to what Amber is/was doing
Q: how did Amber behave towards you after her cancer diagnosis- did she blame you to your face
AB: no she never blamed me for cancer until after we broke up and things were going bad, she was looking for someone to blame. Didn’t want to go to gyno as it was “uncomfortable”
AD: tried to get Amber to go to a gyno and she refused
Q: did she call you names when she was angry or having a BEEPEEDEE meltdown
AB: she probably did call me names but I can’t remember specifics. There was a lot of “you don’t care about me, look how you are treating me”, lots of guilt tripping
AD: agrees, she never said anything that bad but she may have called me a bitch. She was mean but didn’t throw many names
Q: did your mom and siblings like Amber
AB: (skipped it)
Q: was there anything you liked about your time with Amber, were there good moments
AB: there were moments where I felt she could get better and we had a good friendship, if she put in the effort. But that didn’t end up happening
AD: we were arguing constantly and I was over it by the end and she would constantly say she would change and then give up the next day
