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- Jun 2, 2024
Down a Reddit rabbithole we go: Kiwis, I would like to introduce Independent-Acadia14, a newly-minted poon that likes to wear geeky metal elf ears, owns multiple cars, lives on a boat in a polyamorous coupling with a tranny and a chaser, openly wears fetish gear in public and posts about life on the ocean with her family, including her exotic pets, on her TikTok @tailsofthesea. Now she's wondering how to break it to the 15-year-old son she Shanghaied to live on the sea with her that she's now poonin' out - and keep in mind, she is only 33 years old.
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And now, for something completely different.
Rapist in the making: a post-phallo pooner wants to know how realistic it is for her to stealthily assault biological gay men - and given the several posts she's made about it, she has quite a fixation completing this nasty act. She also struggles to connect to her phalloplasty and calls it her "beautiful guy." Somehow, she's convinced her meatstick is convincing enough even though she admittedly doesn't have balls. Based on her post history, I would say WolfMan275 is one to keep an eye on.
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Nervous about telling my son
I've been on T for several months now and no major changes yet. I asked my doctor about upping my dose but I haven't started yet because I'm nervous about having to start telling my gram and son. My gram may have heard from other sources so I'm not as nervous with her. However I feel like every year I have a different talk with my son like hey I'm poly, hey I have a girlfriend, hey I'm in a thruple, we are getting married, we are moving to a boat, we are moving to the ocean, my wife is trans, non binary people exist, I'm changing my name (my new name is gender neutral so didn't go into detail because I was still trying to figure out my identity)....so I feel like as some point he's going to be like OK what crazy things are happening next. But I don't want him to just think I'm crazy and weird. He's turning 15 this year. On one hand what's one more thing to add to the craziness but on the other hand is this going to tip the scales of this is just too much? Some of these conversations would have been better done together but he's never been one to ask questions. He kind of just says OK and moves on which is great but I get nervous and so I just leave it for the next time. He doesn't really tell me how he feels about any of it.
And now, for something completely different.
Rapist in the making: a post-phallo pooner wants to know how realistic it is for her to stealthily assault biological gay men - and given the several posts she's made about it, she has quite a fixation completing this nasty act. She also struggles to connect to her phalloplasty and calls it her "beautiful guy." Somehow, she's convinced her meatstick is convincing enough even though she admittedly doesn't have balls. Based on her post history, I would say WolfMan275 is one to keep an eye on.
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I am post phalloplasty but looks like it’s going to be a hot minute to definitely get an ED (and maybe balls, still up in the air) but I think my phalloplasty turned out fantastic, love my glansplasty, etc.
Originally I wanted to hook up stealth but looks like that’s not even an option anymore, unless I want to wait another year. I just have a lot of anxiety in general around hooking up with a cisguy with him knowing I’m trans. It’s always been easy for me to trust women and know they’ll be gentler but I don’t feel the same way about guys. I consider myself to be bi-curious, primarily interested in women and desire a female partner long term, but would like to explore hooking up with men sexually. But it brings up so much stuff for me that I end up thinking ‘this is not worth it’ since I don’t have anymore romantic desires to be with guys any ways. But I’m finally comfortable in my skin and would like to explore and I’m tired of waiting.
My concerns- I feel like I will be instantly fetishized and automatically assumed by others on the dating apps that I have female parts (no matter what I put in my bio) which is incredibly dysphoric for me, considering all the pain and struggle that phalloplasty has been to get to where I’m at. I also feel like the guys who may not say that up front may still think that way, and I can’t control/know that which also makes me anxious. I don’t want to be seen as female in any shape or form.
So that leaves my conundrum. Can anybody speak to this or share some new perspectives that could help going forward?
Nobody hates women like trannies hate women, including the self-hating homosexual cohort of those on r/StraightTransGirls.For my post op meta/phallo guys: Is hooking up stealth possible?
Been wanting to experiment for awhile now but it's such a heavy thing for me. I think it's a combination of my resentment towards cis guys for being born cis and internalized homophobia.
Regardless if I'm out to the other person or not, sex has always been such an extremely vulnerable, heavy thing for me since I had never felt comfortable in my body, and it was massive it share it with someone else; let alone with a cis guy I already feel resentment towards.
I've decided for my own sake and comfortability that I will not be out on the apps. And I would not be planning to disclose my trans ness to other guys. For many reasons, but the primary reason being that I'm just looking to sexually explore, not for anything romantic/relationship wise.
But it's probably going to be another year until my phalloplasty journey is completely finished- I'm talking ED and implants. I do think my penis is passable right now, I have had my glansplasty done so the phallus itself is pretty much done, only needing a little more debulking. I slept with a girl recently who barely batted an eye at my penis when she saw it (she was more curious about my giant leg scar, lol).
My question is- do you guys think I would be able to have a casual encounter off of Grindr or sniffies with where I'm at right now? Just thinking I'd probably say I had dick surgery since I still don't have an ED, balls, or would be able to externally cum. Or is this too much of a long shot and I should just wait until I'm fully finished?
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This is the worst thing I've ever confessed Idk why I'm posting this
.. but does anyone relate? When I go outdoors and see a woman who I consider less attractive than me, I feel super good about myself. But when I see a woman who's more attractive than me, I feel absolutely miserable. And on rare occasion when I see a very clocky doll, I feel bad about myself for being trans as well. That's the most fucked up part, I hate feeling judgemental of women who share the curse placed on me at birth.
Fairly recently, I talked to a woman with wild hirsutism, like neck beard not shaven in days and obvious razor burn. I'm pretty sure she's cis because her voice was beautiful, and I doubt a trans woman who's voice trained that well would be struggling that much with grooming. It made me feel much better about my own much less bad facial hair.
Last weekend I went out on a date and saw two short busty women with perfect figure, long hair, and feminine faces who wore gorgeous flirty garments, and I briefly felt miserable that can't be me. I don't generally hate my height or chest, and after ffs soon I expect I'll have fewer of these insecure moments, but gosh pretty women make me so sad sometimes. Every time I'm on a date, I'm worrying that the man I'm with wishes I was as pretty as some other ladies. Every time he doesn't ask me on a second date, I'm certain that's the reason why.