Trainwreck ArchivistBecks / 8bitBecca / RemembrancerMx / Yonah Bex Gerber / Rebecca Marie Hernandez-Gerber - The Unhappiest Bitch on Earth. Used a Cancer Scare to Raise Money for a Disneyworld Trip. Collects Identities and Minority Labels Like They're Pokémon; Retired at 36 because of Self-Diagnosed PCOS

The whole thing makes no sense. Is she saying she didn’t want a baby? That it wouldn’t be baby-trapping if she used Cuckson’s jizz? How can it be baby-trapping if it caused Daniel to leave? What career is this baby keeping her from, given that she was a lazy blob for years before Hannah came along?

I suspect DARVO. She’s been looking up different forms of abuse, found “baby-trapping,” thought “oh shit that’s what I tried to do to Daniel” and tried to figure out how to flip that on him.

The only part I believe, kinda, is the part about calming her down. Her life is just a kaleidoscope of self-destructive attention-seeking behaviour, and Daniel probably figured it was only a matter of time before she started heroin or bug chasing or something.
 
When I went through IVF, I had two husbands. One husband insisted we use his sperm first because he was worried about his age. Turned out that’s a lie. He now told my mother in law it was actually because he hoped a baby would calm me. So. Yeah.

Others have dissected the main points of this but I am interested in a smaller detail- she claims that he told her "mother in law" all this. I figure that must mean his mother, from Germany. If so, how did Becky find out? I have trouble imagining his mother went and tattled to her. So did Becky eavesdrop? Open someone's phone and look at the texts or emails?
 
Others have dissected the main points of this but I am interested in a smaller detail- she claims that he told her "mother in law" all this. I figure that must mean his mother, from Germany. If so, how did Becky find out? I have trouble imagining his mother went and tattled to her. So did Becky eavesdrop? Open someone's phone and look at the texts or emails?
The entire thing is built from rotten wood, however that information was gotten, either fabricated as so many other of her claims are, or she violated someone's property and privacy, it may actually be true. There are no sane players in this production.
 
He’s now a major voice in video game development off the support our family gave him whereas my career is over because he convinced me to give it up to be a stay at home parent saying he’d always financially support me.
So does she sit and craft these narrative for max outrage or is this how her mind warps the world in real time?

If so, how did Becky find out? I have trouble imagining his mother went and tattled to her. So did Becky eavesdrop? Open someone's phone and look at the texts or emails?
I think it's more likely an offhand comment blown out of proportion. Doesn't have to be so sinister, Daniel's mom could simply say, "I'm sorry to hear you two are having trouble. Daniel had mentioned he hoped the baby would give you some peace." Or something banal to that effect, which again would just be a reflection of something Daniel himself had told her almost in passing, "yeah mein mommy, the IVF is quite stressful but hopefully it's worth it. I hope the baby finally helps yonah relax and give her whatever she's missing. we will see. So how's business at the dirndl factory, by the way?"

Which kind of leads me back to my first question - how much of this is just instinctual and reflexive based on her warped perspective and how much is calculated? Because no logical person would consider what Daniel said a form of baby trapping. It sounds like something potential parents in maybe slightly rocky relationships would say to friends and family members thousands of times a day.

Bex is truly fascinating, I agree with everyone on that by the way. The inner workings of her mind never cease to spark my curiosity.
 
how much of this is just instinctual and reflexive based on her warped perspective and how much is calculated?
BPDs live by the Costanza rule: it's not a lie if you believe it.

The process goes something like this:

1. In an emotionally unhinged state (frequent occurrence for BPDs) she tells a desperate lie to try to enlist support or relieve distress.

2. Her reality testing is impaired due to the disorder so slippage begins to occur. She starts to forget how much of her tale was true and how much was a fable.

3. The lie enters into her mind as official canon and she now sincerely believes it, albeit perhaps with a small mental asterisk.
 
Attachments seem to be fixed, so here are the screenshots, plus a new one about how Daniel ruined Cuckson, too.
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Poor Cuckson. Someone showed him just how insane his wife actually is. Gotta be a bit terrifying being that he's legally obligated to the seahag.

She's whining that she has no recourse for finances, but like, isn't he on the birth certificate Becky? Aren't you entitled to child support? Oh yeah, you don't want it to go to court and Daniel pays the mortgage.
 
Attachments seem to be fixed, so here are the screenshots, plus a new one about how Daniel ruined Cuckson, too.
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Poor Cuckson. Someone showed him just how insane his wife actually is. Gotta be a bit terrifying being that he's legally obligated to the seahag.

She's whining that she has no recourse for finances, but like, isn't he on the birth certificate Becky? Aren't you entitled to child support? Oh yeah, you don't want it to go to court and Daniel pays the mortgage.
The Hebrew letters lesbian flag simp reply shows exactly what's in it for all these people- they can launder their truly atrocious moral errors and behavioral travesties through the truisms of the Left. "It's not stupidity, you are an abuse victim and it's never the abuse victim's fault!"
 
The whole thing makes no sense. Is she saying she didn’t want a baby? That it wouldn’t be baby-trapping if she used Cuckson’s jizz? How can it be baby-trapping if it caused Daniel to leave? What career is this baby keeping her from, given that she was a lazy blob for years before Hannah came along?
Becky, having the memory permanence of a mushroom, has forgotten all about the dozens of posts over the years where she claimed that she was trying to get pregnant to no avail, eventually resorting to IVF. I have no idea how Daniel "forced" her to undergo IVF - did he strap a bomb to her, or threaten to shoot Mami & Papi? I would sure like to see the sea hag explain how that makes sense to her diseased mind.
 
So does she sit and craft these narrative for max outrage or is this how her mind warps the world in real time?
It's how her mind warps.

The telltale sign is how much she lies about things that don't cause outrage. She recently referred to Daniel as a "major voice in video game development" which is a comical over-reach, he's a literally who. He was literally a forum janny not even ~8 years ago.
 
I do regret she never started that polyamory advice blog. The posts would have been hilarious, and doubly so in the current context.
Oh man, you know that every entry would be a passive-aggressive insight into whatever one or other of the cucks had done to annoy her. “Today, we’ll be talking about understanding your partner’s needs and the importance of not getting on your partner’s case about the housework. SOME PEOPLE have difficulty understanding this, so let me explain it for their benefit.”
 
The sea hag is putting him in a Sophie's Choice of spending time with the baby or the girlfriend, but not both.
I feel like most parents would automatically choose their kid and it wouldn't be that hard of a choice?
Only assholes like Elon Musk can afford to pull this one off, but his BPDemons are generally accomplished ladies, plus fairly beautiful to boot.
If Becky, Daniel and Jackson were pretty this situation would still be unhinged.
 

So which was it, did he baby trap you or was having a baby your driving force for a decade? Her lies are so bizarre.

And "never intended for me to parent"? You just said he hoped it'd tone you down and make you, y'know, motherly, a parent capable of parenting. And didn't she just say he was leaving her 100% responsible for the baby and wants nothing to do with her except introducing her to his new whore girlfriend?
 
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