Men of the Farms: can you prove Andrea wrong?
Yes and no.
The issue with that request/assumption is that men don't have such expectations, and ergo their life is easier/better. This is not quite the case. Yes men do not have nor are they expected to build their lives around being sexually desireable to women, that is true. That is because they must instead build their lives around being useful/successful and strong for everyone else. If you are not producing or winning as a man, you are a failure, and will be looked down upon. You may regard with contempt the way society looks down upon a woman for not being attractive, and in the same breath assent that society looking down on a man for being weak is just and correct. We all expectations about what we must do and for whom, trying to pick whose is worse, or trying to map yours onto others is at best unproductive.
You can't (or shouldn't I suppose) try to compare men and women directly because we are just different. Arguing over whether male disposablity or female fragility (or frailty if you prefer, I mean in the physical context) is a fools errand.
Because much of the time I notice users here who are just profligately angry at women in general and female users on this forum in particular
This is for a lot of reasons, but I think primarily it boils down to that being the nature of the internet space and culture as it stands right now. If you get off the internet things dont seem quite as bad. I still have yet to meet a girl with an onlyfans, nor a girl who even knows what the words "moid" or "scrote" mean either. Most men I've spoken to either have no idea who Andrew Tate is, or if they do know who he is, do not speak or think highly of him whatsoever Much of the vitriol is an internet phenomenon.
Do you even like women? If so, why?
Yes of course.
For one, they're very pretty, which I suppose should be obvious, but I want it reiterated. In fact furthermore, I find women are often
far more harsh about their appearance than they should be or need to be. Tall or short, well endowed or lack thereof, clear skin or not, most women are very attractive to most men. I wouldn't call Caroline Ellison the most attractive of women, and yet she had an entire BDSM sex ring around her. Unless you're fat (actually fat, not 10 lbs overweight), or horribly disfigured (as in house fire victim, not a minor scar or cleft lip surgery scar), you are fine and pretty as is by and large.
Their desire/ability to be caring and loving, and the energy they put in to show it is inspiring and heartning. My brother is dating a wonderful lady right now that he intends to marry, and the way she just cares for him and loves him is wonderful to see (and he is absolutely head over heels as you might imagine). Furthermore on this as well, I tend to have a self deprecating sense of humor (because believe it or not I possess imperfections like everyone else), and she actually took the time to send me a PM once and tell me that she doesn't like some of those jokes, not because she was personally offended, but because she didn't think they were true and that I was being mean to myself for making them. The fact that someone would see that, think about it, and care, was a whitepill (pardon the internet lingo if you would) moment.
Their desire to make others feel appreciated and pleased is also wonderful. I currently go help out on a farm once a week just as a hobby of mine. I get there around mid morning, and every morning, without fail, the farmers wife will offer my breakfast and a glass of milk. I of course decline, as I eat before I go there (I wake up early and eat early cause I get fairly hungry), and whenever I come in after working for a while she offers the same but fruit instead of breakfast. Her hospitality, and the things she offers to try and accommodate me are wonderful.
Ultimately womens biggest flaw and failing is that they are indeed human like the rest of us, no better and no worse. The greatest failing of any gender wars discourse is rejecting that premise.
