It continues on like this. No one ever uses their pronouns when they are not around. No matter how woke or compliant otherwise.
I've had two in my team at work. One was many years ago, a they/them male who was actually a handsome guy who was well groomed and whose only 'gender non-conformity' is the pronouns in his email signature and painted nails. Nobody ever called him 'they', however.
The current one is a lot more problematic. An MtF and very obviously so, he just
does not shut up about being trans and trans issues. This guy is anti-stealth, in that he makes his trans activism and self-identity very vocal. The rest of us have a corporate background (the company colours and name) as our Teams background; he has the trans stripes for his background. And when we moved locations recently, he encouraged everyone to update their pronouns in corporate directory.
And unfortunately, if I 'misgendered' him, people would say something to me. There'd be HR involved. It would not be good for me.
Both troons of any flavor and poly freaks absolutely infest any sort of Renaissance Faire or similarly themed event, especially if it is multi day/has overnight camping.
Years ago I went to a medieval-themed 'banquet' dinner (to see a friend play some medieval instruments) and I was
steeling myself after I read the instructions for the ceremonial entry. The men were entering the hall a specific type of way (I don't remember the details now) and the women some other type of way. But it wasn't the men entering a specific type of way. It was
those in male attire. Meaning, of course, they were aping the sex-based segregation rituals of the time but had it updated to anticipate troons and pooners.
We were also asked not to bring forks (as they weren't invented yet, apparently), and yet the medieval 'feast' had vegetarian and vegan options. The idea that a medieval peasant would
voluntarily abstain from meat on a
feasting day was so mind-bogglingly absurd an indulgence it's difficult to describe.
Yet despite the 'dress code', I don't think I saw a pooner or a tranny. All the servers were female in ye olde medieval garb.
Walked in the female restroom and the tranny coworker is in there touching up his makeup. So I walked back out.
I'm having a bad day today
This would really concern me. I would not put it beyond a troon to
report you for harassing and discriminatory behaviour, because you walked out specifically because you saw him. And depending on your employer, he could get you in trouble. I wish the best.