One of the many things that turned me against the tranny shit was seeing how much of a mental poison it is to the people involved. It’s genuinely scary. You look into these communities and they’re filled with the worst, most narcissistic, perverted, freaks imaginable, all being orbited by incredible insecure people who have permanently ruined their brain and body chemistry either for a fetish, or to fill some void in their life. It’s like radioactive waste.
As awful as they can be, now that the tide has turned and we're on the way to this being a memory, I will say
i do see these people as victims of society. Not because of the half of society won't accept them, but because of the half of society that told them this was a good idea.
I understand the empathetic desire to tell people what they want to hear, but if you truly care about somebody you'll tell them what they
need to hear. And that's what nobody did with these people.
"I understand you feel a certain way, and want to be seen a certain way, but the fact is you're trying to alter something that can't be altered. No matter how well you pass on the surface, no matter how tolerant the people you surround yourself with, no matter how much of society kisses your ass, when people find out your secret (and most will notice it immediately) they will feel differently about you. They will treat you differently even if they try not to, they won't want to date you, there are deep biological drivers telling them you're different. That feeling of being different will remain, and now you'll have given up the chance to try other methods.
It's okay to be different, to feel different, the solution is to find a way to accept that difference and live with it not against it. Transitioning is fundamentally a rejection of your difference, instead of being a male who has feminine personality traits you think you have to just be a female. You're trying to buy your way into being normal because you believe your problem has to do with how you're perceived by others, but it's really due to how you perceive yourself. You can change the latter easier than the former."
You see this in all sorts of different life struggles, happy and successful people will almost universally tell you that they their primary struggle was internal rather than external. They focused on understanding and working with their own mind, not forcing others to accept them. More and more as a society we're telling people that this is impossible. That they're at the mercy of whatever problems and self doubts they have. They don't need introspection and life, they need money, drugs, surgeries, therapists, accommodations, etc. To be robbed of that feeling of "i felt like this was impossible but i did it" is unthinkable to me.
I don't mean to make excuses for them but honestly... it really isn't there fault. People aren't born with an understanding of how the world works, they orient themselves and their worldview around how they're treated, when they're rewarded, when they're told yes, and
when they're told no. If people constantly cheered you on and gave you accommodations for doing something since the moment you turns 12 you would keep doing it. It's how celebrities end up so fucked, "cool kids" in high school get arrested development, it's how kanye ends up making a song about hitler and michael jackson ends up doing... whatever the fuck he did.
We built them a prison of acceptance, which can be just as bad for calibrating the mind as a prison of rejection is.
Kat williams in that infamous interview said something along the lines of "we're the ones that told kanye he was a genius because he could rhyme" his insanity is on us.
Found it: It's at 0:14 here
https://youtu.be/Uh0b2syYQW8?t=14
Also a great point made here:
https://youtu.be/Uh0b2syYQW8?t=103