It's not even necessarily the fault of the zoomer that they're terminally online. Even before 2020 made it acceptable, the choice between a stale outside world or an exciting online world was an obvious choice to make for my generation. Once that choice was made, however, it opened Pandora's box to a whole host of disorders with mental isolation being the most prominent. You're never going to meet another person with the same opinions, tastes, aesthetics, etc. because we all have our own tailored online experience.
I recognized how my life would be if I kept logging on instead of moving on, and I've tried to escape it. It's not easy. In university, the most common hobby for my peers was leaving class, going back to their dorm and scrolling tiktok on their bed until bedtime. The bar/club scene (and any other outdoors activity) is filled entirely with people over 35, and the zoomers who frequent them are generally not the caliber of people worth knowing.
"Mom! I'm talking to a fucking DUTCHIE!". Remember the marvel of talking to people online? Now it's practically the norm because the only natives you've got added on Discord are ex-classmates who're set to offline and/or are too busy to even reply, despite doomscrolling all fucking day, with or without kids.
I went to uni assuming it'd consume my life: Team colors, sports, clubs, parties. Nah, it was the closest thing to public school I've seen. Everyone ran straight home to their partner, kid, or existing friends. Nobody was there to cement their social network and future. 5 years at uni somehow less impactful than 3 in high school, not even 18 yet.
The only thing school had going for it was that it forced people of all creeds together. Where would you go right now and meet a jock, a bimbo, a loner, a druggie, a loser, a boring woman aching for a lord-fearing man? Church maybe? Not the local townhall that's for sure. A WoW guild? Nah, playing WoW in current day alone is a fucking niche thing to do. You tell someone you play wow and they go "Oh okay you're stuck in your teens and can't move on". But really, what's to move on to? Matchmaking battle royales?
WoW specifically was famous for being such a third place where both single mothers, bimbos and ex-cons played games. You'd meet people unlike yourself. That might actually be why I keep falling back on the fighting game community: You'll see shy autistic girls main Zangief alongside sweaty negroids and they'll be friends. Too bad the games blow.
I always use text chat, even in matchmaking games. I say ~quirky~ shit just to get people going, but even now that I've returned to TF2, that shit is taxing. You log in, immediately have to be zany and wacky and farm attention, cause how else are you gonna engage with other people? You need to put yourself out there nonstop and sad reality is that it's through forced interactions and (in case of furries, weebs and faggots) sexual innuendos. Webfishing and VRChat are great examples of this. The quirkiest, loudest mf'er gets the most e-peen.