Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

tamarlover said:
I will provide whatever she needs me to provide. If she wants me to be a stay at home dad i'd do that. if she wants me to get a full time job out of the home I'd do that too. I plan on developing myself to be able to provide all the things she needs in that capacity. I'll get a job and save up money to give her everything she needs.
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doing what?! do you know how hard it is to get a job in this economy? Even shitty jobs can be hard to come by. And if you want to be a provider for a family, you need a decent job, and you will be competing with who knows how many people for a single job slot, every.time.

You're looking at your world through rose-colored glasses. You're assuming that things will be okay, because you will do whatever she asks. That's great and all if you want to be a servant. And there are some women out there who might appreciate that kind of kink. But she clearly doesn't.

She has made it painfully clear to you that she wants NOTHING to do with you. If you love her, stop it, leave it alone. YOU are the one that is hurting her.

Let me play devil's advocate a moment: Let's say you're right. You know better for her. You can make her life better. However, if she doesn't want you or your help, you really have no place. Even if she's ruining her life, it's her free will to choose to do that

My advice to you would be therapy. PROFESSIONAL THERAPY. You are well-spoken enough that I believe you are more intelligent than a good deal of lolcows here. You could live a normal, dare I say happy life, if you were willing to admit there is something wrong with you, and tried to fix it.

Now, you might not believe me when I say something is wrong with you. But look at your life. There's no happiness in your future if you go on like this. Simply regret, melancholy, and a grim, lonely existence. Or worse, it may all end suddenly in a gruesome act of violence. It doesn't have to be that way though. I am legitimately imploring you to go against what your gut is telling you, and just for a moment entertain the thought "There is something wrong with me. I can fix it, but not without help. I need to get help"
 
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Yeah, it's generally a good idea for aspergers-ridden goofs with delusions of grandeur to take on thousands of dollars of debt in order to get a degree in "Religious Studies."
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Not my plan. I plan on getting a degree in language. That way I could get a job with high profile groups such as the UN or other groups.
 
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Galvatron said:
doing what?! do you know how hard it is to get a job in this economy? Even shitty jobs can be hard to come by. And if you want to be a provider for a family, you need a decent job, and you will be competing with who knows how many people for a single job slot, every.time.

You're looking at your world through rose-colored glasses. You're assuming that things will be okay, because you will do whatever she asks. That's great and all if you want to be a servant. And there are some women out there who might appreciate that kind of kink. But she clearly doesn't.

She has made it painfully clear to you that she wants NOTHING to do with you. If you love her, stop it, leave it alone. YOU are the one that is hurting her.

Let me play devil's advocate a moment: Let's say you're right. You know better for her. You can make her life better. However, if she doesn't want you or your help, you really have no place. Even if she's ruining her life, it's her free will to choose to do that

My advice to you would be therapy. PROFESSIONAL THERAPY. You are well-spoken enough that I believe you are more intelligent than a good deal of lolcows here. You could live a normal, dare I say happy life, if you were willing to admit there is something wrong with you, and tried to fix it.

Now, you might not believe me when I say something is wrong with you. But look at your life. There's no happiness in your future if you go on like this. Simply regret, melancholy, and a grim, lonely existence. Or worse, it may all end suddenly in a gruesome act of violence. It doesn't have to be that way though. I am legitimately imploring you to go against what your gut is telling you, and just for a moment entertain the thought "There is something wrong with me. I can fix it, but not without help. I need to get help"
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Maybe I will stop pursuing her in the way I have been doing and leave her alone, but I am most certainly going to make an offer to her one last time some day in the future, unless she's married to someone at the time. I can ask her one last time after making her an offer that I am able to follow through with. I will consider professional therapy.
 
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tamarlover said:
I will provide whatever she needs me to provide. If she wants me to be a stay at home dad i'd do that. if she wants me to get a full time job out of the home I'd do that too. I plan on developing myself to be able to provide all the things she needs in that capacity. I'll get a job and save up money to give her everything she needs.
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If she told you she doesn't want anything to do with you, and to stop harassing her, would you?
 
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tamarlover said:
Not my plan. I plan on getting a degree in language. That way I could get a job with high profile groups such as the UN or other groups.
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Do you speak any language other than english? Btw, you said that you wanted people to read this thread to know your side of the story and all, maybe you could give us a short summary of what your current daily routine looks like? I kinda get the feeling that you don't interact a lot with people outside of the internet and i'm kinda curious on what you do for fun on your free time.
 
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tamarlover said:
If she gave me one last chance and it was fair, then I would leave her alone for ever if she asks me to.
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How about you just leave her alone right now? She hates you, and you constantly stalking her will make that hate grow, you will never get another chance by doing this, never mind a "fair" chance. Learn from this and try elsewhere.
 
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tamarlover said:
Not my plan. I plan on getting a degree in language. That way I could get a job with high profile groups such as the UN or other groups.
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Can people with criminal records get jobs working for the government? Normally you have to do the opposite.

tamarlover said:
If she gave me one last chance and it was fair, then I would leave her alone for ever if she asks me to.
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Why does she have to give you another chance before she can tell you to fuck off?
 
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tamarlover said:
Maybe I will stop pursuing her in the way I have been doing and leave her alone, but I am most certainly going to make an offer to her one last time some day in the future, unless she's married to someone at the time. I can ask her one last time after making her an offer that I am able to follow through with. I will consider professional therapy.
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Why? Why not just leave it be? You know the answer is going to be no. You already blew it with this woman, and deep down you know this.

Just let her go. Fix yourself before you decide you need to fix someone else
 
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MasterDisaster said:
Can people with criminal records get jobs working for the government?
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Openly admitting to stalking someone, with a years long plan to continue to do so, is a bit of an issue as well haha.

tamarlover said:
I don't have a criminal record. It was a civil case so I was not charged with any crime.
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A restraining order, past or present, still shows up on background checks.
 
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Null said:
@tamarlover responds to everyone except me, lol. can't handle it.
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I thought I replied to some of your posts other times. Just wondering. This doesn't apply to my situation. But if you knew your friend was going on a date with someone who was planning on killing her that night and you tried to contact the authorities but they didn't take you seriously, and you tried to warn your friend but they didn't were angry you insinuated that and ended friendship because of it. Would you follow her in an attempt to prevent her from being killed? or would you let her live her life and make her choices knowing full well what's going to happen. Again this does not totally apply to my situation but aspects of it do.
 
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CatFace said:
What language are you interested in learning?
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I'd like to learn as many languages as possible. But I'd like to start with the more important ones like French, Italian, Arabic, German, Chinese. Eventually maybe Greek, Latin, Hebrew. things like that. If i could learn as many languages as possible that would be ideal.
 
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