but what does "equal in Jesus" or " one in Jesus" mean
Christ's death broke down the barriers of racial division, "For he himself is our peace, who has made us both [Jews and Gentiles] one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility".- Ephesians 2:13
If we're at the point where, "you are all equal in Jesus," doesn't mean all believers are one in the same then my goodness we're at a place where we can just discount anything we want in the Bible.
At times like this I'm reminded me of the words of an Atheist of all people, Bart Ehrman, who once commented, "You know, you can forcefully reconcile any belief you want with the Bible if you try hard enough," basically if you really want to believe something so bad you can force it into scripture no may how contrary it is. We see this a lot with the LGBT affirming Churches. If you're at a point where your Racism is so ingrained in your that I can show you Bible verses where "you are all one in Christ," and you can still say, "My race good we look after ourselves" I couldn't imagine anything changing your mind at that point, outside of God himself coming down to tell you you're wrong, which incidentally is what happened in the Bible to Peter.
Peter was so ethnocentric, so focused on his "own people" that he refused to heed Paul's warnings. It took God himself coming down and telling him to knock it off. (Acts 10-11) God had to instruct him to go eat non-Kosher food with a gentile, despite Peter's whining, Break Kosher? No way! "Surely not, Lord! Nothing impure or unclean has ever entered my mouth.’" Commune with non-Jews, no way? "You are well aware that
it is against our law for a Jew to associate with or visit a Gentile". (10:28 ) for him to realize his ethnocentrism was contrary to God's way and to go eat with the gentiles.
Remember as Paul said when it came to the difference between Jews and Gentiles, "Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household,".-Ephesians 2:19. We are not strangers, we are not foreigners, we are all Christians who should show each other the same love and respect.
Sure but looking after your nation/people/ethnic group before looking after foreigners is not hatred any more than a father looking after his children before non-family members is hatred.
1 Timothy 5:8 demonstrate this.
"Your household" is not anyone who looks similar to you, or some random man of the same race as you in Timbuktu. Your household are people who live in your house. I don't know if you're a "muh white race" White person or a "we the real jewz" Black person but I assure you, if you're a Christian, you probably have more of your beliefs in common with a typical White Person in Romania (98.7% Christian) or a Black Person in Zambia (95.5% Christian) than you would with a typical White person in the Netherlands (30% Christian) or a Black Person in Burkina-Faso (26.3% Christian).
Matthew 15:21-28 commands looking after your people first before foreigners and I'm not aware of any verses commanding against this and early Christian scholars had this understanding.
If you think Jesus, who had a Canaanite as a disciple btw (Mark 3:18, Matthew 10:4), that not only would he exclude other ethnicity from eating with him but he even commands you to do so I believe you're mistaken. The women asked Jesus if she could eat with him and maybe do something about her demon possessed kid. When he didn't respond they prodded him a bit, she said she'd literally eat crumbs off his table.
He did not say, "Exactly, if you're patient even your people can eat with me".
Or, "That's good, back of the table, lady!"
He said, "Ah yes, great faith!" Not only could she eat with him he even fulfilled her request to take care of her kid.
I ask you to remember the women at the well from John 4. She was a Samaritan and, as the Gospel of John tells us, "Jews do not associate with Samaritans".- John 4:9
Yes who did Jesus first reveal his messiniacship to? Was it another Jew? One of "his people". No he went to another ethnicity, with whom race relations were so poor they did not associate, to reveal his status as messiah to her first.
I'm sure a lot of people on this thread will tell you I am an "Agree to Disagree" sort of fellow. I will go back and forth a few times before saying, "Hey we're making no headway, let's agree to disagree". However I can't do that here, for yoursoul is on the line of this. The Bible tells us you can't hate your brother while still loving God (1st John 4:20). Yes, sending those "other people" to stay in seperate neighborhoods, or attend seperate schools, or seperate waterfountains is hatred. No people who look vaguely similar to you are not your "family". I implore you, if you truely believe the Bible is the word of God, and that Jesus died for your sins, and aren't just trying to find a Religion that accepts your racism please turn away from the racial prejudge and back towards love for your fellow Christian (I would say for everyone but I think just getting you to treat all Christians the same regardless of race would be a good start).