Plagued Nice Guys

[DrJonesHat]

@entropyseekswork Was he asking you for a massage, or wanting you to give him one? I'm confused on that point.

 

[RI 360]

@entropyseekswork Was he asking you for a massage, or wanting you to give him one? I'm confused on that point.

If I'm remembering correctly, he wanted to exchange them, which was I thought was inappropriate and gross.

 

[DrJonesHat]

If I'm remembering correctly, he wanted to exchange them, which was I thought was inappropriate and gross.

Good move refusing. He obviously didn't respect boundaries since he kept messaging you after you told him to stop.

 

[RI 360]

Good move refusing. He obviously didn't respect boundaries since he kept messaging you after you told him to stop.

No, he never got the opportunity too but he kept insisting I agreed to, he was already drinking at the bar way before I got there so maybe he misheard or misunderstood me bc he was drunk? I found him physically repulsive and laughed in his face when he said it. I'm more inclined to believe he was just being a manipulative sleaze in part because of what he also did for "work". I had had enough of him by my second drink and bounced, during which he called me "defiant" (lol get real nigger, I'm not your subordinate), and then ran into the street to call after me/try to get me to come back as I walked away.

Anyway, I went back the next day to discuss what happened with the bartender who is a friend of mine and kind of knew the dude from him coming in time to time. It turned out the guy was in the midst of a really nasty divorce, I could see why lol.

ETA: the unkempt comment by him at the end was about the fact I told him I was already in sleep wear and wasn't going to change out of them to go out, which he responded at the very beginning with "You think I care".

 

[DrJonesHat]

I had had enough of him by my second drink and bounced, during which he called me "defiant"

Charming fellow! You are absolutely insane for rejecting such a fine specimen of masculinity.

 

[RI 360]

Charming fellow! You are absolutely insane for rejecting such a fine specimen of masculinity.

Here's from prior to what I posted, where he says he understands I am not into him

Spoiler: bonus texts

 

[Cosmos]

@Cosmos Are you looking for a real winner to date? Because someone who uses this many emojis in communication is a real winner.

Obnoxious emoji spam makes me so wet tbh

Anyway, I've got a few more things to share:

"*lightheaded from all the blood rushing to my penis*"

Females, more like REEEEEEEEEEmales, amirite??

Seriously, Nice Guys and incels referring to women as "females" is such a pet peeve of mine. The people on the Reddit thread about this post had a good discussion on why it's creepy:

It wouldn't be as bad if Nice Guys also referred to men as "males," but they don't. You don't hear them say things like "males like beer, bacon and fixing things," "that male is crazy," "you have to treat your male with respect," "males are all the same," "the thing about males is...", etc. So yeah, feeeeeeeeemales comes across as sexist and dehumanizing.

(Here's the Reddit thread this was originally posted in; OP commented with more information)

Oh God, roleplaying in texts is so weird. I'm sure he thinks he's being cute, but it actually comes across as gross and annoying.

:islamic::islamic::islamic::islamic::islamic::islamic::islamic::islamic::islamic::islamic:

By the way, he told her to burn in hell.

If I could only pick one picture that explains to people what a Nice Guy is, I'd choose this one.

 

[Lorento]

Why does every nice guy always have to include something about their penis? I don't get it. You save that for when you get the girl, not AS the attraction.

 

[Pointless Pedant]

Why does every nice guy always have to include something about their penis? I don't get it. You save that for when you get the girl, not AS the attraction.

:autism:

 

[UnnecessaryEvil]

Buddy....enough..

Ill edit in any more installments from this sad fuck. Don't want to clog up the thread.


EDIT: just 2 hours later he's back

 

[Alec Benson Leary]

So, my friend did not in fact block this idiot despite him being thirsty as hell (And him telling her to do so). She had a feeling that he would continue to produce some laughter. He did not disappoint.

Most women who encounter a Nice Guy just try to ignore and get away, get on with their life.

How goddamned low do you have to go for the woman to say "you know what? Exiting the situation isn't satisfactory. Fuck it, I'm going full troll."

 

[Butta Face Lopez]

Ha, that one is perfect.

"Oh thanks for the compliment about our shared interest. Fuck off, by the way. Sorry. Oh fuck off."

 

[nyess]

weak men like these are only fit for death

that and being office slaves. If they cared about having a career

 

[Yellow Yam Scam]

Most women who encounter a Nice Guy just try to ignore and get away, get on with their life.

How goddamned low do you have to go for the woman to say "you know what? Exiting the situation isn't satisfactory. Fuck it, I'm going full troll."

How boring does the broad have to be to continue wasting her time exchanging texts?

Just ghosts these dweebs and get on with your life.

 

[A-tistic]

[absolute exceptionalism]

Wow I sure hope that 15 year-old will start medicating so that he can one day look back at this and laugh cringe...

And the real kicker? This man actually has a child.

Fuck this gay earth.

 

[Overcast]

What fascinates me the most is that there's a Sub-Reddit for pregnant women.

 

[escapegoat]

Man, Craigslist Guy is going to go shoot up a Curves for Women or something.

 

[Dandelo]

What fascinates me the most is that there's a Sub-Reddit for pregnant women.

that has to be trolling there's no way you someone can be this much desperate

 

[escapegoat]

That account. https://www.reddit.com/u/failednormie

 

[Bork Laser]

How boring does the broad have to be to continue wasting her time exchanging texts?

Just ghosts these dweebs and get on with your life.

Nigga what the fuck do you think we do here?