Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

tamarlover said:
Notakitty, its pretty stupid to disagree with facts. I worked very hard last year for two months on a farm. Those are the facts.
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You worked an average week shift that uneducated "inferiors" do for pretty much all year and bitched out after 60 days. Your idea of setting up a farming kibbutz is laughable if you couldn't even tough that out on easier soil with more resources available.

Oh wait, you're just gonna foist the labor off on others if you actually fucking bother to try rather than brag about it. I forgot.
 
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a_name_but_backwards said:
That's not what I'm talking about though. There are places that you show up to in the morning and they send you out to a job, you get paid daily. Or just advertise online or on a community board offering to be a work hand.

If you gave up after a few monthes on a farm why do you think you can run one? Your goals are so lofty and unrealistic.

Edit: 40 hours a week is a normal work week. You realize that right? Any normal person is capable of that.
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I didn't give up after a few months. The original plan was to go for one month to see how I like it. I told them I wanted to try two months instead. After two months, I came back home as was always the plan. Then the plan was for me to return in the spring of 2017. But I was banned indefinitely due to them not approving of my actions involving Tamar.

40 hours of hard labor for someone who hasn't done physical activity much is quite different than sitting at a desk job for 40 hours. I've done a deskjob for 10 months before. It was not physically exhausting. It was mentally exhausting. 40 hours of mental exhausting by physically it was easy. 40 hours of PHYSICAL exhaustion a week was difficult especially for someone who went from doing no physical activity at all to working strenuously 40 hours a week. Some days i was so exhausted i could hardly move after.
 
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tamarlover said:
Notakitty, its pretty stupid to disagree with facts. I worked very hard last year for two months on a farm. Those are the facts.
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tamarlover said:
40 hours of PHYSICAL exhaustion a week was difficult especially for someone who went from doing no physical activity at all to working strenuously 40 hours a week. Some days i was so exhausted i could hardly move after.
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That's called a solid day of work. If you give up because you are sore it seems like an excuse. The idea of being sore after work is good, that's your body getting stronger. You can't keep coming up with excuses constantly.
 
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tamarlover said:
40 hours of hard labor for someone who hasn't done physical activity much is quite different than sitting at a desk job for 40 hours. I've done a deskjob for 10 months before. It was not physically exhausting. It was mentally exhausting. 40 hours of mental exhausting by physically it was easy. 40 hours of PHYSICAL exhaustion a week was difficult especially for someone who went from doing no physical activity at all to working strenuously 40 hours a week. Some days i was so exhausted i could hardly move after.
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Then you're fuckin' lazy and should apply yourself harder.
 
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Adamska said:
And yet you want to set up a farming kibbutz in a shitty desert when that kicked your ass. Round of applause there, along with this dipshit consistently popping in for over a day straight in the feeble attempt to defend himself and lash back.
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No, the guy i worked for was a workaholic. He has a way of life in which there is ALWAYS something to do. If there's not, he'll invent a project. If i had my own farm, i would only do the projects that i need. I wouldn't go making up projects if all the work was done. This guy liked to do work constantly so for him work is NEVER done. That's not how i'll do it. For me, i'll have very clear projects which when finished THATS IT. no more work until the next project that is needed. he was always making up work to do everywhere.

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Then you're fuckin' lazy and should apply yourself harder.
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You don't know the type of labor i did idiot.
 
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a_name_but_backwards said:
That's called a solid day of work. If you give up because you are sore it seems like an excuse. The idea of being sore after work is good, that's your body getting stronger. You can't keep coming up with excuses constantly.
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I told you I didn't give up. learn how to read. I fulfilled the original verbal contract of two months. That was always the plan. It was always the plan that I stay there with him for two months ONLY and then come back the following year in the Spring. he was going to help me build a cabin on his land that would be my home to live in. I was going to live there several years. That was the plan and I fully intended on doing that. Then I asked him if me and my friend who was driving me down to Virginia to the courthouse if we could stay at his house for one night. He said yes, but after I had a facebook discussion that made him upset with me, he rescinded his offer of hospitality and said I am not allowed to return to his land indefinitely due to his disagreement with me about me going to court to defend myself against his approval.
 
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tamarlover said:
You don't know the type of labor i did idiot.
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You know, not only are you not the only person who has ever had to do physical labour, but most people have much more work experience than you do at your age.

I don't think you're going to get a lot of sympathy from going on about how exhausting and difficult it was to do unskilled labour for two months, dude.
 
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Cato said:
You know, not only are you not the only person who has ever had to do physical labour, but most people have much more work experience than you do at your age.

I don't think you're going to get a lot of sympathy from going on about how exhausting and difficult it was to do unskilled labour for two months, dude.
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I never asked for sympathy nor am I looking for it. You fools are trying to suggest that I couldn't handle physical labor which is completely contrary to the truth. It doesn't reflect reality. I am not looking for sympathy. I am looking for you guys to stop being assholes and stop saying false things about me based on mere presumption. Its valid to suggest "maybe" something is so or even probable/likely, but unless you have proof, simply assuming something negative about me without proof is wrong and immoral. So for example, it was wrong and immoral to suggest that I quit because I couldn't handle physical labor. There was no evidence that indicated that and it was just assumed of me. When the fact was in reality the exact opposite. I was banned. I didn't quit.
 
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tamarlover said:
um no. I wouldn't have stalked her if i didn't care for her. If i had cared only for myself I would have LONG ago cut her off from my life.

Fuck off forever except she wants my money. So looks like i'm staying.
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She's a man-killer. I was trying to help the guys as well as to help her from making horrible mistakes. Its one thing also if it only affects her but it also affects her children. I care for everyone involved. I broke up her engagement because I legitimately thought she was trying to take advantage of him for money and then crush his soul. I couldn't let her do it again.
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I notice that you've answered (most) of the other posters, but have ignored all my questions regarding Tamar using people. You've again, said that she just wants your money, and has a previous history of taking advantage of people for money. You also say that it's bad for you to try and get in touch with her, and would be better off if she was gone from your life.

So, again, what makes you think that she is not also using you? She would only be with you if you had money, and in your ideal relationship, she has all of the control and tells you exactly what to do. Isn't that the very definition of using someone? In your ideal situation, she isn't with you because she loves you, she's with you because you have a paycheck. And based on her previous history, it seems like she'd only stay with you while you had money. Given the type of job you'd be working, she would bleed your wallet pretty quickly and have to move on to someone else to use. But she'd probably still stay in contact with you just to string you along in case she needed to use you again.

What I find pretty entertaining in this whole crazy mess is you could have been with her before if you weren't so lazy and picked up a steady job a few years ago. It's also entertaining that you keep implying you would do anything to be with her, except things that go against your general lazy lifestyle, like working a minimum wage job.
 
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tamarlover said:
So for example, it was wrong and immoral to suggest that I quit because I couldn't handle physical labor. There was no evidence that indicated that and it was just assumed of me. When the fact was in reality the exact opposite. I was banned. I didn't quit.
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tamarlover said:
When the fact was in reality the exact opposite. I was banned. I didn't quit.
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...Can I ask why you're so proud of this?
 

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tamarlover said:
No, the guy i worked for was a workaholic. He has a way of life in which there is ALWAYS something to do. If there's not, he'll invent a project. If i had my own farm, i would only do the projects that i need. I wouldn't go making up projects if all the work was done. This guy liked to do work constantly so for him work is NEVER done. That's not how i'll do it. For me, i'll have very clear projects which when finished THATS IT. no more work until the next project that is needed. he was always making up work to do everywhere.
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This really shows both how lazy you are and how out of touch with reality you are. Let's explain:

The laziness is evident because you have not made any major effort into doing anything except stalking some dumb ho online even after she said to fuck off since she friendzoned you. You only talk about your dreams because that alone sustains you and tricks your mind into thinking you're doing work. You aren't, but that doesn't matter to you.

Then let's get into the delusion; farms always have projects that need to go on. Whether it be maintaining previous infrastructure (which ho boy you will need a lot of to move this boulder Sisyphus), keeping the finances steady due to buying seed, weeding and depesting crops and/or animals, selling that shit, and let's not forget proselytizing and managing the corpus of your kibbutz as a whole, you are never not going to work. Your friend wasn't being a workaholic; he actually has to keep things up given how much shit needs to be done all at once.

That you can't get that is a clear sign of how little effort and thought you put into this 'dream'. Your parents really should've never told you that success comes to those who wait.
 
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