Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

[Rumpled Foreskin]

Wrong. we told her what is happening. i will get more into the extent of the stalking but i touched upon it briefly. we didn't have enough time this week.
we told her about the legal issues
i didn't abuse any child.
i told her Melinda said there is a warrant for my arrest

"we"?

 

[Cato]

"Stalkers are by definition abusers" not true. some stalkers are, yes. not all though

You know your stalking is fucked up and causes psychological harm to your victim. You've even admitted as such. Deep down you know you are an abusive and selfish person (and I suspect you have occasional flashes of conscious awareness of it) even though you push those thoughts aside because it's fundamental to your identity that you consider yourself moral and righteous in spite of all evidence to the contrary.

 

[Jaded Optimist]

@tamarlover I have a couple questions,

1) if there was a drug that would make you stop stalking Tamar would you take it? What about a drug that made you forget her completely (ala "sunshine of a spotless mind")

2) what's your diet like? Any self imposed restrictions? I'm guessing you don't drink.

"we"?

He said his father was there.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Stalking is abuse. No ifs. No buts. No maybes.

You only make assertions but offer no proof. Share how all stalking is abuse.

 

[Cato]

"we"?

His father and him.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

"we"?

my dad was there with me. he said some things about me from what he knows in addition to what i said

 

[Rumpled Foreskin]

my dad was there with me. he said some things about me from what he knows in addition to what i said

so your dad doesn't know shit. good to know you two are lying to this person.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

You know your stalking is fucked up and causes psychological harm to your victim. You've even admitted as such. Deep down you know you are an abusive and selfish person (and I suspect you have occasional flashes of conscious awareness of it) even though you push those thoughts aside because it's fundamental to your identity that you consider yourself moral and righteous in spite of all evidence to the contrary.

She causes me psychological harm. So now we are even.

 

[Cato]

She causes me psychological harm. So now we are even.

Okay. So you don't dispute that you cause her psychological harm? That's a start.

Abuse can go both ways (and it does seem that she used you in some ways), but that doesn't make it not abuse.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

so your dad doesn't know shit. good to know you two are lying to this person.

in actuality you don't know shit, dickhugger

 

[DoctorJimmyRay]

So now we are even.

That's so very Jewish.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Okay. So you don't dispute that you cause her psychological harm? That's a start.

Abuse can go both ways (and it does seem that she used you in some ways), but that doesn't make it not abuse.

I acknowledge that my actions have caused her emotional damage. Though I think she greatly exaggerates the extent of the damages

That's so very Jewish.

Is it though? rather, its human.

@tamarlover I have a couple questions,

1) if there was a drug that would make you stop stalking Tamar would you take it? What about a drug that made you forget her completely (ala "sunshine of a spotless mind")

2) what's your diet like? Any self imposed restrictions? I'm guessing you don't drink.


He said his father was there.

No drugs for me, but if I didn't think it was wrong to take drugs, I might take a drug to get over her in a moment of weakness that i just get tired of her.

My diet is heavily dairy based. I want to cut back on dairy and start incorporating more fruits and veggies into it. and more meat.

I usually eat all organic food if at all possible.

 

[repentance]

You only make assertions but offer no proof. Share how all stalking is abuse.

Stalking is literally listed as a type of abuse by every domestic violence organisation internationally and is classified as abuse by the law. I'd say your assertion that it isn't abuse the the extraordinary claim requiring extraordinary evidence. Psychology, psychiatry, and the law disagree with you.

Why do you think laws exist to punish stalkers if stalking isn't abusive behaviour?

The biggest clue that your "therapist" may lack the qualifications to help you is that you recount the session as having focused on Tamar's behaviour. The only person whose behaviour you can address is your own and that's what should be the focus of your sessions. Tamar isn't the patient, and your therapist's uninformed opinions of someone she has not personally assessed are irrelevant.

But hey, if you've found yourself a therapist who will endorse your world view then have at it. Just expect to be incarcerated sooner rather than later.

 

[DoctorJimmyRay]

You only make assertions but offer no proof. Share how all stalking is abuse.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9068768

There are literally hundreds more links like that. I found that one in less than 5 seconds of searching. It's both figuratively and literally common knowledge. You might as well of asked him to prove that the sky is blue.

Is it though? rather, its human.

I suppose. Though classically, it's the Jewish religion that really emphasizes the whole ledger balancing thing (at least in the West).

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Virginia law: https://victimsofcrime.org/our-prog...laws/criminal-stalking-laws-by-state/virginia


"A. Any person, except a law-enforcement officer, as defined in § 9.1-101, and acting in the performance of his official duties, and a registered private investigator, as defined in § 9.1-138, who is regulated in accordance with § 9.1-139 and acting in the course of his legitimate business, who on more than one occasion engages in conduct directed at another person with the intent to place, or when he knows or reasonably should know that the conduct places that other person in reasonable fear of death, criminal sexual assault, or bodily injury to that other person or to that other person's family or household member is guilty of a Class 1 misdemeanor."

In other words, if a law-enforcement officer acting in the performance of his official duties or a registered private investigator acting in the course of his legitimate business on more than one occasion engages in conduct directed at another person with the intent to place or when he knows or reasonably should know that the conduct places that other person in reasonable fear of death, criminal sexual assault, or bodily injury to that other person or their family or household member is guilty of a class 1 misdemeanor.

Ah yes the law so good. Allowing law-enforcement officers and private investigators to stalk people and its considered acceptable. Also its considered acceptable to stalk the enemy when you are in a war against them. And the secret intelligence service stalk all the time. And humans stalk animals all the time. etc

So stalking is not always wrong. stalking which is done for evil reasons or in evil ways is wrong.

 

[Rumpled Foreskin]

in actuality you don't know shit, dickhugger

Good to know you're homophobic despite displaying bisexuality. Are you literally every single textbook case of a serial killer rolled into one?

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Good to know you're homophobic despite displaying bisexuality. Are you literally every single textbook case of a serial killer rolled into one?

I was alluding to your stupid username foreskin. which literally hugs dicks.

i messed up in what i said for the write up. i meant to say is not guilty of a misdemeanor.

 

[Rumpled Foreskin]

I was alluding to your stupid username foreskin. which literally hugs dicks.

Everything you say is a joke or an allusion is lost on everyone else here. Do you know why? Because the horrifying shit you have already said in this thread reinforces the fact that you aren't joking. You are literally being the meme "LOL I WAS JOKING"

 

[repentance]

i messed up in what i said for the write up. i meant to say is not guilty of a misdemeanor.

It doesn't matter. You're going to rules lawyer your way into jail and we're all going to laugh when it happens just like we're going to laugh when the shit hits the fan between Tamar and her current husband. You're all too stupid to live and actually deserve to be stuck in a desert compound with one another away from the rest of society.

 

[💗Freddie Freaker💗]

You only make assertions but offer no proof. Share how all stalking is abuse.

If you make the person fear for their safety and keep on going when they tell you to stop, it's abuse. I guess it would be possible to stalk someone without scaring them or putting them in harm's way (like if you gathered information on someone without telling them about it or doing anything with it) but let's face it, that almost never happens and you've definitely made Tamar feel unsafe. Stalking is not a good thing.

The biggest clue that your "therapist" may lack the qualifications to help you is that you recount the session as having focused on Tamar's behaviour. The only person whose behaviour you can address is your own and that's what should be the focus of your sessions. Tamar isn't the patient, and your therapist's uninformed opinions of someone she has not personally assessed are irrelevant.

But hey, if you've found yourself a therapist who will endorse your world view then have at it. Just expect to be incarcerated sooner rather than later.

You'd be surprised at how lousy some licensed mental health professionals are at their jobs. Therapists often listen to whatever the patient has to say instead of focusing on the problem. I've seen a few myself and some are a lot more clueless than they should be.

She causes me psychological harm. So now we are even.

No, you're causing yourself psychological harm by feeding your obsession. Tamar isn't responsible for your feelings.