Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

It does.

This probably won't happen in the way you're hoping it will. Learning to bullshit is a valuable skill, and it's also required on some level for social survival. If it isn't LinkedIn, it'll be something else. You're going to have to compromise eventually, so waiting is just delaying the inevitable. You can always remain a free thinker on the inside, while doing what's necessary to ensure a future for yourself that doesn't involve unnecessary hardship.

you can also go the Kaczynski route

 

[Narwhal]

Hello gurls, I may have gone mad and decided to try one of them dating apps. I've never used them, I'm in a slump and for the first time in my life I miss having a relationship. Even though I've made some changes in my real life, I haven't met any man of interest, so apps it is.

I'm looking for a long-lasting relationship, I don't care about fucking about, I want a man to share my life with, hopefully for many, many, years to come. What I'm kind of worried about is how to weed out daft cunts, especially the sort of leftie, Pro-pal types without coming across as a politisperg and scare off "normal" people. I have my opinions, I tolerate others' opinions, politics isn't even in the top 3 of my favourite topics to talk about, however I do draw the line when it comes to commies and brown-people lovers. What do I do, do I say it clearly in my bio? Do I wait for it to come up naturally?

Also on another totally different note I am the opposite of a photogenic person, I hate taking selfies and dislike having my photo taken in general. How do I take decent pictures of myself?! Pls halp.

Any other piece of advice is also very much appreciated!

 

[UvaUvamVivendoVariaFit]

This is just a small argument, not something which we broke each other's hearts over with foul language, accusations and such. It's just a slice of something which happens regularly. And yes, in my heart of hearts, I know she is right, it is a swamp you have to wade into if you want to be successful. I'm just too much of a puritan when it comes to ethics, behaviours and such, no compromise when it comes to "corruption". Maybe it has something to do with being young.

This sounds like a big part of the ongoing friction. Your mom is speaking as the voice of experience, and you're coming at it with the arrogance of youth holding 'principles' that I'm sure feel very clear and righteous in theory but they haven't been tried and tested enough by reality yet to make you reconsider how true they are in practice. I had a lot of those same kinds of arguments with my mom while the ink was still drying on my diploma, and in retrospect she was a lot more right than I was every time. Because she'd actually been there when I'd only read about it.

Reaching for some humility and respecting that her stance isn't stemming from being inferior to you in some way (morally, intellectually, etc) and her points should be considered with respect for that experience would go a long way, and also would probably be handy when extended to broader interactions with people. And that would likely help with your initial issue of having a hard time having lengthy conversations with people: when you're genuinely curious about what they have to say, want to get their perspectives on things, it flows much easier.

 

[Two Frogs]

> I told her that shes displaying bootlicking sheep behaviour (My bad, I kinda regret this in hindsight)
> She told me that Im acting stupid and revel in fighting the norm (kinda do) without gain
> Screaming match over whos right.
> Walk away and make up couple hours later.

Only feel kinda bad for insulting your mother to her face, huh? You have autism badly.

 

[Polock]

how to weed out daft cunts, especially the sort of leftie, Pro-pal types without coming across as a politisperg and scare off "normal" people

Gonna moidsplain just because I think this is better answered by the people youre trying to attract lol

Just describe your politics as mildly conservative - even if that isnt super accurate, in my experience the vast majority of women on dating websites are either openly far left extremist liberal types, general liberal types, or apolitical. If you are otherwise pretty normal sounding, but admit you're conservative you've already set yourself apart from the pack.

However if I ever came across a profile that openly said TOTAL INDIAN DEPORTATION, SNEED EM ALL I would instantly hit them up lol

How do I take decent pictures of myself?!

I couldn't tell you, however lemme give you some stuff I pay attention to

• Angle fraud
• ONLY face pictures
• Overuse of face filters
• Obviously old pictures
• Photos where the woman is in the exact same pose and location, but with different outfits (usually the bathroom)
• More than 1 car selfie
• Profiles where every picture is from a vacation/tourist spot

Too many of these and my lizard brain starts noooticing

 

[31 Black]

Hello gurls, I may have gone mad and decided to try one of them dating apps. I've never used them, I'm in a slump and for the first time in my life I miss having a relationship. Even though I've made some changes in my real life, I haven't met any man of interest, so apps it is.

I'm looking for a long-lasting relationship, I don't care about fucking about, I want a man to share my life with, hopefully for many, many, years to come. What I'm kind of worried about is how to weed out daft cunts, especially the sort of leftie, Pro-pal types without coming across as a politisperg and scare off "normal" people. I have my opinions, I tolerate others' opinions, politics isn't even in the top 3 of my favourite topics to talk about, however I do draw the line when it comes to commies and brown-people lovers. What do I do, do I say it clearly in my bio? Do I wait for it to come up naturally?

Also on another totally different note I am the opposite of a photogenic person, I hate taking selfies and dislike having my photo taken in general. How do I take decent pictures of myself?! Pls halp.

Any other piece of advice is also very much appreciated!

But seriously, another moid offering his two cents. @Polock is 100% correct. The important thing is to be authentic. Try to get pictures with friends, or take a selfie during an activity you enjoy.

I've noticed something frustrating about dating apps: they will intentionally show you people who are your opposite to entice you to stay on the app longer and/or to spend money to filter.

But to weed out daft cunts, you'll need to do basic communication with them, starting with messages. One word replies with no follow up suggests one party isn't really interested or invested in the other; if you receive mostly those, drop him and move on. If you go on a first date and he's absent or self centered, then you know he's a daft cunt and not worth your time.
Another weeding method, interestingly enough, is posting your political affiliation. Not like "Swipe the direction you voted" because those people are the cuntiest of cunts, but just in the allocated spot in your profile. Unhinged lefties will avoid you and save you a ton of headaches and heartbreaks, and any reasonable person will shrug and say, "Meh, at least she likes [thing] I like" and then swipe right.

It's tough out there. I've taken a break from the apps for a few months because I'm frustrated with them, and meeting people IRL hasn't been the best experience either. But at least it's doing something instead of wallowing in your own misery.

You'll find someone.

 

[Spooky all year]

I've noticed something frustrating about dating apps: they will intentionally show you people who are your opposite to entice you to stay on the app longer and/or to spend money to filter.

Have you tried sites as well? Or just apps? Because I'm pretty sure the algorithm shit is the same whether or not you're an Amerifag or a Eurofag. But I am kind of curious between the differences on websites vs. apps.

Try to get pictures with friends, or take a selfie during an activity you enjoy.

Well shit. This would require the femoid in person to actually *remember* taking pictures while out doing fun shit. If Narwhal is anything like myself in that regard, I totally forget to take any pictures while out because I prefer being behind a camera rather than in front of it.

 

[31 Black]

Have you tried sites as well? Or just apps? Because I'm pretty sure the algorithm shit is the same whether or not you're an Amerifag or a Eurofag. But I am kind of curious between the differences on websites vs. apps.

I paid for eHarmony a couple times. The first time yielded no results, but the second time was successful...but she was over 2 hours away, and while we clicked well, it lasted only 4 months.

Well shit. This would require the femoid in person to actually *remember* taking pictures while out doing fun shit. If Narwhal is anything like myself in that regard, I totally forget to take any pictures while out because I prefer being behind a camera rather than in front of it.

True! How dare we enjoy the moment instead of being social media brained! I've asked friends and family to take pictures of me during activities before, and sometimes they just had pictures available to send.

 

[Otterly]

How do I take decent pictures of myself?! Pls halp.

I have no idea. I tried to take a couple of selfies recently and just look retarded and self conscious. Get friends to take loads when you’re doing something fun and pick a good one?
Good luck with it. Online dating sounds horrendous but there must be some decent people out there, you’ve just got to send up the bat signal in a way that works. hope it works for you.

 

[Chromeo]

however I do draw the line when it comes to commies and brown-people lovers

I hate taking selfies and dislike having my photo taken

Kill two birds with one stone: Make your profile picture a pic of you in a KKK hood. Weeds out the browns AND you don't have to show your face, everybody wins!

 

[31 Black]

How do I take decent pictures of myself?! Pls halp.

I just remembered something I did to help get a good picture of a friend for his dating profile because his forced picture smiles are, uh, intense. I sat across from him at lunch, took my camera out, and asked him to tell me his favorite joke. We tend to smile when we tell jokes because they're fun, and I got some great pictures of him.

Ask a friend or relative to do the same for you. If jokes aren't your thing, tell a story or describe something you're passionate about instead.

 

[Gregis]

@funwithshemales69 don't listen to these hoes they're trying to longhouse you, next time a recruiter asks you for your linked in, refer them to your kiwi farms account instead

 

[crazedaze]

I have my opinions, I tolerate others' opinions, politics isn't even in the top 3 of my favourite topics to talk about, however I do draw the line when it comes to commies and brown-people lovers. What do I do, do I say it clearly in my bio? Do I wait for it to come up naturally?

Yes. You watch and you listen. You don't lay your cards on the table. As the sexual selector your job is to watch and listen and judge. You tell them what you want to hear, they will say it. A leftie comes across your "I'm conservative no lefty scum", he will suddenly become a "centrist who doesn't care much about politics lol".

Just describe your politics as mildly conservative

Another weeding method, interestingly enough, is posting your political affiliation.

Gonna moidsplain just because I think this is better answered by the people youre trying to attract lol

No. See, moids don't understand the female role and should really understand their place

 

[Narwhal]

Yes. You watch and you listen. You don't lay your cards on the table. As the sexual selector your job is to watch and listen and judge. You tell them what you want to hear, they will say it. A lefties comes across your "I'm conservative now lefty scum", he will suddenly become a "centrist who doesn't care much about politics lol

I guess you're right on one hand but on the other have you ever said to a leftie's face that you are not pro-Palestine? Guaranteed they would react better if you told them you've raped their whole family. Not being pro-Pal is like being Enola Gay incarnate.

I think I'll list myself as a moderate and if I come across a leftie I'll be completely honest. I don't really want to waste more time than I have, to be honest.

 

[sperginity]

I do draw the line when it comes to commies and brown-people lovers. What do I do, do I say it clearly in my bio?

The worst ones will say anything if they think it will lead to sex. There are moids in the pooners of grindr thread who defend saying "oh yeah, I'm super gay" to get pussy from mentally ill women, many shit lib males would have no qualms about pretending to be racist. Confusingly, a lot of the ones who are contrarian have read PUA nonsense about how disagreeing reflexively is the way to get laid, or trad nonsense about how treating women as subordinates is the way to get laid, so being disagreed with isn't even a good test of how much integrity a potential suitor has. Just know that men are universally clumsy in their attempts to manipulate, it is nothing like dealing with the social sophistication of a female-female friendship, so if you don't put out for long enough & pay enough attention you will absolutely catch him in a lie.

using a dating app seems to add a social/sexual labyrinth to navigate on top of the difficulty dating imposes anyway. Go DO something that aligns with your values and find moids who also do that, get to know them in a normal context and select the best one to try to date. There are always excess moids to meet IRL and they can't lie about nearly as much shit without a screen in the way. You also don't have to worry about how to take pictures because each person will know what the other actually looks like. Personally, If I had to find a new spouse that shared my politics, I would get involved with church. Right now there is a religious revival where young men outnumber women, it is as close to ideal as you're going to find I think.

 

[Narwhal]

Personally, If I had to find a new spouse that shared my politics, I would get involved with church. Right now there is a religious revival where young men outnumber women, it is as close to ideal as you're going to find I think.

Ah, see, I'm not a spiritual nor religious person in any shape whatsoever so it's a no no for me. I do want to get into a new sport that's not particularly female-dominated, however because of current circumstances I have to wait at least until the end of the year.

I also plan on putting out long enough, I really don't care about sleeping around, been there done that. It was fun while it lasted but now I want something serious and lasting.

Appreciate all your opinions gurls and moids, thank you very much!

 

[crazedaze]

I guess you're right on one hand but on the other have you ever said to a leftie's face that you are not pro-Palestine? Guaranteed they would react better if you told them you've raped their whole family. Not being pro-Pal is like being Enola Gay incarnate.

I think I'll list myself as a moderate and if I come across a leftie I'll be completely honest. I don't really want to waste more time than I have, to be honest.

Why would you wait around to see how they react? You just judge. If they say something you don't like, you know its over and you exit ASAP without a word. No need to explain. He's not your boyfriend until you've vetted him. Start with innocent questions and judge, you can reveal yourself later.

 

[Chimplord1997]

When I talk to women I think are cute I either tend to vacillate between staying really quiet to seem like I'm not obsessed OR I get too excited and talk too much
Which is preferable, which one will make me seem less like a freak to women

 

[Waffle Iron]

Update on John: I "broke up" with him. I can't even really call it that because he wouldn't commit, so I don't know what to really call it, but that's what it is. I learned from a mutual friend just a few hours ago that an ex-fuckbuddy of John's has been crashing at John's place regularly (note: the fuckbuddy is a femboy who only ever wants to fuck John when he might be in a relationship, and has SO much drama and baggage I can't relay it all here,) so it lit a fire under my ass to message John about everything. I told him straight-up that I don't feel like he prioritizes me, that my feelings are hurt, and I wanted to know if I should expect us to ever be made official or if I'm being strung along.
John wrote back with sadboi poetic "woe is me" bojack horseman type shit about how I'm too good for him, he doesn't know what he wants and may never know, he fails everyone and cares about me too much to hurt me, bla bla bla. I was so...disgusted? with that cowardly non-answer, even if somehow after all this he comes back and says "let's be official," I can't imagine dating him now.
He won't even take accountability for his own actions. Even if him and the fuckbuddy aren't doing it, that's like a recovering alcoholic keeping a 6-pack in the garage. You know he's going to relapse and there's NO good excuse for it! I'm so embarrassed and disappointed, and no amount of flowery "you're too good for meeeee" is going to make me ignore that super glaringly obvious red flag. He chose to not choose, basically, and I just can't live with that.
So I guess now what I do is define what the bar is for me, somewhere much higher up than hell, and when I stop feeling like I want to crawl in a hole and die, I get back in the saddle and look for a non-piece-of-shit in real life somewhere. Pardon me while I go boohoo into my pillow.

Why the hell is he screwing around with a guy when he has a woman longing to see him.

WTF, I hate moids now.

 

[Vlad the Implier]

however I do draw the line when it comes to commies and brown-people lovers.

I hate taking selfies and dislike having my photo taken in general.

Kill two birds with one stone: Make your profile picture a pic of you in a KKK hood. Weeds out the browns AND you don't have to show your face, everybody wins!

This solution is far cheaper, however I'd like to make the following suggestion:
1. Go on vacation in Israel.
2. Hire a competent local photographer.
3. Get your photo taken doing things there. Visit Jewish or Christian holy sites, but very conspicuously omit any Muslim ones. (bonus points if the Israeli flag is visible anywhere) Go swimming in the Dead Sea, enjoy the excellent Mediterranean food, have a great time.

Palestine spergs will seethe on sight of this, meanwhile you now have flattering photos of yourself doing something interesting and nice memories to talk about on dates.

Edit: do this after things calm down in the region, I believe the airspace is currently restricted.