peep_show
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- Aug 2, 2017
I'm sure @peep_show will opine, but I think a resonable person would figure that sex workers, many being reasonable folks themselves, would see "working with" the disabled, disfigured or ugly as part of the job... providing a needed service.. as long as those folks aren't assholes. You know, just like any job. Nurses deliver babies, but they also clean shit off old men. Most jobs have their glamorous and un-glamorous sides and it's all part and parcel.
I'm saying this because IMHO the fact that Russ "engages prostitutes" doesn't make him a bad person. My experience with "sex workers" is limited to bachelor parties, but I think in the US at least there's an undue stigma on the profession itself.
That stigma shouldn't mask the fact that Russ is a grade-A prick who exemplifies the classic "nice guy" - thinking women are all utilities and service providers and nothing more, and that they owe him unrestricted access and relationship-like intimacy for the most mundane of gestures.
Exactly
It's a job like any other. Sometimes you have a great day, other times it's crappy but I've only ever had one booking that squicked me out. In retrospect, I simply should have said no to the booking but there's a learning curve and you learn to be more assertive as you go.
Personally I quite enjoy seeing people with disabilities because I think we're a very isolating society these days as it is, I think a lot of people are starved for simple human touch and many people with disabilities even more so than those without.
I've seen clients on the autism spectrum, which is definitely odd because they're extremely hard to read and don't express themselves much, so you find yourself wondering if they're enjoying themselves or not.
I used to see a lovely guy who had had prostate cancer and was impotent as a result, so he had a pump inserted into his penis. The little button used to inflate the pump was in one of his balls and, negl, I was fascinated with it haha.
I have a regular at the moment who broke his neck simply from tripping over a curb- he can walk etc but it's difficult for him- he hadn't had anyone touch him in a gentle, intimate way for around 6 years. He was so humble and grateful that I didn't make him feel weird, that I was kind and sincere... He's a big (not penis haha) older man, 100% not my sort at all but I feel good knowing that I can bring some happiness into his day when he sees me.
I'd much rather a decent man with a pump in his dick than a good looking younger guy with a big ego. And I'd much rather do my job than many others (unless it's my own little second hand bookshop).