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Plagued Nice Guys
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Tanti-Fanti
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:horrifying::horrifying::horrifying:
Imagine being so pathetic that you think that a woman will fuck you because you jizzed in her coffee. You'll totally get noticed now!
Seriously, what else did he think that was going to happen? That'd she magically jump into bed with him? The effort these guys through to be creeps is so astounding. You could put less effort into being a decent person and you'd still find a decent girl. These people are not only absolutely awful, but they're also lazy too.
As stated before in this thread, I really think the main drive for these people are their entitlement. They probably grew up in a well-off family, never having to worry about anything serious or needing to grow up and be an adult and when they realized life didn't get them everything they wanted like in a Lifetime or romcom movie, they threw a tandrum like a child. Once again, I find it odd that no matter what, it's always the woman that's the victim that is in the wrong here. Do these people even have the ability to mature and self-reflect even just a little bit?
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According to OP, who posted this on Reddit:
"I met this dude at a pub less than 2 weeks ago. We hung out a few times, I decided it wasn’t for me. In the past 24 hours I have received 40+ messages of an unfiltered emotional denial of rejection. If all peaches are like this peach..."
So it's not like they were longtime friends or anything, they literally met less than 2 weeks ago and he's already proclaiming his love for her and flipping out at rejection this badly. Also, note that messages 1-5 all happened in the span of 8 minutes. He's acting like she "broke up" with him in the cruelest way possible when in reality her initial message was incredibly eloquent and polite.
Also, "I can be the greatest peach there is but everyone fucken hates peaches" needs to be random.txt.
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"I like warhammer and PC gaming" No one really cares lol. It's funny when people are obviously insecure about their hobbies (mostly nerdy types)
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Your circle is small and weird if you think that anyone cares that you play Warhammer.
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If you have to brag to anyone that you're special because you play ___ you really need to get a life honestly.
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Pretty sure my SO would care if I spent the equivalent of a Caribbean vacation on pewter figurines and nerdmath books.
Dude doesn't have a girl because he's broke from buying nerd junk instead of booze and a decent wardrobe/stylist
I was just thinking that myself actually.
It couldn't be clearer that the woman put so much thought into the message she sent, obviously wanting to let this guy down as gently as she could. The firm but gentle touch she approaches the situation with meets a truly breathtaking contrast when the guy retaliates with a bombardment of barely articulate replies. I think my favorite moment's got to be when he complains about the 'rick move' she's pulled on him and then takes the time to prissily correct his typo in the next reply. As if that misspelling was the only problem with the bile he spewed at her.
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Only a real nice guy would turn international woman's day into "lol this is stopping me from getting laid. you should date a masculine guy like me. please date me. I'm so lonely."
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I think anime is a symptom, the cause I think is social isolation that has increased in past 20 years or so. People can spend their entire young lives of the internet, surrounding themselves with only what they want to see, not the truth of reality.
I think you'll see things get worse as hugboxes grow their walls higher. For both Men and Women.
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I mentioned it either here or in the incel thread but yes, this is only going to get worse. You now already see little kids being brought up by tablets with broadband internet. This is not healthy.
Also playing video games is not a real hobby. It's just not. I'd made exceptions for those crazy people that build faux cockpits for their flight simulators and so on but playing some random MMO or skyrim with waifu mods for 80 hours a week is not a hobby. It's escapism. It doesn't give you any useful skills, it doesn't really help you grow, it's fast food for the brain. Just like the nerd version of cheap romance novels for catladies.
Also playing video games is not a real hobby. It's just not. I'd made exceptions for those crazy people that build faux cockpits for their flight simulators and so on but playing some random MMO or skyrim with waifu mods for 80 hours a week is not a hobby. It's escapism. It doesn't give you any useful skills, it doesn't really help you grow, it's fast food for the brain. Just like the nerd version of cheap romance novels for catladies.
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And yet there are Warhammer players that get married, even have kids. Either he completely lacks confidence or like you said, he's broke because he has no control with his spending. He sees sets he wants and has to buy all of them NOW
A lot of wives support their husband's passions. You just can't let your hobby encompass your entire fucking life
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That's my point. All he can do is define himself by Warhammer and video games. Nigga can't even say "I volunteer with a local animal shelter" or "I make artisnal hipster shit as a side hustle.".
Take up golf or something at least. It's expensive as fuck but you get exercise, have to socialize, and sometimes the cart girls are cute.
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Nice guys are what make dating difficult for normal guys, because women try to be decent and mature and get shit like this thrown at them and then they're justifiably hesitant about giving a chance to anyone.
"Cultural Marxists of the Deep State" sounds like one of the silly names we could've made up for the group of organized Chris trolls.
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It's a good band name.
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Nigga thinks Bill Whittle is the to answer his sex life.
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His post summed up: "yeah, I play video games, but im not like those soy boy cucks, im a real man! now, gimmie dat pussay!!!!!!"
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You're mostly right. I will say that games can be a "constructive" hobby (for lack of a better term) if they can be used to connect to people. You're a guy who likes games and you meet a girl who does too and you can have good conversations about it? Great. Same goes for warhammer or chess or competitive hot dog eating or whatever. My uncle met his wife because he likes flying kites and he went to a kite meet-up in the park that she was at, and I think kites are the faggiest hobby that doesn't involve rapidly slamming phalluses down your throat (like competitive hot dog eating). But it worked for him.
Now where you are absolutely correct is that using an activity as escapism is not a way to build yourself or make connections. Play final fantasy for a few hours a week and then go to a game meet-up and talk to girls who also like final fantasy, like the industry and its weird history, "video games as art" discussions, so on? Great. Play for 80 hours straight and break your controller because Noctis is too busy eating hot dogs to get you that rare weapon drop you need for an achievement? Well fuck off fag, escaping humanity runs contrary to engaging humanity and you're going to die alone.
We all need escapism, but there has to be a balance. I also think hobbies that are physically active rate higher than ones that aren't, health is not only attractive but it makes you feel better which makes your personality more attractive.
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Hobbies are something you spend like a few hours on per week. Obsessions are something you revolve everything else in your life around because it comes before all else going on.
80 hours a week is when you need to sit down with yourself and work out your priorities.
Obsessions as kids, that's fine. Kids fixate on things while growing up. They're kids and they do other stupid shit like make masks out of cardboard and run around screaming "I AM AN OWL" (thanks, sis). It's not uncommon.
Obsessions as an adult, to the point of it being all you talk about (or at least the subject of most of your conversations) is a problem. Especially if it's an expensive obsession. Sure, for some people, escapism is necessary. That's fine. But if that's the only thing you really talk about with people, you need to expand your social circle a bit (usually people with similar likes/hobbies/obsessions hang out together), and possibly get more variety with what you choose to do with your free time
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