Dylan Hafertepen / Dylan Häs / noodlesandbeef / ekigyuu / beefdumplings / California Cow / dylanhasdesign - Gay BDSM Muscle-Bear with Ball Inflation Fetish Linked to 3 Deaths

[Zenspacecowboy]

the bear community is laced with insecurity, that is the sad part. i have heard stories about alot of emotional and mental abuse.

This is true and the hard pill to swallow that some wont admit that some bears use polyamory to feed their egos and not truly expressing their sexuality freely. Obviously this isn't a catch all thing but it is out there.

 

[thebigbadwolfie]

the bear community is laced with insecurity

Understatement of the year. The bear community is built on insecurity, and is pretty much rotten to the core as a whole.

The majority of bears were the fat unpopular faggot from school. They found this "accepting, loving" scene that suddenly told them that all the things that they used to get teased for (being fat hairy and unattractive) are super hot and 'woofy' and that now they're sex symbols.

The effect of this is like pouring gasoline on an open flame. Their egos erupt with conceitedness and arrogance. Add in some basic catty gay bitchiness that they learned from RuPaul's Drag Race and a lot of them are deeply shitty individuals.

There's an interesting observable effect of all this though - individuals never go anywhere without other bears. They live inside this 'bear bubble' where being a fat neckbeard with backhair is deemed super hot - but outside the bubble they're still fat unattractive losers. They hate being reminded of this, so many of them go out of their way to avoid that reality.

Another interesting thing to note is the effect of the internet on the bear scene. So much now comes down to how good you look in photos - and shorter guys photograph with 'stockier' (more ideal) proportions to taller guys. So, weirdly now - the guys that become well-known globally are generally fuckin' midgets.

The bear scene has been around for a good 30 years or so now and it's evolved a lot. Steroid use is now rife and endemic. "Musclebears" changed the scene so that the purely fat guys were no longer at the top of the tree, and so they all jumped on the juice. But the ideal is very much the 'powerlifter' look as exemplified by Dylan's pack of pups - because it still takes effort to lose the flab, and they just want a pill.

Also, the scene has also been giving itself a hard time of late due to the fact that it's overwhelmingly white. If you really want to annoy a bear who's PC (this is most of them) - just point out that there are no 'people of color' in that event he went to. Heh.

All of this kinda points to creating Dylan.

 

[sibling issues]

Understatement of the year. The bear community is built on insecurity, and is pretty much rotten to the core as a whole.

The majority of bears were the fat unpopular faggot from school. They found this "accepting, loving" scene that suddenly told them that all the things that they used to get teased for (being fat hairy and unattractive) are super hot and 'woofy' and that now they're sex symbols.

The effect of this is like pouring gasoline on an open flame. Their egos erupt with conceitedness and arrogance. Add in some basic catty gay bitchiness that they learned from RuPaul's Drag Race and a lot of them are deeply shitty individuals.

There's an interesting observable effect of all this though - individuals never go anywhere without other bears. They live inside this 'bear bubble' where being a fat neckbeard with backhair is deemed super hot - but outside the bubble they're still fat unattractive losers. They hate being reminded of this, so many of them go out of their way to avoid that reality.

Another interesting thing to note is the effect of the internet on the bear scene. So much now comes down to how good you look in photos - and shorter guys photograph with 'stockier' (more ideal) proportions to taller guys. So, weirdly now - the guys that become well-known globally are generally fuckin' midgets.

The bear scene has been around for a good 30 years or so now and it's evolved a lot. Steroid use is now rife and endemic. "Musclebears" changed the scene so that the purely fat guys were no longer at the top of the tree, and so they all jumped on the juice. But the ideal is very much the 'powerlifter' look as exemplified by Dylan's pack of pups - because it still takes effort to lose the flab, and they just want a pill.

Also, the scene has also been giving itself a hard time of late due to the fact that it's overwhelmingly white. If you really want to annoy a bear who's PC (this is most of them) - just point out that there are no 'people of color' in that event he went to. Heh.

All of this kinda points to creating Dylan.

thats why dylan and his pups always cry out racism and other buzzwords

 

[Running Corgi]

Thank you all so very much for this topic. I was shocked, but also kinda relieved to find it a few days after N&B had posted his last newsletter (was getting a bit worried since he titled it Final Post 1/3, and never sent the other two parts – even though the second part is probably what’s on his site right now). As a self-proclaimed bear chaser (or more likely online admirer, since I’ve never done any gay things in real life, and unlikely to), I’ve been following Noodles and the people in his circle for a few years now. That kind of lifestyle is obviously fascinating – parties, travels and the whole group dynamic, at least it’s all a lonely low self-esteem person without a father figure or much friends can wish for; however, this proves at least to me that it’s much better (or safer) to read about it or fap to the pictures from time to time than actually signing a contract and getting saline, silicone or whatever abuse injected into you among other things.


Roughly a month ago, on his Twitter, he posted a few of those furry-bulgy stickers that appear before in the thread, in a very visual-novel-like setting, musing about an idea of making a game out of it. I commented “Just don’t do a Doki Doki and kill everyone but yourself.” Now it feels really bad and scary. From what little I saw, Tank seemed like a wonderful person. Hopefully it ends well for the rest of the guys, and maybe Dylan learns his lesson eventually, even though it’s kinda hard to believe.

 

[chimpgimp]

The issue with male genital implants is that a lot of it is sponge tissue, which is really delicate from a surgical standpoint and really easy to ruin; you've got like a 95% chance of rendering yourself permanently flaccid. Ball implants that just fill up the "empty space" could be possible, but I'm unaware of any products/procedures that fill that niche. Besides that, you'd need to slowly stretch the skin to make room for bigger and bigger implants, which would be really expensive and dangerous. Modern breast implants are actually really safe when compared to any potential dick implants.

Well there are those neutering replacement fake balls for canines... but that would imply they need to castrate then implant.

https://www.neuticles.com/facts.php

 

[totse]

Ball bearings are probably cheaper

 

[Zenspacecowboy]

Understatement of the year. The bear community is built on insecurity, and is pretty much rotten to the core as a whole.

The majority of bears were the fat unpopular faggot from school. They found this "accepting, loving" scene that suddenly told them that all the things that they used to get teased for (being fat hairy and unattractive) are super hot and 'woofy' and that now they're sex symbols.

The effect of this is like pouring gasoline on an open flame. Their egos erupt with conceitedness and arrogance. Add in some basic catty gay bitchiness that they learned from RuPaul's Drag Race and a lot of them are deeply shitty individuals.

There's an interesting observable effect of all this though - individuals never go anywhere without other bears. They live inside this 'bear bubble' where being a fat neckbeard with backhair is deemed super hot - but outside the bubble they're still fat unattractive losers. They hate being reminded of this, so many of them go out of their way to avoid that reality.

Another interesting thing to note is the effect of the internet on the bear scene. So much now comes down to how good you look in photos - and shorter guys photograph with 'stockier' (more ideal) proportions to taller guys. So, weirdly now - the guys that become well-known globally are generally fuckin' midgets.

The bear scene has been around for a good 30 years or so now and it's evolved a lot. Steroid use is now rife and endemic. "Musclebears" changed the scene so that the purely fat guys were no longer at the top of the tree, and so they all jumped on the juice. But the ideal is very much the 'powerlifter' look as exemplified by Dylan's pack of pups - because it still takes effort to lose the flab, and they just want a pill.

Also, the scene has also been giving itself a hard time of late due to the fact that it's overwhelmingly white. If you really want to annoy a bear who's PC (this is most of them) - just point out that there are no 'people of color' in that event he went to. Heh.

All of this kinda points to creating Dylan.

You blew the damn lid on this whole fucking thing. I went around it in a nicer way but this needed to be said.

The toxic nature of the scene is why I stay away from it, it's super tribal even compared to other gay subcultures.
I've gone to a few outings and you can spot how it is pretty quickly.

 

[Big Nasty]

Well, bears have this rock-solid image as happy-go-lucky party boys. It's very interesting to see these revealing counterpoints to that.

 

[Zenspacecowboy]

Well, bears have this rock-solid image as happy-go-lucky party boys. It's very interesting to see these revealing counterpoints to that.

That image is a facade, it's tribal and cliquey. Not even white bears (who are the majority in the scene) can move into certain groups in the community sometimes cause some bears and their friends are gatekeeping assholes.

Wont even get started on the stories POC bears share which isn't pleasant.

 

[glass_houses]

That image is a facade, it's tribal and cliquey. Not even white bears (who are the majority in the scene) can move into certain groups in the community sometimes cause some bears and their friends are gatekeeping assholes.

Wont even get started on the stories POC bears share which isn't pleasant.

Please, tell us more, tell us more. I know it's a little fftopic: but this entire subculture is fascinating. It also gives a great deal of insight on Jack's background, and his fellow harem members.

 

[The Un-Clit]

Also I've been wondering, are there silicone implants available to make your dick and balls bigger, similar to implants for breasts? I know that people get small implants like beads and ridges but I've never heard of ones to make them bigger. I know that silicone breasts implants can and do burst, but at least it isn't free silicone.

Is free silicone injection more popular because it's cheaper and much less invasive, or is there a reason you can't put larger implants in your balls and dick?

I cannot imagine there is a big market for making your cock so big you can't stick it anywhere so I doubt there are any reputable manufacturers of such implants, if any manufacturers at all. It seems to all be free injections into the meat, which is why it's so dangerous.

Also,

Yeah, it's nice to see. somewhat related to Dylan, there's another abusive bear who's social media famous although nowhere near as huge as Dylan in Florida. I hope due to this incident guys like this are cut down quickly in the community.

If you have lots of information on this guy, and particularly social media posts which can be snapshotted and/or archived, and if he fits the definition of a horrorcow, check the details on 'how to create a new thread' at the top of the Lolcow general forum and if everything fits, feel free to spill the beans on his ass here.

 

[Zenspacecowboy]

Please, tell us more, tell us more. I know it's a little fftopic: but this entire subculture is fascinating. It also gives a great deal of insight on Jack's background, and his fellow harem members.

POC in the community at large tend to be either desexualized or fetishized but the bear scene can be its own special kind of hell. Older white bears really go after asian twinks so they can dominate them and consent seems to be lacking.

I had a few guys tell me how grabby they can be at parties. Dylan isn't into other POC which is why his pups are always white he has said he can't date anyone darker than him. He also suffers from dysmorphia so the lack of self esteem explains the harems so he can feel more important than he is.

I can lead you to podcasts catered to the community that talks about this kind of stuff.

 

[sibling issues]

POC in the community at large tend to be either desexualized or fetishized but the bear scene can be its own special kind of hell. Older white bears really go after asian twinks so they can dominate them and consent seems to be lacking.

I had a few guys tell me how grabby they can be at parties. Dylan isn't into other POC which is why his pups are always white he has said he can't date anyone darker than him. He also suffers from dysmorphia so the lack of self esteem explains the harems so he can feel more important than he is.

I can lead you to podcasts catered to the community that talks about this kind of stuff.

oh my fucking god, how about the fucking obsession with latin men. there is a serious thirst for latin dick...the moment one becomes single...they literally get swarmed by thirsty gay raptors. i have also seen the other way around with black men, they are more often really fucking fucking perverted fucks OR they are betas

 

[GethN7]

I for one will not bitch and moan about whatever kinky shit adults want to do with each other so long as it's legal, consensual, and reasonably safe for all parties (as in, there is a chance for anyone and everyone to back out before serious and irreparable harm is done to all parties concerned, like in BDSM)

This, however is a sickening mix of a sociopath driven by his turn-ons that is emotionally, financially, and physically abusing emotionally vulnerable men because he see them as strips of meat he can cut up in a slaughterhouse, not people with feelings and free will.

Dylan comes off as a menace projecting his sexual insecurities onto other men and torturing them to feel better about himself, as he's clearly enjoying being the "alpha dog" amongst his "pups", and making sure the world's gay men know he's a danger to them all is nothing less than a public service from where I'm sitting.

 

[sibling issues]

I for one will not bitch and moan about whatever kinky shit adults want to do with each other so long as it's legal, consensual, and reasonably safe for all parties (as in, there is a chance for anyone and everyone to back out before serious and irreparable harm is done to all parties concerned, like in BDSM)

This, however is a sickening mix of a sociopath driven by his turn-ons that is emotionally, financially, and physically abusing emotionally vulnerable men because he see them as strips of meat he can cut up in a slaughterhouse, not people with feelings and free will.

Dylan comes off as a menace projecting his sexual insecurities onto other men and torturing them to feel better about himself, as he's clearly enjoying being the "alpha dog" amongst his "pups", and making sure the world's gay men know he's a danger to them all is nothing less than a public service from where I'm sitting.

well, i think the more we find, the easier it will be for people to know what kind of man he is...after all..if you look up his name you will get this thread

hi dylan

 

[Farmhand Luke]

Please, tell us more, tell us more. I know it's a little fftopic: but this entire subculture is fascinating. It also gives a great deal of insight on Jack's background, and his fellow harem members.

Please don't get your views of an entire culture from the bitterest queens with an axe to grind about how they didn't like the scene of whatever party they went to. If this is really what we want to talk about, I'm pretty sure I came across posts by Jack/Tank talking about these same things, cliques and bears vs. twinks and gatekeeping and where it comes from and blah blah blah. Literally every gay person has views on gay culture and the problems with it and its basis in insecurities. But this is supposed to be a thread about this specific guy who emotionally abused his boyfriend for years until he finally killed him. This is getting kinda ridiculous.

 

[thebigbadwolfie]

This, however is a sickening mix of a sociopath driven by his turn-ons that is emotionally, financially, and physically abusing emotionally vulnerable men because he see them as strips of meat he can cut up in a slaughterhouse, not people with feelings and free will.

Well, I'm in the minority on this, and I don't think anyone seeing things this way is necessarily wrong - but I think it's more of a perfect storm of narcissistic guy with body dysmorphia meets pathologically submissive guy with body dysmorphia. They fed each other the necessary components for them both to be total fuckups.

I don't think there was necessarily any 'coercion' needed for Tank to get the silicone - there wasn't much talk from Dylan about how pleased he was with Tanks's junk - and the other pups don't seem to have it. Although he might've regretted it - he went back and had more. I don't really think now that Dylan 'forced' him.

But as I say, minority on this. Don't crucify me, it's just my opinion.

Another thing about the bear community - displayed often by Tank and sometimes Dylan - is the fucking infantilisation that's been growing in recent years. Grown ass men acting like pre-pubescent kids (I'm not suggesting any sexual aspect to it) - playing with toys, cuddly bears - it's fucking ridiculous to watch.

 

[nertz]

well, i think the more we find, the easier it will be for people to know what kind of man he is...after all..if you look up his name you will get this thread

hi dylan

Also nuking his internet footprint kind of leaves this as one of the only references to him in general.

*slow clap*

 

[sibling issues]

Also nuking his internet footprint kind of leaves this as one of the only references to him in general.

*slow clap*

hey dylan, you just managed to get the kiwis known for something that is actually good, considering you nuked your stuff, but just remember...we will always find a way..there is no escape

 

[Umaibae]

Dude, the gay community is up in arms about this. Gay twitter being pissed about this is how I first heard about it, before this thread was even up. There are like a dozen gay tumblr blogs specifically devoted to spilling the tea on this shit and making sure everyone knows what a piece of shit Dylan is. Hell, I think there are more than a dozen gay people in this thread calling this shit out. I've see practically no one trying to defend Dylan. Nobody is circling the wagons, dude. People need to stop acting like gay people are just letting this happen or fucking supporting it. The gays are fucking pissed.

I've now seen a LOT of gay dudes I'm friends with post about this online, and a friend of mine was also apparently friends with Tank; his FB post has made the rounds in some of the screenshot dumps. People are very upset.