Adding on to that, the few exceptions to where bragging on about sexuality would make sense is in a dating sim that takes the piss out of humping all the things.
For race, I prefer an understated design that sticks out without being ugly. Real-world references of normal citizens help a lot, even with making uglified characters.
It's possible to have fuck-off huge noses without making the rest of the face look misshapen like a propaganda poster when you balance it out with appealing features. Then again, constantly using only one ethnic feature will not give diversity either.