I agree. It's moral nitpicking, kind of. There still appears to be an inherent belief that women cannot and do not rape or otherwise harm children, because that's just a thing "women don't do" (as opposed to men, who are drooling rapists barely being able to restrain themselves). I don't have any sources at hand right now, but I've been reading about female rape (of male and female children) every now and again out of morbid curiosity, and some of the key points were:
- women in general have easier and unrestricted access to children, which nobody questions
- inappropriate behavior is often downplayed and merely considered "motherly", even when the woman pays an alarming amount of attention to a child's genitals
- it's often the children who are blamed for "needing extra attention", and it's considered to be mostly normal when a woman shares a bed with children
- do I even need to mention the breastfeeding nuts who nurse their children forever? That's absolutely for their own sexual gratification
That said, women seem to also be a lot more subtle about the whole thing, and I yet have to see a forum of (legit) women writing about how they want to rape hoooooooooot lil boyz and girlz, which gives us the likely false impression that it's only men that do the abusing. Women are simply smarter about it, like they probably are with murder. They don't usually go on killing sprees that get them lots of attention, they quietly do their thing and often go unnoticed. Anyway, that's my theory.
Edit: I just realized I still don't know whether female pedos are actually attracted to children, like their male counterparts claim to be, or if it's all about power/sexual gratification/revenge fantasies for them. And I sure won't dig deeper than I already have to find out. Maybe there's a person out there who can provide some insight?