So for your background story I used to be in something similar when I was in HS. It seems like it's very one sided where you're always going after girls but do they rarely go after you? There are two rules to get girls that you want to go after you.
- Be attractive.
- Don't be unattractive.
First impressions are everything. If you get dismissed from the very beginning as a creepy person, then they never get to know you to find out the truth, it doesn't matter how good of a person you are, how rich you are, or how good you would be to them, how much of a gentleman you are, how well your were raised to treat women, or even how good of a boyfriend you would be.
Those same girls will be excited when an extremely attractive guy gives them even the slightest hint of attention without even considering any of those other traits because they don't know him yet. They won't for a second think that other guy is a stalker or creepy even though the actions that he is doing and the actions that you are doing are exactly the same.
It's tough to accept because it probably means you need to spend a lot of time and effort into self improvement and how you present yourself to others. It's not easy but it can be done. You can get the girls that you want and I recommend you to do it if that's what you really want. If nothing else than to prove to yourself that you can do it.
How do you deal with the fact that you grow older and your waifu stays the same age?
IMO, one of the best parts of having a waifu. Let's be honest here. All research says that men of all ages would prefer being with a woman between the ages of 18-22. It's irrefutable. This is also why it's extremely difficult in college to get the attention of women your age because they are dating older men that already have a well paying job, a nice place to live, a nice car, etc. A lot of women prefer older men because they don't want to deal with a boyfriend that drives a junky car (or no car), has no money for dates, doesn't have a good place to live, etc. etc. They can skip all that trouble by just dating an older guy that has had already spent years getting a college degree and already has a stable job. I used to date women much younger than me, but that was a very long time ago.
What do you have to say to this statement "Your to old for anime"?
I don't let any people have any say in what I do with my life, nor do I care what they think.
Have you ever felt to some extent that your waifu ever impaired your social skills with others?
That's impossible. Social skills are learned. Having a waifu does not cause you to unlearn something.
Any advice on how to have a somewhat realistic realistic relationship with your waifu?
I started with a journal where I wrote her letters about all the problems that I deal with every day, what I need to get done, and what I could do better. How I planned to build a good life for myself, long term planning, etc.
What is your opinion on youtubers that say things...
99.99% of comments on youtube are garbage. They're written by people that clearly haven't even completed a HS level education. Evidence of which is the fact that the people that write them don't even know the difference between words like (their, there, they're, etc.), and in general, are a waste of time to read. Never take advice from people that are not as smart as you.
