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they got guts to come here, and i don't mean that as a threat, i mean that as damn they probably get harassed a lot, sadly.

Agreed. I'm fine with trannies as long as they aren't the screeching type that scream about shit like the US government wanting to literally kill trans people by not letting them serve in the military. Does that mean I'll harass them? No.
 
Agreed. I'm fine with trannies as long as they aren't the screeching type that scream about shit like the US government wanting to literally kill trans people by not letting them serve in the military. Does that mean I'll harass them? No.

yeah i'm right there with you. powerlevel, but i got friends online who are trannies who are pretty cool. and get this- they dont even mind slurs. definitely not the autistic type lmao
 
I have begun to suspect that doods who aggressively remind you at every opportunity that MtF Trans people "ArE REEEEElLy MeN" are just trying to obscure the fact they have terabytes of Baily Jay porn on their pc. I see guys doing it all the time and after a while I just gotta wonder who their trying to prove something to.
 
I have begun to suspect that doods who aggressively remind you at every opportunity that MtF Trans people "ArE REEEEElLy MeN" are just trying to obscure the fact they have terabytes of Baily Jay porn on their pc. I see guys doing it all the time and after a while I just gotta wonder who their trying to prove something to.

You've hit the nail on the head, which is bittersweet for me because I have wanted to post something to this effect for a week! Unless a guy has a personal vendetta against transgenders because his girlfriend took testosterone and left him, or his dad got a sex change, his inordinate interest in male to female transgenders is a HUGE red flag that there's something deeper there.
 
I dont really know why people get so obsessed with trans people. Yes i get it that some of the tumblr crowd are wacky but I dont get the level of obsession and vitriol directed at what is really a very very small minority of people who are fairly passive and unassuming in day to day life.

I have heard many explanations ranging from the classical "people (usually men) are threatened by them because it makes them question their own identity" all the way up to what @Heckler1 just said.
 
It’s so odd yet comforting that some of you have had nice experiences with transgender people. Idk what it is, but damn near every trans person I met has been unstable to some degree. Mind you, they were all on the internet, so maybe irl trannies are more normal, but they’ve been catty, unstable, quick to anger, and so far left that they practically loop around to the right wing. It kind of makes me cautious whenever I hear about them.
 
It’s so odd yet comforting that some of you have had nice experiences with transgender people. Idk what it is, but damn near every trans person I met has been unstable to some degree. Mind you, they were all on the internet, so maybe irl trannies are more normal, but they’ve been catty, unstable, quick to anger, and so far left that they practically loop around to the right wing. It kind of makes me cautious whenever I hear about them.
I think this is because it's exactly these sorts of people who will screech their gender/sex/whatever identity to the world. A lot of normal trans people don't advertise their identity because, y'know, they want to be a normal person of the desired sex. This and the internet's ability to bring out one's inner fuckwad likely skews the perceived demographic a bit.

That's just my pet theory, though.
 
I dont really know why people get so obsessed with trans people. Yes i get it that some of the tumblr crowd are wacky but I dont get the level of obsession and vitriol directed at what is really a very very small minority of people who are fairly passive and unassuming in day to day life.
It triggers alarms in some deep seated neurology meant for identifying if something is a mate or not. Brain doesn't like things fucking with its pattern recognition or narrative generating software. Its the uncanny valley for sex, and those unpleasant feelings get projected to other external explanations (because the brain wants a narrative that makes sense so very badly). Troons are very good at providing a big heaping kernel of truth for an obsession for that type of person to build on.
 
It triggers alarms in some deep seated neurology meant for identifying if something is a mate or not. Brain doesn't like things fucking with its pattern recognition or narrative generating software. Its the uncanny valley for sex, and those unpleasant feelings get projected to other external explanations (because the brain wants a narrative that makes sense so very badly). Troons are very good at providing a big heaping kernel of truth for an obsession for that type of person to build on.

I suppose for some people this is quite distressing. I have never had an expectation for the world to make sense to me so ive never given a shit about what people identify as but i guess some people do.
 
I suppose for some people this is quite distressing. I have never had an expectation for the world to make sense to me so ive never given a shit about what people identify as but i guess some people do.
Have you ever had an uncanny valley response to something like a doll or puppet?
 
Yes.
Are you implying that trans people are artificial constructs like dolls or puppets?
Oh no
Really? You don't have an uncanny valley response to anything? That's interesting if rue.
This was said so I was confused as if you meant you never have had an uncanny valley response or if you had just never had one to trans people.
 
It triggers alarms in some deep seated neurology meant for identifying if something is a mate or not. Brain doesn't like things fucking with its pattern recognition or narrative generating software. Its the uncanny valley for sex, and those unpleasant feelings get projected to other external explanations (because the brain wants a narrative that makes sense so very badly). Troons are very good at providing a big heaping kernel of truth for an obsession for that type of person to build on.
My friend described it well as being like driving in traffic. If you see a car signal left you know what to do. Right you know what to do. If the car in front of you starts signaling in a vague, right-ish lefty direction it's alarming. You don't want to hurt the other driver and you don't want to get hurt but you don't know exactly what to do. The conclusion is usually, just signal in a way I understand.
And for what it's worth I'm just not comfortable sharing spaces designated for the female sex with men, and I would have wanted adults to feel that way back when I still had to worry about things like gym changing rooms and sharing dorms and stuff. It's painful to imagine entering that kind of situation and being commanded to be chill about it.
 
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