Yes, I am Kelli's Bio mum.
@Ido as far as then vs. now he really hasn't changed or grown up at all and is the same "lazy bum" (as
@RisingPheonix stated quite accurately) as when we got divorced. He worked at a comic shop when we met and had absolutely no ambitions beyond that. He only got a job at Target when we moved to California because I got so upset and didn't want to be married to an amoeba.
The thing that struck me the oddest when I heard about him marrying Susan (a famous author he told me) was that she was in California. He despised California, everything about it, and never wanted to be a part of that state again. He even had a shirt that had a picture of a freeway with a "Welcome to Washington sign" on the freeway which had an exit for Californians that dropped into the ocean.
But I suppose, when you're offered free snookums, a place to live, food, it sure beats the heck out of being homeless.